#tiredofbeingused

[awesomeamy1086-blog]

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I’m getting so tired of helping and being there for certain people financially and emotionally, but when I want to talk or hang out they go silent or are “too busy” to see me. Maybe I’ll just be “too busy” to help them the next time they need it.

[lettertotheocean-x]

Thoughts.

I wonder what would happen if I stopped putting in all the effort. I wonder who would reach out. I wonder who would still be there. I wonder who would notice, or pick up their slack. Every type of relationship needs efforts from both ends. If I’m the one constantly rooting for you , and you don’t reciprocate that love then you’re using me & I’m not okay with that any more. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[olympappclub]

I feel like im never going to get a boyfriend. I am super mature for my age, which somehow may be like a negative trait i must have. I want a real relationship, not just to get walked all over or used for like an object. I want someone who cares about me, and not just want me for the night. Am i stupid for wanting this? Is anyone else going through a similar situation? #help #tiredofbeingused...

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[lakergirluvs44-blog]

this is what my (ex) family does. did to me

[memeroxfuzzysox]

When they don't need something from you at the moment and they forget about you!!

[missglambliss]

I have learned my lesson with helping and doing for ppl. It took me being in a place of not being able to help anyone for me to see who was genuine and who wasn't. Loyalty is a word that is abused. Many ppl don't know what it means. Ppl will take, take, take and need, need, need with no intent of reciprocating. #lessonslearned #tiredofbeingused #myintentionsweregenuine #life

[iamafraidofcommitment]

We all go through it, you're not special.

I'm all for listening, really I am, I like to help people figure out what they need to do in a given situation. People often run to me when they seek advice, which is humbling at the least and I truly love the feeling I get when things go alright. What bothers me is when people think their issues are grander than everyone else's. That their heartbreak story beats everyone else's. That their lives should be immortalized or converted into a Nicholas Sparks novel because they deserve it. Like what? What makes you so goddamn special? Maybe it's the fact that I've given myself the liberty of helping these people out, or at the least, hearing them out but I'm just about sick and tired of hearing the same shit over and over again. Like how "he hurt her" but "she still loves him". I know relationships aren't easy and there are some troughs and peaks  and corners to dodge, but why do you have to make those peaks seem like the rocky mountains? I ask myself over and over again, like "T, let them figure it out for themselves" but when the complaining starts right back up and I'm the person they keep on running to, well I can't hide anymore because I've opened the door in the first place.

It makes me sad to think that when these individuals need to work things out, that I'm the person they come up to, but they seldom ask me how I'm doing, how I'm feeling because their situation is priority right now. And those whom ask me how I'm doing don't really care, it's courtesy right? All they keep thinking about while I'm hashing out my business is what topic they will bring out next. Fucking vicious cycle, that's about right.

I guess this was my rant. I'll always end up being the kleenex they need when shit hits the fan but as soon as it becomes all rainbows and butterflies, I'm nowhere to be seen.

I guess that's what I got for studying psychology. Grrrreat.

-T.