This is my safe place so I'm going to rant again about work.
There's this coworker I often work closely with the, and they're very much the type to over share about their personal life to me and also on social media. When they take legitimate work trips they're sharing "my workplace for the day" type of pictures and expressing how lucky they are to travel like that for work. And that's fine! Hell, I do it when I have opportunities to travel for work, too.
Where I'm going with this is... work has been slow for most people at the office, and thanks to my coworker's friend Chat, they've has been bored out of their mind. Couple this with our boss being on vacay, they've been "running errands" for chunks of the day. Let me remind you that this coworker has a habit of sharing when they're actually doing work stuff, so it raises some questions from me when they vaguely tell me "I'm gonna run some errands" or "I'm going to this far city for a meeting."
What my coworker does with their time isn't any of my business especially because I'm not their boss and as of now it doesn't affect my productivity . But I'm annoyed af!!!
I'll try to take comfort in the idea that if this coworker is feeding me bs excuses (I'm not even asking them where they're going, btw. Tbh I'd rather not know even if it's work related) then they'll eventually have to face any consequences of their actions. There's been other stuff they did that I knew wasn't gonna fly and they eventually got called out for it by our boss, so 🤷
It's because I think this way that I'm extremely vague when I need to step out of the office or take time off. I'll be honest, to a point, with my boss, but to anyone else I'm simply "out of the office" or "working offsite".
Until it does affect my workflow, I'm not going to say anything. I'll just continue to seethe until I learn how to ignore it better.
*edit - also let me say that this coworker is salaried whereas I'm not and, from what they share with me, they're not great at maintaining a healthy work life balance. So like maybe they are doing work at 10pm or something (doubtful) or they make it up over the weekend (doubtful). I hate that I've been made aware of so much about their lifestyle, and idk how to tell them to stop sharing personal shit with me because it makes me mad when I assume they're playing hooky. Even though it doesn't affect my tasks! Why am I like this??? I can't wait to talk to my therapist about it all.