Way too many times in these past 4 years have I woken up to find a friend has suddenly vanished/left the friend group without warning. In some cases, they were active mere hours before vanishing, making it more confusing why they vanish.
There's no drama, no toxicity, none of that that would have caused them to leave. A lot of the time, we later learn they simply decided to move on in life to other people or things - and we respect that. One can't stay in the same place and/or with the same friends forever. Things change. People change. That's just the nature of life.
But it's sad when it happens in front of you. With people you considered good, or even great/close, friends.
Sometimes I catch myself thinking "I wonder what they're up to now" with people who I used to call friends but who've now moved onto other things, places, and people.
Yes, this post was prompted by another friend suddenly leaving the friend group, and they were active and sharing their (amazing!) art literally hours before that. I respect if they simply wanted to move on in life. It's still saddening to lose another friend.
To everyone I've previously called a friend and who just decided to move on, I hope you're doing good wherever you are and whomever you're friends with now. Genuinely. It was fun chatting and laughing and (sometimes) playing video games with you when you were around.