#straight passing

[xxboygutzxx]

Emma and her favorite white boy, this has inaccurate height difference sadly 😞

Also black emma hence rhe caption

[imakequestionablechoices]

and while i’m talking about x reader: I want the Loki x female reader writers to understand that it’s straight in a gay way. like 1/10 loki girlies are straight (source: trust me bro) and he’s bisexual so like embrace it. also his character is genderfluid. there’s so much you can do with that!!

stay with me here

avenger!reader in a relationship with Loki for reasons i have plotted out but am not getting into but the other avengers (thor excluded) don’t put in time to get to know him so when they see the reader going into her room with some random goth chick they’re all super confused and concerned. they just didn’t pay close enough attention to realize that the “random goth chick” literally looks like Loki just slightly more feminine. and Nat and tony are trying to figure out what to do about this and thor walks by and is like “oh her? that’s my sister. you know the one who invaded midgard a few years ago?…are you okay? did someone steal your memories?”

master list

[katmorganrdr]

Tumblr Heart Button during Pride Month when you press it: *does a gay little pose*🌈

Happy pride month everyone!

(I see you, people in a straight passing relationship. My peers, my queers... Happy pride month to you, too!)

🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

[ur-dad-satan]

Shoutout to all the straight passing queer couples. I'm v fem presenting dating a cis guy, but we're bi/gender fluid and pan and we look like a straight couple. We see you, we understand, and we love y'all <3

[neurotypicalabusesurvivor]

privilege = advantage + lack of opression

passing privilege is an advantage but not a privilege.

being low support needs is a advantage not a privilege.

being a bisexual in a straight passing relationship is a advantage not a privilege.

[imthesumofmyparts]

As a straight passing woman I will never ever expect a women to hit on me first but I do expect them to realize I’m gay after I’ve been flirting with them

I am not a girls girl I wanna eat you out

[the-gladiolus]

Tips For Passing as Male I Accidentally Stumbled Upon While Minding My Own Genderfluid Business:

(Btw everyone deserves to be gendered correctly no matter how they act, these are just some tips that you may try if you would like.)

1. Keep your posture open. Feet shoulder width apart and pointing out, shoulders back, chest forward, energy all directed outward. Even though you may think openness makes your chest or stature more obvious, the energy/confidence is what people notice first, not the content.

2. That said, you don’t have to hold yourself like a peacock the whole time. I’ve learned that people go off the assumption they make when first meeting you, and then don’t really look again - so if the first thing they see is a cis guy, you can relax after that, they rarely double check.

3. When it seems appropriate, offer a handshake when meeting people, especially other guys, and hold a little tighter than is strictly natural. I know it sounds stupid, but it goes far; I’ve been offered more handshakes by guys these past 2 years of somewhat masc presentation than I have all 16 previous years combined. Guys just be shakin hands w/ each other

4. Again, when it makes sense, consider “dapping up” a guy if you know each other, traditionally when you part ways. To do this, proffer your dominant hand in a loose C shape like you’re holding an invisible cup, and when they clasp theirs with yours, lift the hands a few inches in the air and then lower them and release on the way down (sometimes accompanied by opposite hand on the tricep/shoulder, I.e. bro hug. Istg the things men do 💀)

5. If you have the space and it won’t annoy anyone, manspread a bit when you sit

6. Keep your head lifted when you’re out in public - makes your jaw look broader and suggests confidence, I.e. keeping posture open

7. If you want your voice to sound lower, try humming a low note while you’re alone to see how that feels in your throat and know where that timbre comes from in your chest. It’s easier to regulate your voice on command when you experiment, find the strings to pull in yourself to bring out the low sound.

8. Consider peppering in an “as much as the next guy” in conversation. Subtle phrase, but stakes your claim clearly

9. Exude some extra anti-shyness around guys. Make a point to nod to them in greeting and make eye contact like it’s the most natural thing in the world. Little gestures of brazenness go a long way to say “we’re the same”

10. When speaking to a group of guys, try matching their vocal patterns and tone: if they say “like” and “dude” a lot for example, pepper those in too. This works in all situations actually, it will make you seem agreeable and similar to anyone, but it especially works well when you’re trying to blend in with a crowd

11. Clothes with flannel and wool are really good for disguising characteristics you might want to hide

12. Try darkening these areas (outlined in blue) of your face with eyeshadow a bit darker than your skin tone. Eyeshadow blends with skin texture better than things like foundation and it’s hard to smudge, so it’s usually unnoticeable while it adds depth and sharpness to these areas.

[noyouwerebeautiful]

reminder that queer4queer straight passing relationships should never convince you it's okay to be straight.