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[mademoisellehypergamy]

Men have started wars for sex, killed for sex, risked their families, careers, and lives, for SEX. Pussy is power, currency, and purpose. And it’s time for these men to pay up. 

Today I’m going to go over the topic of sex & hypergamy, because pussy is power, and it’s time to claim it.

🌺  YOU DO NOT OWE MEN SEX. EVER. Ladies, I don’t care if a man buys you the world: he does not deserve sex. Men do not deserve sex for providing for you. If you think you should have sex with a man after he gives you some money, your mindset is low value.  Your womanhood, your sexuality, your feminine energy, your essence, ALL OF THIS, is priceless. You are a hypergamous woman and deserve to be provided for. You deserve it! It is your birth right! These men do not get sex for doing what they are supposed to do!!! 

🌺 Yes, All Men Want Sex. Let’s be upfront ladies, all men want sex from women. Even ‘nice guys’. Men are men, and they all want sex. Period. If you are naive or cannot accept this, I don’t know what to tell you because this is the reality. Now, this doesn’t mean they can’t wait. Just because a dog wants to go play fetch in the rain, doesn’t mean you will go play fetch with him in the rain. Men can wait. Men know how to wait. They just don’t want to wait unless he wants you enough.

🌺 If a Men Wants You, He Will Do Anything To Obtain You. This is a FACT. If a man wants a woman, he will not bat an eye lash to buy you cars, homes, and pay off your debt. Whether you are intimate with him or not. As long as he wants you, he will invest. If a man is not investing, he doesn’t want you.

🌺  Men Love the Chase. Delay. Delay. Delay. Men will use a woman for sex, money, and a place to live. He will keep using her as long as she is accessible and easy. Why? BECAUSE MEN WANT SEX. Why would he reject free sex? Would you reject free money from a wealthy man? The saddest part is a man will also ALWAYS leave the woman for something better and harder to obtain. Do not get played ladies. 

Think about it: If you give sex to man on the 3rd date, what makes you any different from the girl he Netflix & Chilled with last night? NOTHING. Men act like they hate the chase, when it drives them crazy and they love it. Part of the chase is delaying sex, and the longer you can delay it, the better.

Delaying sex is not hard to do as long as you remain seductive and alluring in other areas . Some tips to delay intimacy:

- Say you’re a virgin. Ladies, if you are in your early twenties (20-25), this one works WONDERFULLY. The key is not to tell them too soon, otherwise, they are more likely to not stick around. - Say you’re waiting until marriage. This one is great for all ages, however, like virginity, you must wait before stating this. If you say this too soon he is more likely to not stick around. - Tell him how you’re very attracted to him, but you’re not ready/nervous. (This will lead to him asking you what he needs to do to make you feel less nervous ➡️ ask him for more security/money/etc.) - Tell him you only feel comfortable being intimate with a man that you are exclusive with. (he will bring up your current relationship ➡️ a way for you to secure your relationship/bring up how exclusivity means being engaged to you) - When he brings up sex, act shocked that he brought it up, and tell him that you’re really enjoying the time you two are spending together, but you’re usually used to things moving a bit slower.

🌺 “Maybe” Is the Magic Word.  Men love believing that there’s a chance of something occurring. As long as they think they have a chance at being intimate with you, they will keep trying to win you over = more investment. So when delaying sex, make sure you phrase it correctly. Let them believe there’s a chance. 😈

🌺 Measure Time in Investment. How long should you wait before having sex? In my opinion: delay as long as possible. Delaying 1 year or more is not hard to do if you are creative. The point isn’t to delay for a certain length of time, but rather delay by investment. How much is your pussy worth? $1,000??? $5,000??? A car???? A house???? $1 million???? B****, that was a trick question. Your pussy is priceless and men know this.  But some of you don’t, and sell your pussy for cheap.  I can’t tell you how long to delay sex for, but I just want all you ladies to make sure he INVESTS in you before you become intimate. I’m not talking about a few thousands. I’m talking about serious investments. I’ll let you ladies sit and think about this.

If you take anything from this post, it’s this: make these men pay. Modern society has made pussy cheap and hook-up culture the norm. Not for a hypergamous woman. These men shouldn’t touch what they can’t afford.

🌺  Follow me on IG for more! @mademoisellehypergamy

[tasteofbrownsugar]

So I never thought I would be in this situation so I began an arrangement with a costumer from my job after he ask for my number.He used to call and text very frequently almost everyday but last week he didn’t text for 6 days before setting up a meet. He got a room and we had sex, he gave me $1000 the day after and we began messaging but he went silent again it’s been 4 days is this normal behavior or did I mess up by sleeping with him after only a month. Btw he’s also married with a family.

Babygirl, Rule #1 know ur lane and stay in it! he is married with a family he is time and availablity is limited. All u have to do is make him feel like the man when ur together. NEVER bug him about not being available, ur here for the bag nothing else. Make sure he gives u the money right there ( in the beginning or after!)

[tasteofbrownsugar]

Hey girll Tumblr is kind of dead, was wandering if you know any alternative to get inspiration and posts of the sugar bowl from

Unfortunately not.

If you find any let me know.

[tasteofbrownsugar]

Hello! My name is Dominique and I’m an NYU student who makes films about the female experience. I’m making a short documentary about the stigma surrounding sugaring and am looking for sugar babies in the New York City area to speak on their own experiences, positive or negative. I want to portray real women in their real lives which I don't see much of in sugar baby media coverage. Please let me know if you would be interested in speaking with me to any degree!

I don’t work for free!

Hit my inbox but talk to me nice

[tasteofbrownsugar]

Is it hard to find a Sugar Daddy and like do they all require you to sleep with them? Also what are requirements to be a sugar baby or at least get them to notice you on sites? Im a 21 year old college student who got fired and is a little desperate for extra cash to help me out Advise would be very much appreciated

U have to find what works besssst for uuuu.

Right now the bowl is oversaturated, u gotta put in the work to get the results u want.

Best of luck!

p.s nerve settle

[tasteofbrownsugar]

hey sis, thank u for everything u do for the sw community! I've been researching for 3 years now but I keep coming back to one issue. I'm a public figure. But how can I ensure that nothing comes back to me, if I engage in sw? How can I change my appearance temporarily other than covering up marks, wigs, contacts etc? Is it just too risky? What are ur experiences (esp. w/ running into past daddies, pots, or getting found out??) Anything will be appreciated by u or ur sb followers, thank u!

Being a public figure can be tricky but it can always be advantage in suga world. My advice would is to be verrrry careful of the sds u date/meet. If ur going to use any online sites be discreet with ur prolife pic. Only disclose yourself after u verified sd is legit. Keep it ur suga life and ur real life separate don’t tell anyone!

But! If I were u sis, I would tap in to ur existing network of wealthy men and explore that route.

Best of luck.

-m

[tasteofbrownsugar]

What the best gift you received from a daddy/man?

Money

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[writingsforwinter]

If you lose interest in someone, tell them. 

If you’re not looking for a relationship, tell the person you’re seeing.

If you’re thinking of ghosting someone, tell them.

If you can’t handle meeting up with someone after all, tell them.

If you’re terrible at responding to messages, tell people.

If you prefer talking in person to texting, tell people. 

If you’re seeing several people at the same time, tell them.

If you’re looking for sex rather than dating, tell the person you’re seeing.

It is not difficult to be a decent and honest, open, communicative human being. Respect those whom you interact with and have relationships with by telling the truth instead of leading them on or being deceitful.

[tasteofbrownsugar]

I finally made a onlyfans.

Any suggestions? Spill the tea!

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[tasteofbrownsugar]

These older men wanna date young hot chicks and not be a sponsor. Sir, that's the stage that you're at. Accept it or take ya dusty dick on somewhere and stop trynna date women 10-20 years younger. Know your role/place.

[lethargybomb]

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