6. What made you realize your current labels fit you? 30. A trope you dislike about your identity?
6. It's all tumblr's fault. I lived in denial basically all my life, as a straight woman. I went through a "bisexual phase" in my early 20's, but that passed and I decided that I'm very much heterosexual. The fact that I kept crushing hard on my female friends was just... a bit quirky, nothing else.
And then I came here, where people actually was talking about gender and sexuality, and didn't live in denial and I started thinking. And kept thinking and feeling, and reasoning. And realized that my bisexual phase hadn't passed at all. And that I don't actually feel like a woman. I feel like... me. I threw out all my dresses and I cut my hair, and that might seem superficial, but it felt GOOD.
So, to make a long answer short, Tumblr made me realize what labels fit me. 😎
30. Probably that if you are nonbinary you look androgynous. I look very much like a woman (except when I find the right SnapChat-filter, cause then I look like a handsome dude with goatee, right?), and I sound and act like one, too. But I'm still nonbinary, despite my looks. (The dysphoria is rough sometimes, but I'm trying to deal with it)
Thank you, this was excellent questions! 💖