"Don’ care who they is an’ where they been or what they doin’, if it hadn’t been for me an’ what I always believed in an’ done, then none of it wouldn’t never have happened."
SECOND SOURCE #4
My topic is Family and Relationships and conflict , This is said by Mama Flora at the end of the book. I think this shows how even though family has its ups and downs and difficult circumstances and conflicts between parent and child theres always that one grandparent or parent who who brings the family together. Whose the strength of their family , that faithfully pull their family through. Definitely describes mama Flora and even reminds me of my great grandmother. (via najaeratcliff)
It’s crazy to think that there’s usually always that 1 person that pulls a family together. After a fight or argument or when the family is having a hard time there’s always that 1 person that can pull the whole family back together no matter what. I know for me personally that was my grandmother and when she passed no one really stepped up and took her place to pull the family together during rough times and because of it the family hasn’t been the same since. When looking at family and relationships I would focus a little on the different roles in a family. There’s the glue, the rock, the mediator, the reject, the background, the golden child, and so on.
I agree with this. That one person in my family used to be my mom. When my parents got separated it was like there was a hole in our family. It seemed like she was no longer the glue, it's like we're all going our separate ways,mad if we aren't even a family anymore. So I understand that feeling you got when your grandmother passed because no has stepped up in my family and we aren't the same anymore.