I think a lot of nonhumans/otherkins forget that;
It’s okay if you don’t particularly like / or hate something you kin. You’re allowed complex emotions around what you kin. Being nonhuman/otherkin isn’t usually a voluntary experience. It can be from trauma or just simply being a part of yourself natural. Being complex makes us alive. It makes us real.
It’s okay if you aren’t always happy to be otherkin/nonhuman. It’s okay to be sad, our sadness and rage is as important as our joy.
It’s okay if you don’t want to live in a forest or where your kintype lives. It’s fine if you like / want to live in cities! Or on the beach or in the mountains. It’s okay if you like modern things like phones or cars that your kin might not know about / like.
It’s okay if you don’t have memories of your past lives or if your past lives weren’t impressive or if your past lives were traumatic OR if you simply don’t believe in past lives at all.
It’s okay if you don’t have any dysphoria or if you have crushing dysphoria around your nonhumanity/kin.
It’s okay if you aren’t all ‘aesthetic’ ‘pretty’ and ‘perfect’ around your kintype/nonhumanity. You can be exactly how you are.
It’s okay if you don’t know your kintype/nonhumanity, your kintype is complex and hard to understand, and it’s okay if your MULTIPLE kintypes or nonhuman types. You don’t owe anyone anything.
