Warning to trans people in the UK seeking healthcare on the NHS
(tws for mentions of abuse, hatecrimes, and transphobia/ invasion of privacy). (This is all from my experience and those I've spoken to. If your experience was different, I'm glad! But please don't derail).
The first appointments you have, you may be asked questions that are far more invasive and upsetting than you may be prepared for.
-Whether or not you've been sexually abused. If yes, when this abuse took place and potentially who perpetrated it.
-Whether or not you've been emotionally/psychologically abused. If yes, when this abuse took place and potentially who perpetrated it.
-Whether or not you've been physically abused. If yes, when this abuse took place and potentially who perpetrated it.
-How long your sexual and/or emotional and/or physical abuse went on for
These questions are invasive enough, but they will also be (in my experience and those I've spoken to) framed in such a way that it's almost implied that these could be some sort of "cause" for being trans. They are not asked by psychologists or trauma specialists, and the interview is not handled in a way to protect you from potential flashbacks or panic attacks etc.
You will also likely be asked:
-How your individual family members reacted to you coming out. If any were transphobic, they may expect details of what they did that was transphobic.
-How your friends reacted to you coming out. If any were transphobic, once again they may expect details.
-Whether or not you've experienced any transphobic hate crimes.
-What type(s) of hatecrimes you've experienced - Emotional, legal, employment, physical, sexual etc.
Once again, these questions are not given in a way that makes it clear what you are obligated to answer and what is optional. They are also not handled in a way that will protect you from flashbacks, panic attack or other reactions, and even without that risk, they're unnecessarily invasive and overall unrelated to the healthcare you're seeking.
When they ask the questions, repeatedly ask them "Is this question obligatory?" or "Do I have to answer this question?". I and many I know didn't, because of the immense stress surrounding that first appointment after years of waiting. If you ask them, you can avoid not only giving out information that's far too personal for them to be entitled to, but also you can protect yourself from unwanted trauma-based responses being triggered.
Even if you don't have trauma and/or haven't experienced any of these types of abuse, I'd still recommend not answering these questions and asking which questions are necessary. Doing so will help make it clear that the invasive and potentially triggering questions aren't going to be tolerated by the trans community as a whole.