People act like it’s so crazy to just not be that interested in sex. They assume it *must* be a result of past trauma, as if it’s a symptom of a psychological problem. When I say I had the most normal, happy childhood, then they turn to calling me a puritan or a prude. It’s just so hard for them to comprehend that I don’t gaf that they need to cope.
I don’t see this in regards to anything else. It’s totally normal for people to not like drugs or alcohol nowadays. It’s normal to just not listen to music much or not watch TV or avoid eating meat. Hell, I’ve recieved less backlash for not really liking big dogs than for being disinterested in sex.
And of course, I can’t ignore the elephant in the room. When so much of a woman’s worth is tied to her sexual appeal in the eyes of men, I feel fundamentally detached from being a woman.














