#the herp

[livingwiththeherp]

Oral question

He just asked me if I like receiving of giving. I haven't told him I have genital herpes yet. I don't know what to do :/ If I have genital herpes (never any signs of oral) can I give him head and it'll be ok?

[livingwiththeherp]

I was diagnosed in May

I still don’t know if I’ve completely accepted it yet but I’m getting there. I think the part I hate the most is that I’ll have to tell future partners.

I don’t like how it was from a one time thing either. Like sometimes I’ll find myself thinking if I hadn’t met up with him that night it wouldn’t have happened but that thinking is toxic.

I’m just trying to find my way with having herpes and praying i don’t get another outbreak.

[seemslegiit]

This is incredibly fucking idiotic

This is incredibly fucking idiotic.  Background: 

A long time ago, I joined a dating group in Facebook. Its harmless. Everyone on there is far away, and the group, although entertaining and funny, realistically, it is not something I would use to get a date from, but who knows. It was a fun quirky group - that I popped my head in every once in a while. 

So last night, a girl on there posted a dialogue between her and a douchebag she had on POF. I found this conversation to be profoundly disturbing. So much - that I wanted to re-post the screenshots here and give my insight regarding the situation. 

The group has rules -such that unsolicited friend requests, unsolicited PM’s result in reprimand and or banning. I did nothing of the sort. I logged in this morning and asked the girl who posted the photos -in open forum - “Do you mind if I send you a PM? I need to ask a question." I was immediately met with “You can’t do that, read the rules, you have to have an active conversation in the thread.” 

I said…that I had (I had) and I got fed up and just asked the question in public, if I could use her screenshots on this tumblr. It was met with swift deletion. 

What in the actual flying fucking fuck? 

I did NOT send the PM, I did NOT send a friend request. I did NOT ask anyone for a date, naked pictures, or send her a picture of my junk. 

ANYWAY

Here’s the gist of the dialogue I wanted to write about today (the screenshots I can’t repost):

Idle small talk about work, the dude works at Food Lion (A grocery store). She then asks him if he’s in school, (probably shocked that a 38 year old works at a grocery store as his primary job - he shares with 16 year olds. 

He then goes on to say he lives with his mom and pays child support (has two kids). She then seemingly brushes this off and starts idle chit-chat about kids. with a light dusting of flirting. (there is hope yet for this guy yet! … but is there?)

Strike two - He then admits to living with his mom for the last 6 years.  She is mildly shocked about this information. But still talks to him. He says he just likes to “be honest”. He then drops a bomb. Strike three. The nail in the coffin: 

(copied verbatim since I didn’t acquire permission to re-post the screenshots. Typos, text speak, general miseducation, misspellings, and poor grammar  included -for accuracy) 

him - “I do have to tell u something”

her - “..mm ok”

him - “I was dating someone that gave me herpes I take a pill every day”

her - “I’m so sorry to hear that. :/ that’s horrible”

him - “So I guess u will run now”

her - “lol. I guess you get that a lot." "At Least you’re honest”

him - “Yep” “What u doing u want to meet up”

her - “Well I will be honest in return. My ex-husband cheated on me with many many people. He got Herpes after he left me. So I’ve dodged the bullets for almost 10 yrs.” “But I am very sorry that happened to you. I wish you luck. Truly.”

him - “What ever b…………”

her - “B??? Like a female dog???” “So you are almost 40, work part time at a grocery store, live with your mother and have warts on your s*** …but I’m the b**** because I don’t choose to let you to contaminate MY good life? No wonder you’re single. 

There’s all kinds of wrong with this train wreck. I give the man props for at least being honest up front and saving her from getting the herp. But this is a classic case for http://straightwhiteboystexting.tumblr.com … he jumps in to asking if she wants to meet up, then upon being rejected he lashes out. Just like straightwhiteboystexting tumblr - they should be stopped. 

I support the straightwhitefoystexting tumblr. douche fucks like this asshole need to be stopped, called out and SHAMED.

This asshat’s POF username is ONMYWAY1976  

I like to joke, and ridicule people on here. Its not fair, I know. But I will take a million fake dating site profiles with photos of hot women wanting NSA sex. I will take a million more profiles of girls not asking for drama, but exuding drama. I will take a million more profiles of blatant racist redneck girls... as opposed to just ONE asshole like this. Women DO in fact have it harder. At the same time, they have it easier - if they want sex or hookups or whatever - they have it at their disposal. BUT. They have to deal with this shit. I believe there are girls who do want love. They are out there. Until I meet that girl who wants love, and its mutual, I will continue to put one foot in front of the other and walk through the labyrinth of life. 

[wayfaringmd]

D: WAIT, IS IT POSSIBLE TO GET HSV 2 IF SOMEONE HAS HSV 1 WITH NO OUTBREAK IF THEY GO DOWN? O_O

No. HSV 1 and 2 are different strains of the HSV virus. You can't get HSV2 from being with someone who only has HSV1. But if someone has genital herpes and a lesion comes in contact with the partner's mouth, it is possible to transfer it to the mouth. I have a patient who recently had a positive HSV2 culture in the throat. Basically, you can get either strain in either place, but most commonly HSV1 causes cold sores and HSV2 causes genital sores. 

[wownakitah]

ive had a itchy throat for like 3 weeks now hope i dont got the herp

[cosimaturnsmeon]

"COME ON EVERYBODY LET'S DO THE HERP"

[emmagrainger-blog]

The Herp was my favourite part in all of Camp Takota...

[farewellstardust]

THE HERP [REMIX] - Camp Takota  

so, this is what i did all day. enjoy. or not.

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