the thing is I genuinely did love the hen plot and I don't think it's unrealistic at all. I've forgotten the birthdays of people I love, people who I talk to every day. they've forgotten my birthday. we've been close to forgetting it until someone else reminded us. sometimes it's not even that you forget the birthday, you just straight up forget what day it is. it happens. sometimes the people you love accidentally make you feel invisible because they're too caught up in their own thing. it may hurt and that's an incredibly valid hurt but it doesn't mean they don't love you and you don't love them. and at the end of the day, it's about the people who see you feel invisible, who realize their mistake, and do everything in their power to fix it. and they did!!! every single one of them made it up to her and made her feel special in their own way. and that's what matters.











