#sysparent

[natalgenic-culture-is]

Being pregnant in-sys is, deciding to document every symptom cause it fascinates you, but also feeling silly for doing so.

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[skwinklesgd]

happy father's day to all the dads in systems ! and especially mine :3

[hypnos-erus]

Holy shit?? I think a baby was just born in my system. The fuck do I do??

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[firstlevelflags]

sysparent

[plural-rambles]

i am the default of our collective. i would lovelovelove to experience pregnancy and have kids. however! i would not be able to handle trying to raise a tiny person who is extremely vulnerable, especially since i can barely take care of myself. (shoutout to tulpas making me take care of the body lol)

my solution (once i'm able to find someone i actually want to implement it with) is do all that, but the offspring is non-sapient. (still sentient, but not sapient, aka capable of higher level consciousness & thought.) i would not be a good dad to a small child, but i could be a great dad to, say, a bunch of kittens. for one, while i'm responsible for their health and safety and, yknow, not abusing them, i'm not responsible for ensuring they grow up into capable and well-adjusted adults in society.

i know it's strange <.< i don't trust myself not to fuck up a tiny person, but i still want something. "Well why not just foster/adopt a kitten!" see the pregnancy part is like, 60-70% of the appeal. not saying you can't love a fostered or adopted little one as much as one you had yourself, but there is a difference in the experience, at least for meself.

idk. i'm still holding out for someone i'd feel comfortable doing it with, since while i love my partners, nnnone of them are really up for it like i am. which is fine! (not in the sense that they're "not up for it" as in not up for a non-normative pregnancy, they just don't want kids lol, which is more than understandable. both are obv but yknow.) i just hope it's something i can experience in the future, near or far, with someone who's as excited and happy about it as i am

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[huddycule]

I love that @natalgenic-culture-is is not only for eresians like originally intended but also sysparents and in-sys pregnancy and anyone part of a natalgenic family ❤️

And I especially love that it's not only a culture-is blog but also a place where people ask for advice and update about how pregnancy and whatnot is going ❤️❤️❤️

-- Trick I. (he/it/xy)

[chronofluffy]

being plural is so dick hold on pause tumblr post maple taffy just yelled in pure shock at director croissant being pregnant post over I need to share this he legitimately just screamed “YOU’RE PREGNANT?!?” I actually choked on my spit don’t ask why the text is gay

[natalgenic-culture-is]

Hi. I'm not quite sure where to ask this but do you know of any advice or resources on helping two headmates that dealt with an in system stillbirth? I know that's probably a strange and potentially triggering ask, I just really don't know to help them and it's making the whole system volatile. I knew alter death was a thing and I knew that perpetual pregnancies/pregnancies starting in system were a thing. I didn't realize that in system death could happen like this though.

I don't have anything, I'm sorry. In our system we have exceptional therapists, and, a god of death and rebirth who retrieved my miscarried son's soul from the Afterlife and gave hxm life anyway. I don't know where to even begin trying to process without that.

-- Trick I. // he/it/xy/she