Feminine and masculine energy
Okay, this post is a bit different than what I’ve been recently sharing here but I felt it was important for me to post. And in the long run, my blog will probably be filled with different of subjects since I have a wide range of interests 🍧
Why masculine energy is also important and not the sole attribute of men ?
Women and men both have feminine and masculine energy. The divine feminine and sacred masculine is part of each individual with each people having its own balance of it 🌸
However, in my humble opinion, the feminine energy or divine feminine is more complete because women can be connected to their head, to their heart and to their body simultaneously and constantly whereas for men it is difficult. They can only be one of those aspects at the same time, which doesn’t make them lesser but less whole. They often choose only one aspect, usually head or body and rarely heart, and even those who wear their heart on their sleeves are just as unbalanced. This is only with the presence of feminine energy or trying to connect with it that they can tap on their other potential whereas women can naturally do it and can even focus on one of the three and easily shift from one state to another depending on the situation.
And trust me, this is why men are afraid of women in power..
Women can be both powerful and soft, can have and can wield both Yang and Yin easily and they usually want both. I like to say figuratively that they can make both war and love while men only know war. And often, in pre-patriarchal societies and pre-patriarchal myths, women did both and goddesses were both goddesses of war and goddesses of love, embodying both the masculine and the feminine. I still didn’t find a better wording but it feels strange to call it masculine and feminine as women have both, it’s a cultural wording we all understand but it’s closer to Yin and Yang in harmony, or being in harmony with the outer and inner self, also fine with both senses and intuition, both logic and emotion, both freedom and control and so on..
Having both those energies means being both pragmatic, intellectual, brave, fierce but also intuitive, instinctive, passionate, nurturing and creative and all those qualities complement each other well. And ideally women embody those qualities and can tap into both masculine and feminine energy. And even if they might need some help with one side or the other, they have the ability to do it. Why ? Because if or when women are alone, they can be at a disadvantage especially if they’re not able to balance those energies or if they lacks one side compared to the other so that’s why they are naturally build to be able to wield both.
Besides, no women truly love sacrificing their power for the love of a man even when they do so, like I said it’s a sacrifice. But if they could have both, most would gladly and happily take it. And I think we should go for both.
Also, a little advice for women who naturally wields both:
You will encounter men who’ll try to knock you down to make you more reachable, or try to break your confidence or even break you to make you reachable or try to build you into something they won’t be intimidated by anymore. Ditch those men, get rid of them, and avoid them as much as possible, leave with dignity before they strip you of everything that makes you the great woman you are. Go for the ones who respect you, treat you as an equal, are proud of you and proud to stand by you and won’t be afraid to put you before them. A queen deserves a king, not a scheming buffoon. And remember, a flower blooms with sun, not dim light 👑💐
