#swers

[kissmethroughthebone]

heavy on princess treatment, because:

I can do it myself, why shouldn't you? I can afford to get myself elaborate jewelry and exquisite clothes, wonderful outings, and more. Why would I accept a walk down a random city street and negging?

Statistics show that people view a man better if he's seen with an attractive woman, because they assume he bought all the great things she's wearing, or that he must be something truly special to have bagged her. So, make him bag something for you, otherwise he's labelled as a richie-rich and gets tons of worship foooooooooor.... adding nothing to your life and taking up space. Do you want to be Cinderella as she starves with rats and miserable, or will you allow a man who insists on being around you to upgrade your life?

Also, we know you'd do the same for him. I know that I'm a gifts love language person, for giving AND receiving, so if I'm doing the most, a man cannot be doing less than I am for myself, what I let my friends do for me, and what I desire as well. Anything less is a self-betrayal, and a man can lessen/resent you in his mind for that, (silly psychology BS,) and next thing you know, bam, a man trying to have you miserable, and you know you gave him the world. Not it! A thing I've thankfully avoided, amen!

4. A woman's life quality deteriorates if a man enters, he should be adding something. If there's a man trying to get with you or spend time with you, he should do SOMETHING. Otherwise, compliments don't fill your stomach, lust doesn't bring you stability, and dusties don't bring shit but their own issues that they want YOU to solve. And you don't want that, yeah?

5. Men, especially poor or low self-esteem ones, are notorious for fucking up lives. If you're a woman with high standards who insists on the most and never the lesser from a man, he'll instantly be ecstatic. Even the most bummy men I've had to hear the opinions of will say things like "Pussy earned is better than pussy given"... And that holds up. I have good and bad stories surrounding that, but a good one was a guy who knew I only allow mild intimacy with men who give me gifts. And boom, multiple gorgeous expensive pieces, lunch, movies, two dinners, any drinks I wanted, and more, just to even so much as suck a breast. (And yes, I wanted my titties sucked; he just knew I wouldn't allow myself it unless I got gifted things.)

I had another ex of mine who, after a long time invested and investing in my upkeep here and there, taking me out to fancy dinners, cooking for me, attending events together, some jewelry, being supportive during a rare time of peril, and filling my fridge with groceries, and a nice night at a drive-in movie, did we ever have sex, and he was ECSTATIC about the wait, since it made him feel like he was capable of doing big things and won an amazing reward.

5. One man's "You're asking for too much" is another's "That's it?", and I am ethereally protected from dusties and losers because I'll be a magnet to those who are willing to get me anything I desire.

6. I've gotten more out of dating by just being snooty, playful, demanding, and even rude. Like no more sanitizing and trying to be a sweet girl who always eloquently says what she wants, I am with it to the point of being witty about my roasts to a point that it makes a man double-take, get shocked, *and* get hard. A man that blushes and immediately solves his error, realizing there's indeed stakes to the situation, and a woman who will happily tease him without hesitation but not fully pull back? They like it, and suddenly a 50/50 guy is a "Buys jewelry on the first date and adores anything I say, want, or plan to do, and aims to make it better".

A peasant shouldn't even be able to speak to you without thinking of adding to your life, you already know you're that girl, right? And he does too. Don't let a man come in acting like Shrek if you want a Prince Charming (Disney version). Whether you're an Anastasia Romanovna, a Yang Guifei, a Noble Consort Shujia, or an Empress Fuca, you should act and live as royalty and command others to have the same mindset for you to even access your presence. If they don't? Withdraw, they'll love you more for it.

[arikasugar]

you don’t need to be thin to be successful in sw

you don’t need to be thin to be successful in sw

you don’t need to be thin to be successful in sw

you don’t need to be thin to be successful in sw

xoxo

[b10hag]

ass has gotten so fat everyone say “thank you hrt”

[sen-thebootbimbo]

Hey content creators!!!

PASS Issues Preliminary Production Hold, Calling Stop to Work AVN

PASS on Tuesday announced it is issuing a preliminary production hold, asking all industry professionals, including independent content crea

If anyone is doing content that involves fluid transfer, especially with non-exclusive partners, you need to know about this!

PASS has confirmed a positive HIV test at a shoot. Obviously, they have not confirmed who publicly, but known exposures are being contacted to retest and report.

If you have done any fluid transfer content, they are asking all performers (even indie content creators) to halt production until they can confirm containment.

PASS knows that not everyone can just stop working, so if you need to continue, minimize or eliminate fluid transfer during production, and absolutely use condoms or other barrier methods.

Keep an eye on AVN and PASS for updates!

[fucktoyfelix]

There are no children on Onlyfans. They verify ID, bank account, and have ai software that requires a face-matched ID for every face in every photo and video. Yet the right wing anti-sex lobby will repeat this lie over and over until people just accept it as a fact. This is what I’ve been warning people about. 

[jamieannmason]

I just shake my head when I read comments from men who shame SWers.

The way these men discredit and discount and whitewash the value of women who provide their bodies and services for compensation.

Those are the same men who believe that women are to be controlled, without human rights, barefoot, and in the kitchen. These are the same men who support male privilege, misogyny, and superiority.

But also, these are the same men with burner phones and black books with dark secrets who lie to their wives and public persona, who eagerly pay for their kink filled regular date, every Friday night, while justifying and mocking their vanilla partner who doesn't share their piss kink..

[iww-gnv]

Adult dancers in Washington state want a strippers' bill of rights. Here's how it could help them

The bills are the culmination of six years of advocacy work by Strippers Are Workers.

SEATTLE (AP) — For months, Andrea studied for her master’s degree in library sciences between dancing naked at clubs in Seattle. But then she was sexually assaulted at work and slapped by a customer — and nobody stepped in to help. Now, she and hundreds of other strippers in Washington state are fighting for statewide protections that would be the most comprehensive in the U.S., according to advocates. “We shouldn’t be verbally abused for just doing our job and existing,” said Andrea, who has seen a DJ at one club harass dancers if they don’t tip him enough. She avoids the club if he’s there, said the 24-year-old, who would only use her first name. The Associated Press does not identify people who say they have been sexually assaulted. Known as the “strippers’ bill of rights,” proposals being considered in the Legislature would require a security guard at each club, keypad codes to enter dressing rooms, training for employees on preventing sexual harassment, and procedures if a customer is violent. They would also require training on how to de-escalate conflict between dancers, employees and customers, and signs stating that dancers are not required to hand over tips.

[kissmethroughthebone]

I am here for everything.

And anything.

All is here for me and all I deserve. Amen.