#top things

[forsty]

Very rare for me to hyperfixate on more than one thing at a time but my brain is full of stranger things and top gun maverick

[shysadism]

need a pretty boy on my lap right now to feel up

[aspidities]

I know you've mentioned how most people are probably switch, but like in my mind I'm a top. I think in day to day life I'm more sensitive and submissive but I think it's because I lack confidence and the ability to stand up for myself since childhood due to some trauma. So how do I get the top attitude/mindset to show through?

Oh hey, first off—I meant that like a color scale. Most people are somewhere on a scale between top and bottom when they have sex, and then there are those that are more heavily leaning toward one end of the spectrum. I do definitely believe and agree that people can be only interested in topping or bottoming. I just meant that folks who feel hesitant about some little ‘submissive’ or ‘dominant’ tendencies that crop up, so they know it’s natural and normal.

As for getting your natural inner dominance to shine through, well that’s about self love, my friend! Confidence is essentially a lack of fear, right? Fear to speak up and be heard, fear of angering someone for what they may do. And when you have trauma, as many, many of us do, that fear speaks a lot louder than it should. Dealing with your trauma should be done with the aid of a trained therapist, and it will take time. You may never get to a point where you feel entirely ‘normal’ about certain things, but honestly that’s normal. Don’t beat yourself up for having dealt with fear. You’re doing just fine. I know a ton of subs, for example, that come across as big bossy bitches in their ‘day life’ and then become the neediest babies in bed. That’s how they manage their stress. You’re entitled to the same grace, my friend. It’s absolutely okay to be ‘meek in the streets, a freak in the sheets’.

But, I do think it’s very significant that you don’t want to feel that trauma in your day life and I think that means you’re ready to grow in a bigger, scarier way. You probably know that too. So ask for some extra help from a professional that treats you well and is worthy of your trust! You will get there. I promise. It’s a long walk, but it’s worth the effort to feel (mostly) free of fear.

Take care of that heart of yours, anon!

[nicolasnelson]

top 5 (or 10 if u want) headcanons or theories for jatp? and top 5 songs?

answered top 5 jatp songs here! now let’s see if i can get to 10 headcanons/theories for jatp.

nick is the adopted son of ryan and chad danforth-evans

julie would’ve joined dirty candi if her mom hadn’t died

carrie is a lesbian and only dated nick bc she knew julie liked him

caleb has a husband somewhere in the hollywood ghost club (he’s very much a backstage guy, but designs a lot of the outfits and decor around the club to really make caleb shine)

flynn is an anime nerd and drags julie to anime conventions

reggie designed the sunset curve logo and all their promotional materials

luke also plays the violin (yes this is 100% based on the fact charlie can play)

alex’s fanny pack is something of a security blanket for him since he can use it to carry around stuff for emergencies. he’s 100% the mom friend.

julie designs the cover for the band’s first album

willie will eventually join julie and the phantoms as their new rhythm guitarist as soon as they free him from caleb’s magical hold on him

ask me my “TOP 5/TOP 10” anything!

[writethatdown]

when you get this, please reply five things that make you happy and send this to the last ten people in your notifications 💐

oh i think i had already answered a similar question

@rasprings

bts

fluffy things like plushies

chocolate ice cream

old tanned pages

tysm for the ask! ʕ·ᴥ·　ʔ

[jennyboom21]

💭💭💭

Got AED/CPR certified today, and you bet your ass I made the most of rocking a “post up” position, rocking lats, traps, delts, biceps and triceps!!!

My face was also POURING sweat!

[spectralarchers]

Top 5 Bond films

Aaaarghhh, that’s the hardest ever!

Skyfall (2012) - if there’s a Bond-movie that made me the happiest person in the world, it was Skyfall. It was and still is absolutely marvelous.

On Her Majesty’s Secret Service (1969) - Listen, the romance between Tracy and James? It was what gave me life when I was a kid. And the skiing scene? And the whole movie in general? Absolutely worth looking into if you’re not a person who’s seen all 26 movies (if you count the non-EON one).

GoldenEye (1995) - Alec Trevelyan and that shot of Bond jumping off the dam in the beginning. I was fascinated by Trevelyan always, and it only got gradually worse when I started having headcanons about Janus being some branch of HYDRA or the Red Room and stuff. To be honest, the train? The scar? The REVEAL? Amazing.

Casino Royale (2006) - Baby!Craig as Bond was marvelous, I think. And abs. So many abs. And Vesper! And the different sorts of plot twists and the untimely death of Vesper! And Le Chiffre! And- yeah, basically, it was all super fun and amazing. And I loved the interaction between M and Craig. Honestly. (And that parkour scene in the beginning? Such 2000s mood!)

Spectre (2015) - Am I biased by putting three of Craig’s movies on my list? Yes. But, look. Listen. The cat? Blofeld? The newfound romance with Madeleine? HONESTLY, the reason that this is even on my list is because of the opening scene (!!!) and the fact that I am HOPING like HELL that the next movie is going to be Carte Blanche. If they don’t do that, with what they’ve set up, then... #Disappointment.

Ask me my top 3 / 5 /10 of anything!