#whynotboth

[eric-sadahire]

Wife: No, I don't want to go to a Star Wars themed sex party.

Me: First off, it's Star TREK, and second, it's called a borgy.

[sirensca11]

So... could there be a type of alpha omega dynamic where its both things? Not just one or the other alpha/beta/omega and maybe Sigma?

Sort of like most see (stereotypically)

Alphas = Doms

Omegas = Subs

But betas? They don't particularly feel like a switch...

What if there was a 4th option?...

Welcoming the Sigma.

Sigmas could be the ones that, depending on how they are feeling, can release a more omegan or alphan scent depending on whom they are trying to calm or intimidate.

Has fangs that drop down when marking or claiming another as a mate.

Their want for creating nests and dens can very. Some may prefer nests, while others prefer dens.

Either way most of them will have some form of both. For example, a sigma who is single could have their bed room made up like a den when first walking in, but hidden deep behind the bed in the closet, or perhaps under neath it you'll find their nest, with items from people they deem safe.

Can be territorial about whom they have as a partner. Be it an alpha partner or an omegan partner. Either way, what's theirs is theirs. Don't touch. They can be seen mostly in poly relationships as they prefer having more partners to have more scents that are deemed safe. Sigmas will want to be mated. They can be mated but the mark will wear off sometimes so it will need to be refreshed every once in a while becaude their body is constantly flipping.

They will want to be scented and to scent their partner. If the sigma is single and doesn't have a mate or partner usually they will try to keep their scents separated. Sometimes they can even use their own scent to help calm themselves as it can be quite a difference in smells when they are more alphan then omegan and vice versa.

For those of you who cant/won't read under the cut, thank you for coming to my Ted talk.

Nsfw and talk about ruts and heats under the cut.

Problems with being a sigma is they they experience both heats and ruts.

Usually they will fall into what ever opposite category their partner falls into but there will be times where they are experiencing a run while their partner is also in a rut or heat and heat. In which case it can be a messy task.

If both the sigma and omegan partner are in a heat they are essentially like two very subby people except they can produce slick, and are usually extremely territorial. Almost like an alpha to their mated omegan. But worse. As the sigma feels everything the omegan can on an emotional level but has the anger and flare that the alpha does.

If both sigma and alphan partner are in a rut, things can get... heated. Either in a physical play fight sort of way or they will both end up fucking each other as much as they can without letting the other one go. Never separating always near each other. A rutting sigma will never bow to their alphan partner but they will be damned if they see someone bowing or baring their neck for their partner. They will destroy whomever decided it was a good to be submissive to *their* alpha.

So, how does the genitalia work then? Well.

Sigmas sort of have both. Let me explain.

They can produce and give pups to others.

This is what defines Sigmas between all the other secondary genders.

If born Afab, they will have an enlarged clit when in a rut growing approx 2-4 approx inches in length. Just like an alphan afab. But it deflates when not in a rut. So this process can be quite painful for the Sigma. But can produce sperm which can leak out of the dick to be able to produce pups. And yes. The dick can get *hard* but it can be an extremely painful process. For those without a clit. Imagine your pinkie toe suddenly growing to approx 2-4 inches in length and that not counting the girth that comes with it. Yeah. Painful.

Baring pups would be the same as always, as they still have a womb and that can be fertilized just as an omegans can.

If born Amab, they will be able to bare pups just as an omegan amab can. Though the anus the womb would be located. And pups can be bared though there. Slick will be produced from the anus just as omegan amab, but it's painful. Usually the amount of slick produced can be too much and can cause then to experience cramping and nausea.

When starting to show like most a/b/o's would people usually get confused as to what their pup is showing as. Because they will usually go through a heat then a rut/ or a rut then heat one almost right after the other.

Here's the thing though. Sigmas cannot produce sperm or bare pups if they are *not* in a heat/rut. It just won't happen. They produce only a little bit of slick or near none when turned on most often their partner needs to rely on lube and vocal cues from their partner.

[bahhumpug]

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[scarletkitty-designs]

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[nataliealexxxa]

I always feel like Regina George from Mean Girls during the Jingle Ball Rock sexy dance scene in this hat 💀✨or...just dark and evil like Maleficent 🥀 . . . #whynotboth #bts #photoshoot #break #christmas #ahs #meangirls #manhattan #nyc #selfie #blackchristmas (at Manhattan, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6f0pkWpZuN/?igshid=1ltwkcaqdlbcc

[iwaitnowforonlythewind]

Can't decide between shine or sparkle? Why not both? I'm so excited that I got to use this statement piece from @modernmoodbodyjewelry in this fresh nostril piercing! Pictured is a white gold disk, half high polish, half sandblasted 🌗 #safepiercing #appmember #appmemberatlarge #brookebittenspiercing #htcuptown #htcbodypiercing #phoenix #phoenixaz #nostrilpiercing #modernmoodjewelry #whitegold #sandblasted #duality #yingyang #whynotboth #goldslinger (at HTC Body Piercing) https://www.instagram.com/p/B61cO1Gn0Ek/?igshid=xwx7kkr41uzb

[grizandnorm]

Tuesday Tips - Structure/Gesture: Why Not Both! Probably one the most compelling issue to deal with when drawing characters. There's clear pros and cons to both approach. The key, IMO, is to straddle the line between both. Give appeal and energy through the use of gesture, but always give hints of structure, weight and solidity to make the character feel like it lives in an environment. I do a quick, dynamic gesture first, then I go back in and add some structure on a second pass. In a rush, I'll focus the structure pass on faces, hands and feet (feet: their position on the ground to give weight and/or balance to the pose.) -Norm @grizandnorm #tuesdaytips #100tuesdaytips #100tuesdaytipsbook #structuregesture #whynotboth