Im a bit sad lately and idk who to turn to so why not write an anon confession to my favourite blog. I am just so sad because i feel like none of my Tumblr friends actually like me, and like i am secretly hated by many people. Im also sometimes jealous (not in a bad way) of blogs that get a lot of asks and interactions because it just makes me feel like im interesting to no one but it's not just about that i just feel like if i just deleted my account no one will care... sorry its so negative im sad very sad - jenny.
Im sorry this took me a bit to answer!!!
First, I wanna say that I’m sorry you’re feeling down/sad. 😞 I can understand how you might feel “less important” cause you maybe don’t get asks a lot or whatever. But I wanna let you know, I get about like three asks a day and I STILL feel unimportant. I still question whether my blog is even valid (since I haven’t shifted yet) and I always question if people actually like me.
I don’t say that to be like “boo hoo feel bad for lark” cause that’s not it. I bring that up cause no matter how many interactions I have or asks I get, my worth comes from within me. You can’t rely on other people or “being popular” to bring happiness. Slowly work on doing things that YOU enjoy. Writing or dancing or painting or reading!! Those things can bring so much personal joy that no one else can take away from you
This is all very easier said than done, but just keep that in mind whenever you feel down. ❤️
Hope you feel better and know that you ARE important no matter what anyone else says.
