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@ devilman fandom
Quit sexualizing akira, ryo, miki, etc… they’re teenagers. And think about what you’re posting before you thirst post about them, especially if you’re an adult. AND STOP MAKING NSFW OF THEM, JESUS CHRIST.
#IM A TEENAGER WHOS SICK OF THIS SHIT #AND THERES BEEN AN UPTICK OF NSFW CONTENT OF THEM EVER SINCE CRYBABY CAME OUT
And yet your about “Age: 20″
anyway how do you say this in all sincerity if you watched and enjoyed devilman
why do the Gold Medalists for Oppression feel like attacking all cishets relentlessly for no reason is going to solve anything
hating them back isn’t going to make them hate you any less.
not hating them isn’t gonna make them hate us any less either though lol don’t fight hate with hate uwu uwu
cishets: *violently murder us on a daily basis for no reason other than the fact that we exist*
LGBT community: *make light-hearted jokes about how glad we are that we’re gay and how straight people suck for killing us*
you, somehow: HOW DARE YOU ATTACK THESE POOR INNOCENT STRAIGHTS
you’re making the assumption that every single cishet who has ever been born is killing you when that is simply not the case
don’t condemn an entire population for the actions of some. that’s not how you solve oppression.
last time i checked, being exclusive towards literally everyone you don’t agree with wasn’t the same thing as “making lighthearted jokes” you twat
me: *says that straight people as a whole are oppressing LGBT people as a whole whether they like it or not*
you: *calls a woman aligned person a twat*
not my fault thats the hole you choose to talk out of
again, not every single cishet is trying to kill you. target the ones who are, leave the other ones alone. if our time and resources are so scarce, why are wasting them hating on people we don’t need to hate?
did you seriously just tell a woman that she’s talking out of her vagina as a means of dismissing her opinion, fuck RIGHT off
galesofnovember replied to your post:I’m definitely a fan of the term wlw, not so much…
idk if you are going to get pushback on this as downplaying bi-women’s issues..but if you do, I think it’s important to point out that “the woman you love will die violently in front of you, which will be a good thing, because it will fix you.” is ALSO a horrifying homophobic message direct at bi women
TY, that’s an excellent point.
why the fuck are you still friends with this vile terf who’s trying to smear a trans woman with a false rape accusation
@galesofnovember is a terf it’s undeniable even if she puts on a friendly exterior and courts the company of non awful cis people she’s not a friend to trans ppl ever
this isn’t an attack it’s a gentle reminder that the things she did still aren’t ok and she’s still awful. nothings changed, she never said sorry.
block and move on, or at least do the decency of pretending to but plz don’t delete you’re one of my friends on here and otherwise you do make me feel very safe aside from the gales issue
I’m not wrong for exclusively being attracted to VAGINAS.
You’re not ‘wrong’, you’re just bi-for-box… that or willfully ignorant about trans female biology.
They’re the same parts, with the same scent, the same taste, the same capacity for self-lubrication, arranged differently.
You’re like the kid who freaked out when we changed burrito night to taco night (you know, except for contributing to the death of trans women). Same filling even.
And it is indeed transmisogynistic to pretend otherwise. But don’t worry, nobody wants you to get anywhere near a trans woman’s genitalia either. We just want you to stop trying to police those of us lesbians who do love queer trans women… you know, the women who we’ll probably recognize are the majority of the lesbian community some time after we stop doing everything in our power as a society to dissuade transition.
I am attracted to women, whose sex is between their ears. Genital morphology is little more than packaging. And if you’re like every other CAFAB queer on the planet, you already don’t mind the morphology… and they say straight men are the ones obsessed with silicone female anatomy. ^_^;
PS: You have a prostate.
valeriekeefe is an mra who said an 8 yr old girl being raped wasn't that bad b/c she benefited from damseling
and she's just generally a shit person
medievalpoc is a white person making money by self-admitingly providing eurocentric commentary and then some downright incorrect ancient aliens tier historiography and is making more money than adjuncts (including adjunct faculty of color!) teaching actual history
literally making money to the tune of $1k per month; is asking for $2k a month to start working on a medievalpoc BOOK. this book would be eurocentric commentary built on the publicly available work of others who have worked much harder than them w/o the inaccuracy + lack of honesty and sensitivity
It’s not like I’m saying this is true or not but do you have any sources or evidence? Like when you make callout posts like this there should be at least something you can show people as examples. Sources, links, screencaps, etc. Got any we can look at?
http://omgstopbeingashittyperson.tumblr.com/post/84876450403/this-is-girljanitor-they-identify-as-two-spirit
http://sagwaaaaa.tumblr.com/post/80407872285/tumblr-has-been-such-an-important-place-to-a-lot#notes
http://claidilady.tumblr.com/post/93735101627/medievalpoc-is-scamming-you-heres-how-and-why
http://witchy-moomin.tumblr.com/post/84487526166/a-few-notes-on-why-i-dislike-girljanitor-medievalpoc
http://panaghiotis223.tumblr.com/post/90600379257/problems-with-medievalpoc-tw-rape-racism
talesfromthewater werent u the one who asked me if i followed medivalpoc i found the reciepts
I had no fucking clue about this. Thanks! Gonna stop following them now.
tbh a lot of ppl didn’t!!! :)
Could you please not reblog things calling Korrasami lesbians? They're bisexual, not lesbian, and it's kinda fucked up how we can't have a canon bisexual couple without people mislabeling them. It just contributes to bi-erasure, and it's not something I want to see on my dash.
hmm how to respond
It wasn’t my intention to be hurtful, so I apologize there. I liked the art and so reblogged it without further thought. You are right that bi-erasure is a messed up thing, and it happened/s still in the fandom.
That being said, can we compromise? any tag you rec to use?
"Anon said: Okay, so, this hatred of labeling Korrasami as lesbian is ticking me off. As a lesbian myself who advocates for LGBT rights pretty strongly and actively, I get that bi exposure and awareness is a big deal, but at this point in the awareness game, we need to be happy for ANY LGBT representation. Don’t tag it any different or ask the artists to put any warning label for calling them lesbian/bi cause that’s just silly for someone overreacting and making a good thing bad."
reblogging the pm to this since it’s related
”actualasamisato said: However, I do think the semantic quibbling is besides the point and somewhat mute. The fact that Korra and Asami are together should be celebrated by all women. I think we should just drop the ‘lesbian/bi’ arguments all together and just let it be.”
and this reply
So, no additional tagging because that’d be saying identifying them as lesbian is a bad thing, when it’s not. Sorry anon! And so sorry for even suggesting it
I’m not gonna be answering anymore questions on this however bc maaan has this been a can of worms
No fuck this. You people are acting like “Oh them darn bisexuals, can’t they just accept that they dont exist?” No fuck off. We aren’t saying “Call them bisexual because lesbians are gross ew” We’re saying “We literally have zero representation of bisexuals becaus ethe world doesnt believe we exist, now that we have a bisexual couple, please don’t erase them” I’m not saying tag your lesbian korrasami bullshit, I’m just sayingg know that when you reblog it a bisexual person is going to see it ad be confused and hurt about their own identity because you fuckers wont even call a canonically bisexual pair bisexual. Fuck you.
we don't have "literally no representation" bisexuals have literal representation in media. not much and it's usually shit but it exists. so do lesbians. again, not much. the characters aren't specified either way and honestly if seeing a drawing of two women holding hands titled "qt lesbians" hurts you so badly you might want to take a step back and re-evaluate.
Could you please not reblog things calling Korrasami lesbians? They're bisexual, not lesbian, and it's kinda fucked up how we can't have a canon bisexual couple without people mislabeling them. It just contributes to bi-erasure, and it's not something I want to see on my dash.
hmm how to respond
It wasn’t my intention to be hurtful, so I apologize there. I liked the art and so reblogged it without further thought. You are right that bi-erasure is a messed up thing, and it happened/s still in the fandom.
That being said, can we compromise? any future artist captions calling them lesbians will be tagged say, #lesbian mention cw?
omg literally please do not “cw” for lesbian mentions what on earth no
WARNING! contents may contain lesbians!
lmao @ all the "they could even be biromantic lesbians! or PAN!!" comments I want to barf
- drinking buddies + occasional noromo fuckbuddies y/y?
- I want to live in a coffee shop au with you
- I’m not sure if I have a crush on you or your character
- I want to adopt a whole litter of puppies and get a little farm in the countryside with you
- take me on your...
"noromo" is a play on nohomo delete it from your vocabulary
LG folks are still bathing in willful ignorance about what monosexism actually is so I’m calling an audible here and from now on we’re just gonna call it “gay privilege.”
bi tumblr monosexism lgbt lgbtqiap mogai homophobia tw apparently lmfao
Newton/Hermann is kind of problematic considering Hermann has a wife and a kid on the way.
Do people not care that them hooking up would be cheating on Vanessa Gottlieb?
who the fuck is vanessa?
um hermann is canonically married.
oh cool which part of the movie do they talk about it?
they don’t the guy who wrote the screenplay said Hermann is married to a British WoC
you mean, in no part of the movie, which i’ve seen five times, do they talk about this mystical woman that hermann is married to. in the self contained movie, whose only continuity is the movie itself, there is no mention of vanessa gottlieb. and you just expect me to drop a queer relationship. for her.
okay.
um, no, shes from the comics, but theres a race factor here too, in which the fandom prefers to ship two canonically straight white men with each other rather than the one with the WoC he is fucking married to. Thats a thing.
her only appearance is a line in the non canon novel's bio page for hermann. it says "Next of kin: Vanessa, pregnant, due 20whatever"
that's it.
read the comic, it's terrible, or the novel, it's worse.
honestly sick to death of the amount of manipulation trans men use on women on this site. textbook male behavior, and they get to get away w/ it bc they guilt women (usually cis) into thinking they don’t benefit from misogyny & transmisogyny when they’re using both to their advantage
wat
#omg god bless #so many ppl don’t know that the fear of eyes is not called scopophobia!!!!! #it’s called ommetaphobia and I know bc I may or may not have it aha #close ups of eyes freak me out
Bisexuality and Ageism
I can only really talk about one perspective of ageism in the LGBTQ community. I’m 20 and I’ve been out for 2 years. I’m sure I’ll continue facing ageist issues in regards to my sexuality throughout my life.
I’ve actually faced two very different prejudices due to my age.
The first one is that because I’m the age that I am, people (usually people of my generation and/or Gen Xers) actually expect me to be queer. It’s not a spoken prejudice, but when I introduce myself to someone in that age range, especially when I’m with my boyfriend, they seem surprised when they think that I’m straight. If I get the chance to say “actually, I’m bisexual” or otherwise gently correct their assumption in the conversation, they’ll usually respond with a not-at-all-surprised “oh, okay.” Almost as if they were expecting me not to be straight because I’m a college-aged girl.
The second one is that I’m too young to determine my sexuality. This one seems to be really common when people come out in their early teens, but I came out when I was 18, so I never thought that this was something that I’d deal with. Unfortunately, I was sorely mistaken. I get the “well you’re a college student, so maybe you’re just experimenting” response a lot as well as the “well how do you know if thats actually what you’re feeling or if it’s just a phase” response. Because apparently the whole world thinks that you can’t determine your sexuality until you’re out of college and focused on other things like your career and marriage.
Due to my experiences and other people’s stories, I think that ageism is a huge problem in the LGBTQ community as a whole, not just the bi community. It seems like there’s this cultural idea that you can’t be a certain orientation (or anything other than straight) if you’re outside the age range of like 15-35. Any younger and you either don’t get taken seriously or get horribly bullied and any older and you’re either a special flower or a homewrecker.
I think that in order to get rid of this ageist prejudice, we need to consider and listen to stories from a bunch of different sources and age groups, not just millennials and Gen Xers. I understand that it’s easier for kids that are coming out now to relate to stories of people closer to their age, but it’s also important for them to read about what it’s like for bisexuals later in life. This is so important because that way they can understand what they need to change (or at least be prepared for) when their generation hits that age and also what their kids will face if they have queer kids at some point in the future.
As a bisexual who will be 35 this year, I definitely agree with this!
lmao the second is just homophobia, the first is people being not homophobic. literally. this is the most hilarious post about ageism I've seen since adult privilege. also you're 20, bisexuals "later in life" is really.... you are millennials.
recentleftistmalegooglesearches was a tumblr dedicated to shaming people for the circumstances of their birth did people actually expect them to not be dicks
#I refer to the blog admin's denial of asexuality as a queer identity seriously though #I don't see what was so nifty about a blog that made unfunny assumptions to further turn away men from leftism
queerplatonic: when the word friendship just doesn’t have enough slurs in it
queerplatonic: when the word friendship constricts your socially accepted interactions with the other person/people and you have to use something else to describe how you feel...
First of all, if you really care so little about my personal relationships, then why do you care whether or not I choose to use a particular label to describe those relationships? Why do you claim not to care whether or not I'm "in notlove with [my] live-in BFF," and then decide you absolutely need to control the labels I use for a particular relationship?
Second, you are not the authority on my relationships, and you have no right to tell me what labels I do or don't need. I'm not going to come to you and say that you don't need a specific label to discuss any relationships you may have, so please don't tell me that I can't use certain terminology to describe my relationships and my feelings towards other people.
Finally, you don't know me personally and you're probably never going to have to come in contact with me again, so I really don't understand why it matters to you what terms I use.
u sure sš fuck don't need a special label with a slur directed at LGBT people in it. in general, if ur too close to call youselves friends comfortably ur in a relationship. if u can't stand the thought of being thought to be in a relationship, ur probably just friends. you can call it a squiblysquoarpsloopslop but it's still identical to "normative monoromantic allosexual romance"
Wait, so Negat0ry isn't the real Negatory anymore? I seriously thought she'd just decided to make her mure widely known handle her GG handle and was making sarcastic comments, but some douchebag is actually posing as her and spreading more bullshit about you and her being vindictive misogynists?
negat0ry deleted her account. The person who took the account to be a really terrible excuse for a human being who I am amazed can even live with herself, is likely one of the people that caused negat0ry to delete her account.
Dear person who took negat0ry’s account: Think about how much I disgust you — presume I am actually that bad — and then consider what it means if you make even my skin crawl.
Stop. Don’t be like “I’m glad, because I’d be doing it wrong if you didn’t blah blah blah:”
Actually take a step back and what in the actual fuck are you doing?
Can you explain the difference between thezoepost and the current negat0ry situation? Why do you think the negat0ry situation (using a semi-public space to reblog publicly posted commentary in order to warn people of the harm she caused, in their opinion) is different from thezoepost? Is it more than your bias in both situations (you view Zoe as an abuser and negat0ry as a friend)?
No. The issue w/rt negat0ry is that her former group of internet friends is basically calling her a traitor and denying her physical illnesses for uhh — basically writing a medium post trying to be honest about how everything went down. They’re also saying a bunch of very other fucked up things that read like a highschool mean-girls fanfic or something.
Which like, okay:
What does it mean if you have to call someone a traitor for being honest?
Why did you take her URL to trash talk her? She hasn’t tried to hide anything.
How fucked up do you have to be to accuse her of faking her illness? What even motivates someone to say that beyond mindless hostility?
If you want to draw a parallel between that and TZP, you’d have to explain how negat0ry did anything to put members of her community at risk of any substantial harm. If you don’t like what she did for political reasons, fine. But being honest about what happened in a situation in no way related to a community is not doing anything fucked up to that community. Something is wrong when people get mad at you for being honest about things, doubly so when those things have nothing to do with them.
From what I can tell, they are making a political difference into a personal attack. And in that sense, you’re correct that it’s not much different from some of the things that went down in the very early days of GG. Which I think we can all agree makes it awful.
