Just a reminder that people really do experience horrible, traumatic things. Sometimes I think some of us forget that a little bit. Lots of us haven’t experienced a lot of what we write (which is good, I hope none of you ever have to go through anything whumpy), and so often in our world we are desensitized to important things.
I didn’t really notice this until the Hong Kong protests. I was 100% on the side of the protesters. At this point I’m not even surprised whenever I hear about horrible things the Chinese government does. I looked at the protests through a political lens. I don’t want to go into the details right now, but basically China has been trying to limit the autonomy of Hong Kong, and the citizens of Hong Kong weren’t too happy. And I knew that China would start doing horrible things in Hong Kong, and that political oppositions would start “disappearing,” but it didn’t quite connect in my head just how horrible everything was for a long time. China is committing genocide right now (not related to Hong Kong, different story)! But somehow I was so desensitized that I didn’t fully realize for a while. During this same time, there were shootings at two military bases in America. I was surprised because it’s the military, if you try anything like that it will not go well for you. But I also realized that I didn’t care that much when I heard about a school shooting because there’s so many of them it’s almost like I’ve lost a lot of my ability to care.
And I know this is long and wordy and probably could’ve been phrased better, but all of are like this. Our world is chaotic, and horrible things happen. Slavery is more prevalent today than at any other time in history. More than 40 million people were victims of slavery in 2016 (25 million in forced labor, 15 million in arranged marriages, etc). This isn’t just something happening in China or North Korea, this happens worldwide. There are many illegally owned slaves, and in some places, at least some forms of slavery is legal, or even practiced by the government (looking at you, North Korea). If I had a week I couldn’t list every horrible things that has happened to these people. And this is only one example of irl whump.
I just think we should remember this. We need to tag triggering stuff, respect survivors, and do what we can to protect our fellow humans. Whether that is is teaching your loved ones about signs of abuse, donate to a trustworthy organization dedicated to reaching out, or going out yourself and joining the FBI or something, we should all help protect each other. There is nothing wrong with writing whump. But we can’t be desensitized. We have to wake up and realize that all of this does happen. The world is a worse place than we like to paint it. But the first step to improving it is to acknowledge the flaws.
Here’s some sources: https://50forfreedom.org/modern-slavery/#:~:text=FACT%3A%20There%20are%20more%20people,15%20million%20in%20forced%20marriages. and https://www.oxygen.com/very-real/6-countries-where-slavery-still-exists