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Sun, Saturn, and Mars : Our relationship with our father

I recently read an article, Saturn Return with Natal Saturn Retrograde by @first-saturn-return about individuals with Saturn in retrograde idolizing the father figure and internalizing Saturn's qualities to embody how we think an adult should act. I still have years before my Saturn return and wanted to learn how to remediate before my trial period begins ( my Saturn in retrograde returning).

I resonated with this topic and wanted tag onto it...

I have a theory that our Mars can represent how our father/father figures instilled confidence within us fueling our drive, competitive nature, survival instincts, and how we express anger from early childhood.

This is my working theory to further understand the role of the planets and our Psyche based on Freud's psychoanalytical model from the article Id, Ego, and Superego by Saul McLeod.

The Sun( Ego): how we project our energy, the essence of our relationship with our father,

Saturn( Super-Ego): the parental /authority figure, the foundation for ideal behavior

Mars( the ID) : base nature, anger, arousal, hunger/drive, what attracts us to potential partners, instilled confidence, things we observe and learn from early childhood to survive.

For example:

I have a natal Saturn in the 7th House RX

and natal Mars in Libra in the 12th House.

I idolized my father growing up because he was the absent parent, while my mom was always there for me. As a kid, when my parents fought I thought if I became the mediator that I could bring harmony and convince my parents to makeup. I learned that it's not my job as the child to mediate and it's always better for parents to separate than stay in a toxic situation.

I was estranged from my dad during my teen- early college years after acknowledging his lack of accountability and presence in my life.

I deduced that my approach to confrontation and taking action was indirect or internalized for many years. I was afraid of conflict, but always had an inner battle within me. When I would freeze or become silent in confrontation sometimes my subconscious anger I had repressed and built up would resurface and be used as my defense mechanism. Sometimes justifiable righteous anger and sometimes lashing out at the wrong time or person.

My mom moves in life with such consistent tenacity and power (Her Mars in Scorpio). She can get up and complete projects with such focus and force.

My father has ambitious charisma fueling his drive. He can be impatient and has difficulty staying consistent, if he can't see the end goal ( His Mars in Sagittarius).

I'd like to know from my fellow astrology nerds,

How do you express your Martian qualities and did your present/absent father figure impact this growing up?

Thanks for reading. Feel free to tag onto this topic.

Online Source:

Id, Ego, and Superego

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tag rules: answer all questions, add one question of your own, and tag as many people as there are questions

Tagged by @el-corazon-y-la-cabeza Thank ya!  

1. Coke or pepsi: Pepsi

2. Disney or dreamworks: Disney

3. Coffee or tea: Tea

4. Books or movies: Both

5. Windows or Mac: Windows

6. DC or marvel: Marvel

7. Xbox or PlayStation: Playstation

8. Dragon age or mass effect: ummm

9. Night owl or early riser: Either one as long as I get enough sleep for it

10. Cards or chess: Cards

11. Chocolate or vanilla: Chocolate

12. Vans or converse: Converse. 

13. Lavellan , Trevelyan, Cadash or Adaar: ummm I don't know 

14. Fluff or angst:  Both!!  

15. Beach or forest: Forest, its different every time you are in one 

16. Dogs or cats: I’m partial to dogs but I love both!

17. clear skies or rain: I love a good rain storm

18. cooking or eating out: Cooking

19. spicy food or mild food: Mhmm probably mild  

20. halloween/samhain or solstice/yule/christmas: Christmas all the way 

 21. Would you rather forever be a little too cold or a little too hot: too cold, you can always layer clothing up

22. If you could have any superpower, what would it be? Teleportation 

 23. animation or live action: Live Action 

24. paragon or renegade: ummm idk 

25. baths or showers: Bath

26. team cap or team iron man: Team Cap

27. fantasy or sci-fi: sci-fi

28. Do you have three or four favorite quotes? if so what are they: 

“That love is to destroy and to be loved is to be the one destroyed” -Cassandra Clare

“Do not go gentle into that good night, rage, rage against the dying of the light” - Dylan Thomas

“It’s as if there was love and loss at the same time, a kind of beautiful pain” - Erin Morgenstern 

“And in the end, we were all just humans.. drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness” - F. Scott Fitzgerald 

29. netflix or youtube: Netflix

30. harry potter or percy jackson: Hard choice, Percy Jackson 

31. when you feel accomplished: when I do something I didn't think I could 

32. star wars or star trek: Star Wars

33. paperback or hardback: Paperback

34. horror or rom-com: Rom Com all the way 

35. tv shows or movies: Both, but I never seem to finish tv shows all the way through 

36. spotify or pandora: Spotify

37. zootopia or inside out: Inside Out 

38. favorite book: City of Bones by Cassandra Clare 

39. favorite flower: Daisy

40. what field of study are you in (or aspire to be in): Nursing

41. song lyric you really love? "you're ripped at every edge but your a masterpiece"

42. what’s your MBTI type? im not sure 

43. fave movie: I can’t choose just one: Rent, The maze runner, 10 things I hate about you,  Footloose, Safe Haven, Rock of ages, and many more 

44. favorite tv show(s): The 100, Queen of the South, Shadowhunters, Greys Anatomy, Criminal Minds, Lucifer, Altered Carbon. Midnight Texas, AHS, Marvel Runaways and many more.

45. top three authors: Cassandra Clare, Becca Fitzpatrick, Rick Riordan  

46. favorite season? Spring

47. favorite high school musical? The first or last 

48. silver or gold? Gold

49. favorite food? Spaghetti 

50. dream vacation? Touring Spain, visiting Madrid and Barcelona 

51. last dream you remember? um me and my brother jumped into a waterfall then got stung by an eel 

52. city or country: Both, either, doesn't matter to me. I love both.

53. Slow burn or love at first sight: Slow burn. I want them to find their way to loving each other.

54. Favorite band: Panic! At the Disco

Don't know who I would tag so I just did this for fun!!! 

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Todos sabem, tenho uma vida inteira pela frente, um final feliz em todos os finais de tarde e um felizes para sempre quando tudo acabar. Para que tanta pressa, então? Para que ficar me preocupando com bobeiras? Eu tenho que me esquecer disso e seguir em frente, seguir o caminho da felicidade, o caminho que mostrará a resposta de todas as perguntas e dúvidas que teremos durante a nossa longa caminhada. Você deve achar coisa de criança, não é? Acreditar em finais felizes? Mas vou te dizer, por mais que ninguém acredite em finais felizes, eu queria poder fazer todos terem a mesma visão que eu tenho. Mostrar que isso existe se você quiser, pois o seu querer faz você acreditar e se você acredita, poderá batalhar para conseguir escrever o seu final feliz. Isso que as pessoas não entendem, falta esperanças nelas, falta amor, falta compreensão de ambos os lados, falta carinho, falta tudo.

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