#youshouldreadthis

[babamdan-sonra]

[skquiishh]

Being angry is okay. Being upset is okay. Feeling your emotions is okay. You do not have to have permission to feel things.

[secret-admirer10]

I've come to learn that we sometimes have to just appreciate someone from a safe distance. I get to spend undeniably large amount of time with you lately and i never once feel bitter about the fact that you are just a friend. How painfully lovely of the universe it is that i get to laugh and walk in the same pace as you without having to be afraid of breaking each other's heart. No, you won't know, i won't let it show either because i am happy just the way things are now. You are happy in your own way and i get to be part of a small fraction of that happiness, so that's really enough for me. I hope things never turn awkward between us and i hope you never cry because of heartbreak ever again.

[norrainebaby]

Make this month your best month . Go all out for you & become the best version of yourself . Make it crucial . Because it is .

BE IN YOUR ELEMENT .

LOVE THE HELL OUT OF YOURSELF .

CLAIM YOUR POWER .

BE SELFISH ABOUT YOU .

BE HIGH MAINTENANCE .

FOCUS ON WHATS IMPORTANT .

WORK ON YOU .

NORMALIZE SPEAKING HIGHLY OF YOURSELF .

SET BOUNDARIES & STANDARDS .

ELEVATE .

LET THEM GO SIS . ( you don’t need em ) .

BECOME YOUR OWN BESTIE .

[anu-shah-not-shay]

Back with another oneee

[ikay0]

Appreciation'post for Blue Lock Volume covers (Part 2)

Am I the only one who love the new one released for Vol.12?

[asexual-snowman]

IF YOU’RE EVER FEELING STUPID:

This was the first ever picture of Tommy and Tubbo that I saw. 

I THOUGHT:

1. Tubbo was a female

2. Tubbo was actually Philza.

3. I thought Tommy was Dream

4. I had every YouTuber’s name mixed up. 

5. I rediscovered MCYT through my bf pointing out BadBoyHalo in a video that he sent me.

6. I memorized Skeppy first and then forgot about him immediately after the video.

7. I discovered Dream through a reanimated Miraculous Ladybug scene where Dream was like confessing something to George

8. I used to get Technoblade and Dream confused.

9. I thought Sapnap and George were the same person for a while because I watched just animations. 

10. I had no idea that Wilbur played Minecraft.

11. I thought Quackity was part of Sleepy Boys.

12. I actually started watching MCYT because my friend kept simping for everyone and I got curious.

Try to top my stupidity.

Art belongs to  @hollowjackals 

didn’t know until I read comment thank you kind stranger.

[themichelle]

Who you Want vs. Who you Need

Sometimes you want to stay friends with people you have been friends with forever. Someone you feel obligated to, someone you care deeply for. But what if they don’t treat you the same as you treat them? What if you just want them? What if you just can’t admit to yourself that this person is draining you?

I have been told I am “too nice” meaning I do things for other people that they would not do for me. That may be so in some instances but I enjoy helping people, especially people I care about. I will help those who have helped me. I have learned how to say no, to not apologize for refusing to do something that I am unable to do. But how do you know when enough is enough?

If I find myself bending backwards for someone who is not grateful? If I find myself putting more energy into a friendship than that person? If I don’t feel appreciated? If I feel like I am being taken advantage of? If I feel like I am losing my wellness and happiness to keep this person happy? That is when you know, you don’t need them in your life. That is when you know, you may want them in your life but you are much better off without them. You need to put yourself first.

Same can be said about your boyfriend or girlfriend. If you are texting and calling them first, if you are paying for all the meals, if you are giving all the gifts? You need to think of yourself first.

If you need to end a relationship because it is hurting you? There is nothing wrong with that. If you break up with someone because you feel they aren’t contributing to the relationships growth? There isn’t anything wrong with that. If you need to say goodbye to a friend that is taking advantage of you? You didn’t do anything wrong.

In every type of relationship, the most important person is YOU. All that matters is YOUR happiness. YOUR well-being. YOUR health. This is YOUR life, YOU can pick who deserves a spot in it. YOU choose who’s good for you.

You cannot help anyone else if you cannot help yourself. YOU are number one. No one else.