I'm so sick of my family's unsolicited comments on my appearance lately:
"You look haggard/worn out."
"Wow you've put on weight!" *proceeds to make gestures to mimic what they think is my shape*
"Why do you keep dressing up for? Do you think you're better than everyone else? You look so much older wearing that thick makeup with the lipstick."
First of all, I've been busting my ass off at work. How dare you say that to me during month end. You know you're only saying that because you too are working hard but you only said that because you wanted me to feel like shit about their appearance just like you.
In regards to the fat shaming - I was wearing a tent dress because I wanted to be COMFORTABLE. How dare you cause me to explain that it was my dress that made me look wide and that I have a normal BMI. And how fucking dare you say that to me after I gave you a gift on FATHER'S DAY. Hope you feel like shit after making those fat comments.
And fuck you for saying that to me. I dressed up because we had guests over. I was not wearing thick makeup at all but I suppose for someone who doesn't wear makeup and wears house clothes when people are over you felt insecure and the need to insult me like that. I'm not going to look like a bum while we have people over. So don't try to make me feel like shit by dumping your insecurities onto me. Why don't you get people to come over AFTER you've finished preparing food so you too can dress up and look decent instead of calling people to come over while you're still preparing food? Dumb bitch.
