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no matter what you do, he's never gonna be with you
Tell me the truth. You approached Mew to exact revenge on me, right? I wanted that at first. But as time went by, I started to like Mew for real. A good guy like him shouldn't be with someone selfish like you. Will you be with him for three months and then ditch him like you did with me? Or what? Will you sleep with his friend again?
ONLY FRIENDS | EP 10
Book Kasidet, Mond Tanutchai and Force Jiratchapong as Mew Witsarut, Boeing and Top Tanin in Only Friends Episode 10 (2023) [X]
Boeing predictions that no one asked for…
JoJo said that Boeing shows up, causes a stir, and kisses multiple people.
I believe it - look at Boeing’s mischievous face right away:
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First said he has a love scene with someone he’s close to (I’m going to assume he wasn’t talking about the little kiss with Mark).
And Sand mentioned Top once stole his ex:
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JoJo and others egging the fans on about threesomes.
Throw in this shot from next episode:
all equals
SandBoeing flashback and backstory
TopBoeingMew threesome
Why I don’t think Boeing is Sand’s ex: AKA An insane plot to convince myself that Mix is still Sand’s ex.
In before I’m proven wrong but I just want to put this out there.
Part of this is Delulu but, I don’t think Boeing is Sand’s ex.
Point 1: Style/Type
Now unless Boeing has pulled a Nick and is dressing like Top in an effort to somehow seduce Top, From what we know about Sand, he doesn’t seem like his type. That’s not to say that Boeing wasn’t his type at one point and he didn’t want to be with anyone like that anymore but, Boeing seems like Top 2.0 and perhaps they have remained friends after breaking up because they are a lot alike. Sand coming from his somewhat rough background doesn’t seem to rub shoulders with the upper class that much. Granted we don’t know anything about Boeing yet but he seems to be well off enough given his clothing. In contrast, Sand is a rough around the edges intense guy. He also speaks his mind. If Ray and Boeing had any similarities given their financial background, I feel like Sand would have brought it up. Saying something along the lines of “Your kind blah blah blah” he does call him out for being a rich boy that throws around money but he doesn’t draw any parallels between the two.
Again, this part of the theory hangs on the fact that Boeing is in the upper class like Top and hasn’t changed himself for Top.
Point 2: Contact
In episode 6, when Sand and Top meet at the hospital, he attempts to “bury the hatchet” with Sand and tells him he no longer is in contact with Sand’s ex
While Top isn’t above lying, volunteering this information seems weird unless he’s trying to hide it from Mew. At this point he doesn’t see Mew and Sand interacting much (truthfully they don’t interact). So stating he doesn’t keep contact with Sand’s ex is a weird flex. However, it seems he has kept in contact with Boeing. He states that Boeing has a key to the condo, and seemingly calls him on nights when he can’t sleep and doesn’t want to take pills. I assume so he can sleep next to someone.
To play the devil’s advocate for my own theory. This isn’t to say that he isn’t lying to Sand in an effort to keep the peace or even that he has recently reached out to Boeing after a long period of Non-contact. The two seem to be on friendly terms.
Point 3: Relationship
While we don’t know the nature of Boeing and Top’s relationship other than he’s his ex, the question remains. “Why did they break up and why are they still friends?” Top stole Sand’s ex for what? Was it just a one night stand? Did they have a relationship? Given Top’s nonchalant attitude about Sand’s ex, I’m lead to believe that Sand’s ex was a conquest that once he won, cast them aside. If Sand’s ex and Boeing are the same person, he has too much attachment to Boeing to have been a person he dumped after winning over. Whatever their relationship is, he willing to lie about it to Mew. Also, if Top had stolen Boeing away just to dump him either his relationship with Sand was bad and he was looking for a way out, he realized he couldn’t go back to Sand and just let it be, or he still pines for Top.
Again to play my own devil’s advocate, Sand doesn’t seem all that bothered by cheating. He’s with Ray who is basically cheating on Mew with him. Be it that he knows Ray is going through figuring out his feelings or because he’s in too deep with Ray, he doesn’t push him away because of the cheating, but rather because he doesn’t want to be Ray’s back up. So I feel that his anger at Top over his ex is because Top made a concerted effort to steal him away knowing he had a boyfriend. Which seems like a lot of effort if you’re just gonna turn around and dump them but remain friends. But, it’s possible they couldn’t work it out after the novelty of the situation wore off.
In conclusion. I feel like there isn’t enough evidence pointing to the fact that Boeing is Sand’s ex. I could be wrong and have Delulu blinders on but, Not enough adds up to me. We don’t know where Boeing and Sand met if they are indeed exes. It could be school, it could be the club, it could even be through his work as a moonshiner. I guess we’ll know this coming Saturday.
Anyways, Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
MY crack theory is (and I think I've seen a few other people mention it) that Boeing didn't cheat on Sand. Instead, Sand, Top amd Boeing had a threesome, after which Boeing "fell" for Top and broke it off with Sand when he saw Top was interested in him back. 💀 That's why Sand feels like Top "stole" his ex.
Just imagine Ray’s face if he found out Sand was in a threesome that he wasn’t a part of. Devastation.
As far as crack theories go, I don’t think that one is completely out of the question, but I’m having a hard time seeing Sand agreeing to it. I have no distinct reason why I think so. Just a feeling.
Given all the threesome references, this would be a good way of capitalizing on it (I also remember Jojo saying something about it? It was from awhile ago though).
Y’all I’m going full delusional for TopMewBoeing here okay I DON’T CARE, LOOK AT HOW OT3 CODED THIS TABLEAU IS
There are so many seating options for them here and YET. Top didn’t sit directly next to Mew like a solid pairing. Top didn’t sit across from Mew like someone who’s courting. Boeing didn’t them distance because why the hell should he when he’s here to fuck shit up. NO—THEY DECIDED TO SIT IN A TRIANGLE
“It’s not an OT3 it’s a love triangle,” you say- I DON’T CARE
Look at the three gold circles on the credenza in the background—symbolizing TopMewBoeing EVEN THE SYMBOLISM IS PITCHING THEM AS A TRIO
it’s the Illuminati threesome triangle ok I’VE CONNECTED THE DOTS
And way they’re all dressed in warm neutrals??? The way both Boeing and Mew match the colors of Top’s apartment so well??? THEY BELONG THERE
Top has no idea what to do with MewBoeing BUT I DO
You know Top really does have a type: malicious when crossed