Nov 13, 2020
"I want to live a long, long life and love you every minute of it!"
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"I want to live a long, long life and love you every minute of it!"
Lo so, voi direte cosa ha che vedere con Skyrim tutto questo?
La mi risposta è niente ad ogni modo questo è il mio blog e decido io che contenuti portare.
A Meggie
Voglio scrivere semplicemente un addio al mio gatto Meggie che è morta ieri a causa di un brutto male alla veneranda età di 17 anni.
Non è possibile comprendere il vuoto che lascia la perdita di un compagno di vita che ti ama sempre e comunque senza se e senza ma, che ti sta vicino nei momenti più bui e difficili che appunto la vita ci può riservare.
Qualcuno dirà e ma è soltanto un gatto, e invece no! Ho potuto apprendere sulla mia pelle che questo piccolo animaletto da compagnia ha avuto più umanità ed empatia rispetto a certe bestie che si definiscono essere umani.
Con questo voglio chiudere con un grosso GRAZIE Meggie per questi anni passati insieme e grazie per tutto l’amore incondizionato che mi hai donato.
21.09.2019 Per sempre nel mio cuore.
I know, will you say what all this has to do with Skyrim?
The answer is nothing in any way this is my blog and I decide what content to bring.
To Meggie
I just want to write a goodbye to my cat Meggie who died yesterday from a bad time at the age of 17.
It is not possible to understand the emptiness that leaves the loss of a life partner who loves you always and in any case without ifs and buts, which is near you in the darkest and most difficult moments that life can reserve for us.
Some will say, but it's just a cat, but no! I could learn on my skin that this little pet has had more humanity and empathy than some beasts who call themselves human beings.
With this I want to close with a big THANK YOU Meggie for these years spent together and thank you for all the unconditional love you gave me.
21.09.2019 Forever in my heart.
Ps: sorry for the english, is a translator machine....
Samaritans
I'm always being saved by the samaritains and I can't thank them enough for the support they've given when I'm in need. I email 'Jo' every night before I go to sleep and there is always a reply there the next night. Seriously you can talk about anything and they will listen. I can't stress this enough.
Unconditional Love?
In modern times the world has been polluted utterly with fallacies. This could be something concrete like that global warming is a myth, to something like the more abstract and obscure like believing in an all-knowing god that still is capable of getting angry. None of these however, are as grave as the fantasies we have developed towards love. This is not a problem that started in modern times but with the advent of the technological revolution these problems have been enhanced exponentially. In ancient times, the love of one woman launched a thousand ships on a ten-year war, but in modern times love of one’s country can result in complete and total destruction of humanity. There are many types of love but none of these are more intense and dangerous then unconditional love. This kind of love becomes even more hazardous when left unexamined. While it seems it is the strongest possible bonds between two people, the people experiencing it have a profound misunderstanding of what they are experiencing. To properly illustrate this it is necessary to examine the question, “what is love?” and how love interacts with people.
The question asked in the iconic 90’s song by Haddaway, “What is Love?” has been on mankind’s mind surely since they have first experienced it. In Plato’s Symposium this is the main topic of the dialogue. Each person presents a different take on the topic that would then likely affect how that person perceives the world. At the end of the dialogue Socrates recounts an explanation given to him by a Priestess who went by the name of Diotima. She explains to Socrates that love resides in the intermediary between all things. Love is the desire to possess fair and beautiful things. This beauty is not a solely physical trait but what a person perceives as beautiful. Love, being a desire means that a person never actually possesses the desired object. If a person were to possess the desired object then their desire is sated and they would no longer be in love.
This also means that a person must possess something already for the desire to reside in. The only thing a person is truly capable of possessing is themselves. This is something that everyone has achieved whether they realize it or not. Great deals of people have confused themselves for other things or other people. A good example of this is the story of Narcissus. In it, Narcissus comes across a beautiful nymph named Echo who was in love with him. He scorns her and then rest near a pond. For the first time he witnesses his reflection, perhaps the most beautiful man in Greece. He desires to possess this image, not realizing that he already possessed it. Narcissus is capable of controlling the image to any degree he wishes. Instead, he sits by the pond unwilling to leave this image or even to drink the water since it would disturb the image with ripples. He dies in the end because of his failure to realize what he possessed and how this desire functioned.
All of this shows two prerequisites for love emerging from this examination. The first is that a person needs to know who they are or at the very least to recognize themselves. The second prerequisite for love is that the person needs to be able to direct their desire in a certain direction to someone or something. This highlights the problem of unconditional love. While in a great deal of romantic comedies a character goes through a long speech culminating with the assertion of their unconditional love to the other person there exist two conditions for this love.
These conditions are, “I am me”, and, “you are you”. After all if, being “you” was not a requirement for this love then “I” would be content to love a different person with an equal intensity as “you”. This then shows the most literal concept of unconditional love is an illusion. This doesn’t mean that the sensations a person experiences why experiencing what they describe as unconditional love isn’t real. On the contrary they are very real and some of the strongest motivators to affect change in this world. The reason why people value “unconditional love” is not due to the illusionary nature but because of its minimalistic nature. It requires only one trait from each person per desire. Both people do not have to be successful, intelligent, faithful, etc but only need to be themselves. In the end it may be more apt to label this kind of love bi-conditional love.
MICHAEL'S MUSINGS:
Do you choose what happens during your day? Do you make conscious choices? Do you choose your thoughts, the words you speak, the emotions you feel? For most people, probably not. It is a good idea to spend one day each week being aware of making conscious choices. It's a good exercise in awareness, and the power of choice. If we do not make choices in the present, then we live a repetition of choices we have made in the past. Nothing is a random act. Life as we know it is all about energy. It is either new fresh energy we have just created, or an old energy creation from our past. If you look at humanity metaphysically, we are all streams of energy connecting with each other and situations, many of which we would not consciously choose to be connected with. The way of creating fresh new streams of energy is to consciously choose . . . unconditional Love.
www.michaelroads.com
Unconditional love
I love you mum. Like every other human, I don't say it nearly enough. I'm not the perfect daughter, but you still love me. You believe in me, even when I don't believe in myself. You know me better than I know myself. I can be so ungrateful sometimes. I'm trying hard. I don't want to be the reason behind your worry lines. I love you mum.
- L
"You make me wanna smoke cigarettes - you make me wanna drink whiskey. Even if your love was unconditional, it still wouldn't be enough to save me."
Against Me!
"Unconditional Love" from the new album Transgender Dysphoria Blues
