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@talesofamaskeddeviant
My Fourth Oath
I make it a habit to swear an oath each year to myself and my community as a flag bearer. I haven’t written in a very long time. Life has kept me busy. Turning 30 has made me realize that opportunity exists on a finite timeline: every moment, every action accounts for something on the grand scheme of things. I’m no longer as capable as I was four years back. My experiences have left me jaded,…
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Update: May 2017
Not dead. Just busy. Updates soon, fellow deviants. Also cheesecake. ♥
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Kink-Spotting
As inspired by the Trainspotting monologue, in anticipation of Trainspotting 2. Choose kink. Choose a role. Choose responsibility. Choose a clique. Choose a fucking expensive sex toy. Choose dungeon equipment, sex swings, dildos and volumes of how-to bondage manuals. Choose self-awareness, anxiety and aftercare. Choose…
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The Shadow over the Horizon: A Rallying Cry
The Shadow over the Horizon: A Rallying Cry
I have been silent for a lack of better words and for that alone I must ask for forgiveness. Know that I do not speak for everyone. I lack the capacity to speak on behalf for anyone nor do I feel qualified to do that. Those of you who are already familiar with my habits, whether from my previous writings or direct interactions,…
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An Open Message to He-Who-Should-Not-Be-Named
Look. Real talk? Real talk. Us “weirdos” only do the things we do with express consent. Everything about what we do in private is with consent. We don’t grab strangers by their crotch without getting thrown out into the curb or getting curbstomped entirely. There is no gray area. It’s either yes or no and understanding that no means no. Plain and simple. Black and white. No “it’s just locker…
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Reflections: A Saturday Evening
Reflections: A Saturday Evening
Reflections is a series of short stories that aims to capture glimpses into the vibrant essence of my local community. Brief moments of human interaction, alluded conversation, and candidness – all with due respect for everyone’s privacy. It is a series that aims to capture both the surface and underlying current beneath the face of public kink, the wit and humor, which has so often made my…
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Quick Update
Still alive. Just busy. Also relationships tend to do that. Rest assured, journey still continues. Updates soon. P.S. This fucking summer heat, I swear.
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The Road of Mortality (Death and Grief in the Scene)
The Road of Mortality (Death and Grief in the Scene)
Note: This will be a long post nor will it be an easy one. I take the time now to gently remind you that reading this is entirely optional, but the issues that it will address is grief, death, and mourning. Every one is entitled to share their opinions though I advise that you remain as civil, polite, and respectful as possible. Be warned: This may be a heavy read for some.…
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Polyamory/Open Relationships in a Nutshell Basically.
Blog UPDATE: RE: Self-consciousness in the BDSM scene
Dont Compare Yourself
It’s very late where I am as I’m writing this but I figured I’d put my thoughts down in writing. I’ll edit this stuff later (or procrastinate and forget to) I’ve been meeting a lot of newcomers in the scene lately. Most of the time I try my best to get the ball rolling – I don’t mean immediately dive into play and activity with a complete stranger – but essentially try and break the ice a bit.…
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An Affirmation
Today I will offer you a gift. As a writer, the gift of words is indirect. It is presented in the form of their work. The purpose of literature is the ability to provide a platform for personal thoughts, ideas, and emotions. The relationship of a writer to their audience is therefore a delicate one. There are no negotiations nor given warnings. The trust is given without indication and consent…
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Harsh Realizations
The process of writing has always been a passion of mine. I write for many reasons, sometimes to get a weight off my chest, other times to offer bits and pieces of insights to relatable topics. In that my experiences are a human one, I do not feel the need to cut short the bluntness of my tone; as a writer, my intent must be as clear and precise as regular conversation. My experiences have been…
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Blog Update: An Introduction to BDSM
Blog UPDATE: An Introduction to BDSM. // http://wp.me/p39VO1-ie
Blog UPDATE: An Introduction to BDSM. #bondage #fetish #BDSM #alt-pride #BDSM-pride
Alright. Apparently I’ve reached the point in the past eight years of being in the scene where people have approached me for advice. In the humble words of an older leather man, I’m not Yoda. I’m *just* another kinky deviant. Therefore anything that I say should, like anything else in the scene, be left open to interpretation. Now I’m no expert on anything and frankly I don’t think I’ll ever be.…
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Inactivity: Report I've been taking a break from my writing, let alone the memoir named after this blog, but rest assured that period of wait will soon be over.