My new Chinese teacher is superstitious, a common characteristic, I've found, among older generations of Chinese. She's perhaps in her mid-50s but looks no older than 40. We've met only three times, and she's mentioned death in every class.
Today, our dialogue on new vocabulary words went something like this:
Teacher: Do you have extended family?
Teacher: My father's brother's wife lived to be 92 years old. She died while laughing. My cousin came to visit her and told her a joke and she died laughing at it. My father's other relative was vegetable for 16 years. He could not eat, could not speak, could not feel. He was vegetable. Then he died. These two relatives die very differently. Anyway, this is qīn qi, relative.
She also has a fear of cats because one jumped on her bed the night her grandma died.
I think that my relationship with this lady will bear a trove of good stories.