#system anons

[systemconfessions]

My alters don’t front much. And when they do, it’s mostly cofronting I think. I don’t know if that still counts for having osdd or not... so yeah...

honestly, i’m almost 100% sure that’s a common thing that people are just nervous to talk about. the most important part of it (in my opinion) is working on building trust with your alters, that way you feel safe enough to get the rest you need. it’s something we’re still working on, unless we’re in a crisis the host is out most of the time. it’s totally normal and understandable, especially if you’ve got trust issues.

[systemconfessions]

i feel like my system hates me. I'm usually host, and the only one who really talks to me is my gatekeeper. i have a system friend who's met several of my alters, none of whom talk to me. My system friend knows things about me and my trauma that I don't. I don't know how to move towards healing and working with my DID if i don't know anything about my headmates or what happened. I got here by splitting 3 years ago, and I don't even know what caused that.

i don’t think your system hates you, it’s more likely that they just aren’t able to communicate with you as easily as they can with other members, i suggest setting up a discord server or even just a journal for you guys to leave messages for each other. maybe ask your gatekeeper to pass the message on to your other alters? alternatively maybe ask your gatekeeper to pass messages back and forth? i sincerely doubt they arent communicating out of hate or anger.

[systemconfessions]

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