#sysparent

[natalgenic-culture-is]

Being pregnant in-sys is, deciding to document every symptom cause it fascinates you, but also feeling silly for doing so.

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[skwinklesgd]

happy father's day to all the dads in systems ! and especially mine :3

[hypnos-erus]

Holy shit?? I think a baby was just born in my system. The fuck do I do??

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[huddycule]

I love that @natalgenic-culture-is is not only for eresians like originally intended but also sysparents and in-sys pregnancy and anyone part of a natalgenic family ❤️

And I especially love that it's not only a culture-is blog but also a place where people ask for advice and update about how pregnancy and whatnot is going ❤️❤️❤️

-- Trick I. (he/it/xy)

[chronofluffy]

being plural is so dick hold on pause tumblr post maple taffy just yelled in pure shock at director croissant being pregnant post over I need to share this he legitimately just screamed “YOU’RE PREGNANT?!?” I actually choked on my spit don’t ask why the text is gay

[natalgenic-culture-is]

What do you do if you got your sys partner pregnant but you suddenly feel awful and ashamed because you're not worthy to be a mate or a father? I don't want to avoid my partner but I'm so in my own head that we can't cofront or interact hardly at all in headspace and I miss him so badly. I should be there supporting him through this but I don't know how to get over my fear that I'll be an inadequate dad just like my own. Sorry if this doesn't fit your blog, I just don't know who else to ask.

p.s. as a system who lives in Oregon I hope you can get the funds to move up here! It's got its own problems but it's slightly less of a dumpster fire. Sorry I can't donate but I'm cheering for you :>

{ idk, for us the answer is simply therapy, we have a lot of therapists who work wonders }

{ but some words of encouragement: that fear speaks volumes that you will be a good/better father because you so clearly care and are aware of both your actions and what hurt you. idrk how to address fear that prevents co-fronting and interaction but hopefully that can help ease some of the anxiety }

{ p.s. thank you!! }

[natalgenic-culture-is]

Hi. I'm not quite sure where to ask this but do you know of any advice or resources on helping two headmates that dealt with an in system stillbirth? I know that's probably a strange and potentially triggering ask, I just really don't know to help them and it's making the whole system volatile. I knew alter death was a thing and I knew that perpetual pregnancies/pregnancies starting in system were a thing. I didn't realize that in system death could happen like this though.

I don't have anything, I'm sorry. In our system we have exceptional therapists, and, a god of death and rebirth who retrieved my miscarried son's soul from the Afterlife and gave hxm life anyway. I don't know where to even begin trying to process without that.

-- Trick I. // he/it/xy/she