Wanderlust @tbhkelly - Tumblr Blog

“If you want to be happy, you have to be happy on purpose. When you wake up, you can’t just wait to see what kind of day you’ll have. You have to decide what kind of day you’ll have.”

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this pool is jarring against the background of your californian McMansion….splurge on that house but not on an in-ground pool?

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That possibly dad individual on the right is so ripped what the heck

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it’s the laps he does in that pool every morning

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draw a lil astronaut?

girl help i’m lost in the vast expanse of space

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Me: you have a soft kitty tumby….

Cat: PLEASE… PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE… SINCE THE ACCURSED DAY I MET YOU MY LIFE HAS NOT KNOWN PEACE….

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i’m honestly so embarrassing!!!!!!! and beautiful!!!!!!!!

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waLk into the club like whaddup i got oh no oh god im in the wrong building im so sorry i didnt mean to interrupt this funeral god bless

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for the record, ‘not feeling anything’ is a valid and not unusual response to trauma or grief

so if you feel empty and devoid of feeling, it’s not because you’re a cold and uncaring person.

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Sometimes, not feeling anything is the only way you can cope.

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Be prepared for a delayed reaction, too. It’s very common to be totally calm during a crisis, and then days or weeks (or years) later suddenly get hit with a tidal wave of “HOLY SHIT THAT HAPPENED.”

Sometimes your mind waits until it feels safe to start processing things emotionally. It’s a powerful survival strategy, but it can really blindside you, because just as you start to feel like things are okay, you’re overwhelmed by the realization of how not-okay things were before.

This may not happen, and that’s okay too. But it’s something to watch out for when your initial reaction is numbness.

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“Fate is like a strange, unpopular restaurant filled with odd little waiters who bring you things you never asked for and don’t always like.”

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““When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.””

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