#terfdom

[crackdteacup]

Biological males have advantages over female at non-contact sports like chess and darts, not just physical sports. Male puberty affects neurological development as well. #malepuberty #testosterone #biology #biologymatters #gendercritical #feminism #feminist #feministiktok #lgbt #lgbtq #transrights #womensrights #genderideology #protectwomen #womenssports #womenandgirls #darts #chess #esports

Males have biological advances over females in all sports, including contactless games like chess and darts, not just physical sports.

Men don't belong in women's sports.

[crackdteacup]

Patients have the right to informed consent.

Patients have the right to bodily autonomy.

This includes pregnant women.

If a man needed life-saving surgery but said no, we would not save him by force. If he wanted something removed from his body, we would do it. If a patient's life depended on the man donating blood or bone marrow, and he said no, again, we would not force him to do it, even if the patient was his child, even if the patient died.

When a pregnant woman or her fetus "needs life-saving surgery" but says no, choosing natural labor, we force her to have the procedure anyway. If she wants the fetus removed from her body, many states tell her no, even if abortion is safer for her, even if the pregnancy is endangering her life.

No means no.

In the bedroom.

In the operating room.

In the L&D ward.

Everywhere.

[crackdteacup]

All men are tainted by the patriarchy. Even my own sons! They're good men, but like any other man, they have been subtly socially conditioned towards certain entitlements--and away from the people-pleasing and self-doubt instilled in women from childhood. Moreover, their perspective is shaped by their own experiences, which will always limit their ability to grasp the needs of women, no matter how much time we spend teaching them. They can't understand our lived experiences because they do not share them. Plus they're messy. :(

[crackdteacup]

Let's pee together! An invitation to trans men and masculine enbies. Please pee with me! My "hot take" on the trans bathroom debate as a bisexual feminist. They say women don't REALLY want trans men and masculine enbies in women's restrooms because of how hot and manly they are... Well, I welcome all the vaginas! Trans men are as susceptible to SA as anyone else with a vagina. Rapists don't care how you identify. I know it seems like people can't tell, but they can tell by the fact that you sit down to pee. Dead giveaway. You're in the bathroom, bro. My feminism includes all people with vaginas. Vaginas are safest when they all pee together, away from penises. #feminism #Gendercritical #lgbt#feminist #transmen

Let's pee together! An invitation to trans men and masculine enbies. Please pee with me!

My "hot take" on the trans bathroom debate as a bisexual feminist.

They say women don't REALLY want trans men and masculine enbies in women's restrooms because of how hot and manly they are... Well, I welcome all the vaginas!

Trans men are as susceptible to SA as anyone else with a vagina. Rapists don't care how you identify. I know it seems like people can't tell, but they can tell by the fact that you sit down to pee. Dead giveaway. You're in the bathroom, bro.

My feminism includes all people with vaginas. Vaginas are safest when they all pee together, away from penises.

[crackdteacup]

Women don't owe you anything, and no is a complete sentence.

Women don't have to cushion everything, justify everything, provide proof their refusals are reasonable, soften every boundary so nobody feels uncomfortable, or manage immature men's fucking emotions for them.

She's rude? So what?

If people owed each other politeness, you wouldn't be bothering her in the first place.

You don't get to negotiate with her like she's customer service.

She's a person with autonomy, not a vending machine for the attention you're so desperately seeking.

Men say no and it's respected. Women say no and suddenly it’s, ‘Why? What’s wrong? You should smile more. You’re overreacting. Are you on your period?’

Stop. A woman’s boundary doesn’t need to be convenient, likable, or logical to anyone but her.

If she doesn’t want to date you, help you, listen to you, go somewhere, explain herself, research statistics you're too lazy to Google yourself, whatever -- she doesn’t have to.

‘No’ is a complete sentence. And the second someone treats a woman’s boundary like a debate, they tell on themselves. Settle down, Incelius Prime.

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[crackdteacup]

Many women don't feel safe with penises in our bathrooms and changing rooms...

but democrats and liberals care more about the 1% of our population that is trans than the 50% of our population that are female.

"Shut up TERF," they shout as their rallying battle cry, while proclaiming themselves the party of women even as they abandon us and praising themselves as progressive for embracing regressive gender stereotypes and endangering women.

Have a cuppa with me on TikTok! ☕

[crackdteacup]

[3dmenlover]

This is an open letter to all Radical feminists, Terfs, or terf-adjacent individuals. And everyone who subscribes somewhat to those beliefs.

As a cis woman, and an Asexual woman of color. I have one thing to say…

I get it

I’ve been talked over in queer spaces before, I’ve been harassed verbally and sexually by men for being a woman. I’ve been treated poorly for my sexual disinterest in men. I get how often; even cis white women. Are the subject of misogyny in spaces designed to incorporate them.

I get it

This isn’t an invitation to host an oppression Olympics or compare. But I can understand your fear; your fear of what acceptance of transgender people will mean for you.

I can understand feeling the small pocket of safety you do have in women’s bathrooms, in women’s organizations. The feeling of being pushed out of where you believe most to be accepted and free of judgement.

With all that in mind, you now know I mean no antagonism when I say this.

Transgender people are NOT out to hurt you.

Transgender people have every incentive, with marginal exception; to fight for your rights. Transgender people are not here to steal your children. They’re not here to make your lives worse, to take advantage of your vulnerability.

And those who believe otherwise alongside you, aren’t your friends by default. JK Rowling is not concerned with your benefit. Those like her desire a bottom line, their interests align most with the rich white men in power. When JK’s Rowling’s money was threatened, in the end chose to retract her statements even if briefly.

I know you desire to feel safe, you can’t feel safe around men and feel powerless to do anything about it. So by that logic protecting yourself from “fake women” is the most you can do about it.

That isn’t true

I know society has told you you’re a walking uterus, your greatest function to have children. Thus women around you’s failure to do so is to be mocked and scorned.

This isn’t true

I can understand the betrayal that can be felt with “fake men”. Who’ve abandoned your interests.

This isn’t true

Now it’s too late and all you have is JK’s Rowling’s circle…

This isn’t true

What is true is it’s not too late; you can find new sisterhoods, communities, and friends. Transgender men have not abandoned you. You’re more than your organs. And feminism itself persists, so a life free of abusive men is possible. And It’s hard to walk away, but you can do it. And I’m here if you need to talk.