Am I late to the I hate america(ns) party? I immigrated here & the way some people, esp those who work in hospitals, schools, & other public service jobs treat non-English speakers with that "im not trying to be rude but this is America & its your responsibility to learn English" attitude gets on my nerves. Thats a direct quote from someone I had dinner with & I wanted to say, "you live in south FL with a high pop. of spanish speakers. It's your responsibility to learn a little spanish."
I’m in two minds about this. Firstly, people who call out other that are struggling to learn a language are absolute arseholes. Languages are difficult and also there are people who assume because someone speaks with a non-native accent that their spoken language is poor, fuck those cunts. It costs nothing to just be kind and understanding with people. The US and their ‘you’re in America, speak English’ is fucking jokes ‘cause they’re not English nor are they in England. America is a bastard nation who have no claim to anything, speak whatever language you wish.
The other side, this is perhaps specific to certain cultures or perhaps it’s more common, idk. I have an aunt who emigrated a lot later than my mum and her other siblings and when she and her husband arrived here She knew no English, we live in England, and because there’s a large South Asian community and her husband got a job working with other Indians and my aunt was a housewife, neither of them learnt the language. This became a problem for my cousins who had to grow up waaaaay too fast and started learning about finances and such from too young of an age and were translating adult thing and had adult worries when they shouldn’t have.
So I understand your side but I do also think it’s important to work towards learning the language of the country you’re in, not appease the racists and idiots but to make your and your children’s lives easier. I mean, most of my cousins are going off to uni now and my aunt and her husband are gonna struggle when they’re alone.
It’s just a personal experience. I know some of my asian school friends shared the same problem.