#transt

[liratransxo]

Men die to date me until…

[queersekai]

Could u pls do Catgender, transmasc, aroace and autism Akito? Tyty

PSD by me!

[gabriela-girardot]

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[aatmenexttime]

It's actually pretty ironic how it's believed that being on the autism spectrum makes people think they are trans when they aren't, because for me a least, my asperger's is the reason that I didn't think I was trans for so long.

I mean aspie's tend to take everything literally. When people told me that boys had penises, girls had vaginas and that was it, I believed it. So I knew I was a girl by that definition, even though I thought it felt weird and thought that the only reason I was a girl was because I had no choice.

When people said that boys acted masculine, liked sports, were insensitive, had to have short hair etc. I believed it. Just like most men, I didn't fit the ridiculously high standards for what a man is, and I really didn't like men at all(not as in not attracted to them, as in I thought they were all assholes) so I didn't think I was one. I did understand that girls had more freedom in that regard, so I tried to make it work.

For a while I didn't think I was meant to transition and have surgery and all that stuff because aspie's don't usually like change, and the changes were so drastic. It's not that I liked my body as it was, I was just used to it and I feared the change would be something I would regret. I was clear that I wanted testosterone when I started transitioning though, and the farther I got into my transition the more I realized how I needed top surgery also, because I really got to know who I was and what was right for me. Also, there was this idea that only the most masculine, knew-from-the-age-of-3 people could transition so I didn't think I qualified.

I don't know it's just something I realized today.

[unassailable-pull]

Lately you've been looking at me Like you've seen a ghost And isn't it obvious Who's been missing who the most

I just wish that you had called

Cause I would have said it all

[alexanderthedumb]

two things of note to post:

1) I bought some boxers yesss one of them has glow in the dark pawprints. pretty fucking fabulous.

2) I had a serious talk with my mom about being trans* and it went really well. She went from saying "Why can't you just be gay?" to really understanding what I was going through and saying she'd support me through the entire transition.

man I'm so lucky to have accepting parents. I wish I could share them with all the other trans*kids who don't have accepting parental figures.