It’s coming up to the second anniversary of my brother-in-law’s death. So I decided to make a spell bag to help my wife with her grief. One, because I’ve wanted to make a spell bag for ages, two as I genuinely think it’s a good idea and three because I am putting off doing me nvq work :P
So I looked up what to put in one. Every source said marjoram for grief which I don’t have and my local Sainsbury’s don’t have either! I’ll buy some and add it but for now, I used the things I had (plus got my wife to buy crystals) and that seemed relevant. Here’s what I found online and what I used:
From http://www.pennilesspagan.com/2016/05/grief-loss-healing-sachet.html
Sage: Used for cleansing and purification. Aids in alleviating grief and sorrow. I used bits off the huge sage bundle I bought the other week
Lavender:Promotes sleep and convalescence. Invokes peace and helps battle depression. I used lavender essential oil
Sandalwood:Promotes relaxation and heightens spiritual energy. Invokes passed souls. I broke up a sandalwood incense stick
Rose Quartz:Aids in the processing of grief and anger. Eases pain through detoxification. I asked my wife to buy some earlier
http://sacredwicca.com/charm-bags
Rose quartz: Love and harmony
Cinnamon - Protection and love I just love cinnamon, I used ground cinnamon
Sage- Cleansing, healing, protection
https://covenlife.co/2015/10/13/grief-mojo-bag/
Lavender Organza bag I had one bag, it happened to be lavender colour, it also has gold and silver on which is not relevant but it’ll do!
1 Smokey Quartz I asked my wife to buy some earlier
https://www.themagickalcat.com/Articles.asp?ID=242
Lavender - Magickal uses include love, protection, healing, sleep, purification, and peace. Promotes healing from depression
Thyme - Wear a sprig to ward off unbearable grief or provide strength and courage when needed I used dried thyme
Basil - Love, exorcism, wealth, sympathy, and protection. I used fresh basil leaves
http://www.witchipedia.com/
Thyme can be used in magick spells to increase strength and courage.When working hard to achieve a goal that seems un-achievable, thyme can be used in spells to help you keep a positive attitude.Fumigate your home with thyme to dispel melancholy, hopelessness and other mellow but negative vibrations, especially after a family tragedy or during a long sickness.Place thyme beneath your pillow for a restful sleep and happy dreams
https://www.scribd.com/doc/8645819/Magickal-Properties-of-Hemp-by-AarTiana-Calantirniel
Hemp/Cannabis Sativa L Magical Uses: Has all the qualities of quartz crystal, includingmagnification or amplification of any magical work,manifestation, “programming” with positive energy,remove negative influence, healing, love, protection,psychic vision, peace, meditation. This is NOT WEED! It’s legal in the UK as in only contains CBD not THC. Don’t give actual weed to people without their knowledge! I had a bag I used to make tea with in the back of my cupboard
https://www.thevillagewitch.co.uk/magical-colours/
Lilac (colour) -Peace, Tranquillity, Healing The bag was more a lilacy colour I suppose
I washed the crystals and held them whilst imagining giving them energy before putting them in the bag. I passed the bag through dragon’s blood incense as i’ve heard that can increase the energy of spells. Freya (my wife) has now put it under her pillow :)
I don’t know if I believe in herbs and crystals being of any use in this sort of use. The jury is still out. But I do definitely believe in the, clinically proven, power of the placebo. The fantastic and fascinating thing about the placebo effect if that even if someone knows they are being given a placebo - it still works!!
I’m happy now. I suppose I have to actually do some work now!