You will never be “less valid” as a system for having a low split tolerance, or many fictives, or many fragments, or splitting a lot at once, or switching a lot, or vice versa. You are valid, & I see each & every one of you. You are all so very loved, & I hope that life is not too difficult for you all, being a system is very debilitating, and I hope you’re all able to be okay. My radio broadcast is open for all of you, just give me a call. ♡ 🦌 📻
(Asks about me tagging our other stances on my posts will be ignored, thanks. ♡ I do not care... at all... DNI means DNI)
I don't typically enjoy being vulnerable... but I feel it is important that other introjects know that it's okay to miss things from your source.
It's okay to miss big things, it's okay to miss small things, it's okay to miss things that were not "canonical" in your source.
I miss a piece of clothing I wore. I have it in headspace, but I wish I had it in the outerworld. And that's okay. No matter how small whatever you're missing is, I want you to know that it's okay to miss it. You are not anti-recovery for it, nor are you clinging to your past.
Familiarity is something we all crave, in some form or another. So feel free to grieve.
This is Posystivity! A place for systems to celebrate each other, personal goals, or to just gush about their system! Anything positive goes here :D Other info such as DNI & FAQ are beneath the cut!
Why did you make this blog?
In our time on sysblr, two positivity blogs that we have followed met unfortunate ends... and others we have seen allow the spread of misinformation (nontraumatized systems) on their pages. We believe the system community deserves a trustworthy source of positivity!
What is your DNI?
Mod list ⌄
Our DNI is quite loose; no nontraumatized "systems", no one who promotes harrassment of any kind, no transIDs or radqueers, no racists/zionists/etc, no personality disorder demonizers or fetishizers. This list could be added to in the future.
How should I start my ask?
Starting your ask with "system joy is" or "system positivity is" can be a good format to use if you're unsure how to start! But generally, you can start your ask with whatever you'd like to. We only request that if your submission has anything typically triggering in it, it be tagged accordingly at the beginning of your ask. Thank you!
Mod.🎀 ; main blogrunner, She/Heart/Wing/Love pronouns.
Mod.🧟♂️ ; secondary blogrunner, He/Him pronouns.
Mod.🛸 ; tertiary blogrunner, He/Him pronouns.
All of this blogs mods are parts of The @sovereignsystem. If other members want to participate they will be represented by: guest.[emoji]
I wanna talk abt Miki, a headmate of ours, and why it fucking rules. (He/it pronouns for Miki!)
It was the first alter we became aware of. He fronted more for a longer period of time and suddenly our host's name and pronouns felt wrong. We are figuring all of this out because of Miki. It is a huge calming influence on all of us, as well as getting shit DONE!! He just recently started looking into mobility aids for us because we probably need them but the rest of us have not for one reason or another. Anyways. Miki rocks. Shoutout to Miki
-blurry/unknown
Hell yeah! Shout out to Miki!
That's seriously awesome dude :) hope the rest of your discovery/healing goes smoothly!
