#vaguefluid

[neurodiversequeer]

my favorite thing ever is that I am both abrosexual and genderfluid but I have absolutely no clue what is going on at any given moment. am I a straight woman today? am I a gay man? am I a lesbian? am I just chaotic pansexual? I have no clue but I'm just rolling with it

(also I am fully aware that the terminology doesn't ACTUALLY change, it's just funnier in my mind to put labels on it depending on the day)

[pride-flag-fag]

vaguefluid

vaguefluid: when one’s gender can not be defined with words due to their neurodivergent status but it is fluid between being an approximation of/around multiple genders.

term coined by: unknown

flag designed by: unknown, based off gendervague

see also:

gendervague, vagueboy, vaguegirl, vagueflux, vaguefluidflux

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Just sending some terms I found on PFFU's documents that weren't here. Mero - Being okay with some sexual/romantic/etc. acts but repulsed/averted by others. Neuroaromantic -Wanting to be in a romantic relationship but you are scared of them due to being (or relating to being) neuroatypical, neurodiverse, or mentally ill. (Part 1/idk like 5 or 6?)

More terms. Nubilagender- A term to describe when part of one’s gender is unidentifiable. Also known as maringender. Perogender- Wanting to be a certain gender, but not being of said gender. Vaguefluid- A gender which is fluid, but determining one’s current gender is difficult due to neurodivergency. Cogitofluid- A gender that is fluid only when one thinks about it. Greengender- A subset of colorgender, for the color green. (2/5)

Split- An orientation defined by the symptom of splitting, which causes attraction to fluctuate intensely. Anesigender- Feeling like a certain gender but feeling more comfortable identifying as another. Sensu - An orientation based around sensuality as opposed to romance or sexuality, etc.. Different from a sensual orientation. In other words, romantic type pleasure or sexual type pleasure, etc. is desired or derived from sensuality. (3/5)

Poeti - Feeling attraction to certain genders only hypothetically or fictionally, e.g. poeti-homosexual heterosexual for someone who is heterosexual but is hypothetically attracted to the same gender. (4/5)

Metaromantic -Only experiencing attraction that is unable to be defined by strict terms of platonic or romantic. Coined with the idea of those who only experience queer/quasiplatonic attraction in mind, but available to all who simply cannot define their attraction in ways that are typical and easily understood in the context of societal norms of attraction and relationships. (5/5)

Most of those are already on our docs, but thanks anyway! The ones I added were:

Anesigender as an option to ansigender

Cogitofluid/Pensfluid/Opinofluid/etc. near Pensgender/Opinogender/etc. (remember this one is listed on the L-Z list since Pensgender is the first listed option)

Vaguefluid near vaguegender

I added greengender as an specific example under colorgender, but I don’t think it’s needed to add a specific item under every color; it would be like adding separate options for all possible combinations of altegenders, and even just the ones with flags are a lot.

The @pride-color-schemes blog is a good resource for those who want to reblog or to refer to specific identities, but please remember our docs are the better resource!

~ Tath

[neurodiversequeer]

proposal for a better (really just more fun) vaguefluid flag:

the original vaguefluid flag just feels meh to me (nothing against the person that made it, just a preference thing) and I feel like we, too, deserve a pretty flag. for those that don't know, vaguefluid is essentially genderfluid but without being able to tell which gender it is at a specific time /because/ of being neurodivergent and not knowing what gender feels like.

[thewolfofthestars]

hey i was wondering if you could ad to your picrew foggender fogfluid foggirl fogbog gendervague vaguefluid vagueflux vagueboy vaguegirl gendernimius paramegender malasexual and malaromantic i'm sorry for sending in so many things at once

No worries, anon, the next update is already shaping up to be massive anyways lmao. I can certainly add all of those in!

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Vaguefluid Gendereaux Jessica Jones for anon! Enjoy! -Mod Cindy