POP - Power Of Pause.
We understand this power only after practicable failing daily. This is also like a kick you get when you put your hands in water against the flow. The power of water will try to push your hand while you in your mind is enjoying the push , that adrenaline which brings a smile in your heart is priceless.
POP is that process where you feel like going with the flow, react in the name of urgency, spontaneity. It is not so . Our upbringing not always direct but through observation, listening, learning and sometimes direct experience taught us to grab anything that comes as a chance ( once in a lifetime chance) . Jumping into the first school where you got selected ( I know you did not have a say) , taking interest in the first person who told you are beautiful, jumping in the train of competition because everyone is rushing there , list is long .
So pausing is like going against everything. It is not easy. My teacher NS says when there is rush , pause. Spontaneity is when you take action from the state of stillness and not anxiousness.
Pause means resting your faith in the unknown which is invisible in that moment. Head to Heart. Though i am expressing and sharing here , I fail almost daily at least once , when I started practising ( God bless ) , it was horrible, terrible and pathetic disaster. I had to change myself. The step was the write down those moments both personal and professional, observe my own nature.
What did I do -
1. In professional space- On receiving an email, instead of immediate response, I would write and keep it in draft for few minutes to hour. Then again go back to the same email and would redraft it . My self identification- what I initially thought as offensive, aggressive and unpalatable, it was my own projection. I was able to respond with objectivity and in event I required clarity, only 2 words suffices - “ lets discuss “
2. Personal space is actually more difficult than the earlier one
Best is ,stuff your mouth and ears , plug and untie your legs , walk away physically from that space. This was taught in energy management session long ago . This helps always.
The still water can always show a clearer picture than the muddy ones.
Mousumi












