#yshro

[parisdimi]

i wonder if i ever (really) made you happy, or if i was just convenient—just there. i wonder if i was the anchor you needed until it became too much, until the weight was unwanted, and you remembered how to live without me.

— yshro.

[parisdimi]

we ate mid-summer oranges over the sink.

the peel came undone in one bright ribbon—sunrise held together by cautious hands. tiny suns leapt from the rind and jeweled our palms.

that night, i learned love in pieces: offer the sweetest wedge first, keep the tart one for yourself, let the pith cling if it must.

i still carry a seed like a maybe in the small pocket of my coat.

some nights the oil lifts under my nails and i remember the way your fingers brushed against mine, like it was the most normal thing in the world.

i leave the last slice on the plate, and the wanting shines through it—barely there, but still shaped like you.

— yshro.

[parisdimi]

i fear that one day someone will ask me “how much do you love her?”

because how would i—how could i respond?

how do i tell them, in words, that my heart stills a little more but beats a little faster every time she’s around, that a wintery wave of goosebumps raise on my skin and ease into a fire, warm enough to mend wounds.

that every time i see her, the first snow of winter falls, but the warmth of spring crawls along my skin, sprouting flowers wherever her fingers had touched.

how do i explain to them that my chest expands to make room for her, that there’s a part of my soul etched with her name and a hundred other feelings that i could never tame.

how do i tell them that every time i see a dandelion laying idly by, i want to pick it off and wish for her. would that be too selfish? of all the wishes a fool could make, i want nothing more than my love in my embrace.

would they understand? that even if the world came crumbling, i would still reach for her hand.

how would i explain to them that every morning i wake with dreams that stay freshly replayed.

like paint blurred into perfection on a once empty canvases and music notes filing on blank paper, i find my muse in her.

how would i tell them that she is what stitches me at my seams and holds me together, that she is each feather of my wing, and in the morning, each beam on my skin, that if i were to lose my breath, she would be my oxygen—that her hands would breathe me back to life.

how could i ever say such a thing and still seem sane?

“more than you could imagine,” i say.

and maybe, just maybe, they’ll be able to.

maybe their imagination could be broad enough to understand all the feelings i can’t put into words, to piece apart this love one by one and find the poems and proses that show what i try to relay.

maybe, one day.

— yshro.

[parisdimi]

nobody else will call me “tulip,” not the way you did. hearing it from anyone else’s lips would feel like sacrilege, it would be nothing short of sin.

there will be no half-lit desks, no caffeine-driven nights where we swap enzymes for inside jokes and call it mcat prep. no sneaking half-bitten chocolate between flashcards, no stupid grin when you finally remembered the rate-limiting step i kept forgetting.

you know i sucked at biochemistry.

we won’t hunt craigslist for a shoebox apartment in the city, a little spot tucked someplace between work and the med school we picked together.

we’ll never start a little garden on the windowsill, never measure how much care was needed for the herbs we swore would thrive on a fire-escape rail. you won’t water plants with me at dawn, sleeves still rumpled from sleep, and we’ll never fuss over whether tulips need more shade or sun.

we’ll never blow out candles on your twenty-something birthday. i’ll never call you old for being born a year earlier. i’ll never bake you a cake for the occasion; something a little ugly but still ours.

you’ll never stand beside me and talk to the moon, and i’ll never jot down the secrets you tell her—word for word, verbatim. i’d scribble every syllable so that i can remember the exact steep time for your tea, and the way monkeys make your skin crawl because of that trip back in who-knows-when, and your stubborn devotion to all things matcha and mint chocolate.

i’ll never try your last name against mine, and you’ll never call me your wife in that half-serious, half-laughing way, like it was the only obvious ending.

worst of all, i won’t hear you tell me you love me again. you won’t miss me when i fall asleep first, and you won’t kiss me when i wake up last.

your cheeky smile, your stupid sarcasm—i’ve lost them all.

and the hardest part is knowing i’ll never learn anything new about you. i’ll never get to add to the list of everything i love about you. i’ll never get to write down your hobbies and your habits—your once-in-a-while adventures.

all of our somedays are turning into nevers, and there’s nothing left for me to do but watch them go.

i hate it. i hate this feeling.

i still love you. i still dream of all that we’d do.

never is too unfair, isn’t it? too definite.

— yshro.

[parisdimi]

would it be selfish to say that i hope you’re different now?

i hope you’ve changed somehow,

so if someone else ever gets close, they’ll meet a stranger with your eyes, with none of the pieces i loved.

because i can’t stomach the thought of another person touching the same you that i knew—

the one who used to laugh into my neck,

who called me yours like it was a promise.

i want that you to belong to me so completely that even you can’t reach back and remember how it felt.

let that small, secret joy belong only to the me who loved you first—to this selfish heart of mine.

— yshro.

[parisdimi]

hi, my love,

i think i’m finally going to let you go.

i’ve deleted your photos, boxed the keepsakes, and, somehow, forgotten the song we would have danced to at our wedding.

still, even with these pieces gone, there is so much i’ll never forget—how could i? you were my first real love, the first i’d given my heart to wholly, blemished and all.

i’ll still wonder what kind of bouquet you would have made for our special day, and if the rain would have blessed us while we spoke our vows away.

i’ll think of the autumns we might have known, and the winters where our laughter might have thawed the cold. i’ll think of every memory we might have made, every street we’d have wandered ‘til our hair turned grey.

but i won’t linger there any longer.

you were my lover. you were my life. you are my once-in-a-lifetime summer. but those days have long passed.

i won’t cling to this sweet nostalgia anymore, won’t see you in everything i do, won’t love you like i used to.

i’m going to live my own life, too. so don’t be too hard on me, okay? don’t visit my dreams anymore; don’t show yourself in all the things i love.

know that if i was asked to go back, i would, i would fall for you all the same. know that i’m learning to look forward, to not miss you anymore.

know that i pray you find a new love, that it is more vibrant than any spring we’ve shared.

know that, even if i miss you, i will not write these letters anymore.

[parisdimi]

you’re doing this to yourself.

they moved on, why can’t you?

the misery of love. —yshro.

[parisdimi]

i miss you.

i miss you so much that my throat feels like it’s constricting when i think of you—so much that i find myself dreaming of you.

not the metaphorical kind, nor the kind that comes coherently.

i dream of you when i sleep, i dream that you’re waiting for me by the shoreline with arms wide open. i dream of you when i’m awake, i dream that you’re still holding me close when i’m alone.

i dream of the time when i could look to you at every turn of the ticking clock, endless hours slipping through our grasps like grains of sand in an hourglass. i didn’t know then that it could end.

i dream of you when i stop by the flower shop, imagining sending you painted pictures of their blooming buds. i dream of telling you about the new friend i made, about the new plant that sprouted, about how life has slowly changed. i dream of your endless assurance, promising that you’ll always stay.

i dream of you so often that i almost believe it’s reality.

truth be told, i don’t know if that’s romantic or pathetic. that line had blurred so long ago, whether it be through forcefully smudged ink or unrelenting waves of tears.

i dream our time hasn’t run out. maybe the somber truth is that you will always be my eden, my abode—my sweet solidarity. maybe i’ll always miss you.

— yshro.