One of the things I really appreciate about your wriing is that you reaffirm again and again that appearance ≠ gender
Loki in the Saint Milf Villain series changes their gender/pronouns like, six times a chapter while remaining male-presenting. Doesn't make their identity any less valid.
That monk lady from the thor kills loki fic has a beard that literally drags on the floor. So? She doesn't give a fuck and neither does Frigga
Loki from Maguna's fic is a man carrying a second pregnancy. Still a man, doesn't change a thing about his gender
The material fatigue Loki has both sets of genitals +breasts and a "man's voice" and she's still a woman
And I'm ashamed to admit this, but it's still something I struggle with. I get this, disonance I guess, when what I've been taught to be male or female clashes with what that person actually is and your fics have been very helpful in regards of that. Thank you. Keep on debunking that you have to look a certain way to be a certain gender
You don't have to be ashamed. I have the same problem and I'm policing my own body there after all.
My body isn't androgynous presenting at all and yet I'm fluid. For a long time, I was having body dismorphia bc I occasionally didn't feel like a "real woman" and had the impression of not looking "feminine" enough even though my body is objectively speaking very female presenting.
Turns out that those days when I looked at myself and didn't see a woman, I simply wasn't a woman, go figure. Allowing myself to look at my reflection and to sometimes see a guy or an enby was a game changer. It depowered most of my body dismorphia. It doesn't matter that I have tits. I can still be a bloke. One doesn't have to be intrinsically connected to the other.
Reading and writing fiction has helped me a lot at relearning how I link bodily appearance (my own or other's) with gender. And it's a process - dissonance is simply part of it. You're doing everything right, don't worry.
Also, thank you so much. I'm really glad that my fics help you in that respect, that's a wonderful thing to hear ❤️❤️❤️❤️.