We did our invitations online and on our website we included that we need RSVPs in by April 15th (wedding was in July). By the deadline we had a few people who didn’t respond, so we contacted them and it was no problem.
Except for a pair of university friends.
Sent them a message on April 11th. Got nothing. Sent another message on the 15th. I’m pink, the other person is green.
I feel like I wasn’t being crazy. I interpreted Green’s message as having a bit of an attitude and it rubbed me the wrong way, but when asking about it I made sure to leave room for them to say like “oops, it wasn’t supposed to come across that way” and that could have been the end of it, because it is entirely possible I’m just interpreting it poorly
But instead of being normal about it, they threw a tantrum, left the group chat, unfriended me on discord, unfollowed me on tumblr and later also blocked me, and removed me on just about everything else.
Needless to say, my flabbers were gasted.
I sent a message to Green’s partner:
Hey, maybe you can clear things up for me because I'm confused. [Green] was upset enough to leave the group and apparently also unfollow me on tumblr (?) but hasn't said anything about what's going on. Is everything alright with you guys? I don't think I said anything that warrants that reaction, but since you live together you have a better insight into what's going on than I do
Got no response whatsoever. Keep in mind, I’m friends with both these people. In fact I was closer with the partner than with Green. We were all friends in school and I felt pretty close with at least the partner. I even drove to a city four hours away to help the two of them move back in January just because they asked.
Something else I feel is interesting to know is that Green is an avid TS hater. I asked the two of them multiple times to stop posting extreme comments about her music because even though I don’t care if you like or dislike TS, it does hurt to see your friends talking shit about your interests. Now that they’re not friends anymore they’ve had no problem with posting a lot of negative stuff about TS and her fans.
Here is one in particular that stuck out to me, on a poll about which fandom is more annoying (if you know which blog this was on, please don’t go and find this person, obviously. I don’t want to be stoking hate)
Green has also posted lots about how TS is racist, homophobic, every kind of -phobic under the sun, with no real evidence to support those claims? And how her fans are perpetuating that. Just generally being a negative and reactionary person without actually evaluating things critically.
They also made a post calling me a “hypocritical bitch” which is… interesting. And all this makes me not so hesitant to air out dirty laundry
Turned into more than just wedding drama but whatever. The two of them obviously didn’t come to my wedding, and neither has spoken to me since.
Also, my mom wanted to bring her own cake to my wedding 🤷♀️
