Tea & Discourse

“OP is problematic, block and stay safe ^~^” Receipts, rabbit holes, and all things triggering, odd, problematic, meme-able, and cringey

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Saw the vagina-like icon and clicked on ur blog expecting you to be a terf. Somehow you're worse

This blog is pretty much abandoned, every few months I might check to see if I have any new messages but that’s becoming more and more rare. But this- I wanted to actually respond to this one, because you are fucking ignorant if you think anything that’s been said on this blog is worse than or equal to the hatred and bat-shit insanity that terfs spew. You need to examine your priorities and morals, anon.

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I was wondering if you find ALL people who don't have sexual attraction transphobic and/or homophobic? If so, why?

This is the weirdest question? I don’t find people who don’t have sexual attraction transphobic or homophobic unless they do/say/or hold beliefs that are transphobic and/or homophobic. What’s with this question?

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Bruh on the one hand I'm pretty inclusionist cuz I think capitalism is the base problem in most social debates about resources etc but dude you serve some damn good tea. Like 1/2 the time I dont wanna admit u have a point but fuck dude. You do.

Love this anon so much! I’m glad you enjoy my tea, even if we don’t agree on everything!

[im-fucking-asexual]

me: if I ever become a serial killer I’ll kill aces so they can feel valid about their oppression

y'all idiots: im-fucking-asexual wants to hurt/kill aces

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okay so. that’s a joke about my own orientation. and you can read it as “if something that will literally never happen happens I’ll kill aces” which obviously doesn’t mean I actually want to (only ace I wanna kill is myself ✌🏼).

like it’s a fucking harmless thing to say, you don’t need to read it in the worst possible way.

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Bitch, WHAT???

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I ride public transit a lot, and whenever someone tries to use an expired pass, this loud ass robot voice says “NOT VALID” and sometimes when I’m scrolling through tumblr, I wish I had that on a soundboard.

[fireynovacat]

All avengers are aspec because I said so (+other stuff).

Captain America: trans asexual demi-biromantic

Iron Man: nonbinary bisexual grayromantic

Black Widow: agender asexual aromantic

Hulk: graysexual grayromantic

Thor: pansexual cupioromantic

Hawkeye: asexual heteroromantic

Falcon: trans demisexual homoromantic

Bucky: homosexual aromantic

Spiderman: trans demi-bisexual biromantic

Vision: agender asexual grayromantic

Scarlet Witch: asexual panromantic

War Machine: bisexual demiromantic

Black Panther: nonbinary pan-demisexual demiromantic

Ant-Man: Biromantic Demisexual

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Translation: only MY representation matters

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What a great day to remind everyone that while not all aces and aros are LGBT, many are and they are allowed to celebrate all aspects of their identities at Pride.

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asexual heteromatics are not cishets. you need to be all three cisgender, heteromantic and heterosexual to be cishet.

No, you need only be cis and hetero to qualify.

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I had a dream that someone sent me a message on this account, and logged on to find that the tumblrinas are still out of control. Just in time for June too. Damn. Smh.

[fireynovacat]

If you use cishet when referring to aces or aros in any way you aren’t valid. That term was created by noncis to mean a cis straight person and their privilege. I don’t care if the ace/aro in question is heteroromantic/heterosexual. By not being both they loose that privilege. Saying cishet ignores their struggles. Sincerely, a nb/genderqueer aro ace

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I’m invalid if I say that cis hetero people, I.e. cisgender heterosexuals or cisgender heteroromantics are cishets? 1+1=2?? Is invalid??? Come on, OP.

[fireynovacat]

You are very invalid because: 1. You’re cis so you don’t get to use cishet. 2. Cishet means cis, heterosexual, and heteromantic. Which all aspecs aren’t. So yes, you are invalid aphobe.

[tea-and-biscourse]

Sorry, friend, but cis-hetero people are cishet. That’s where the “cis” and “het” comes from. Words have meaning.

[fireynovacat]

If you use cishet when referring to aces or aros in any way you aren’t valid. That term was created by noncis to mean a cis straight person and their privilege. I don’t care if the ace/aro in question is heteroromantic/heterosexual. By not being both they loose that privilege. Saying cishet ignores their struggles. Sincerely, a nb/genderqueer aro ace

[tea-and-biscourse]

I’m invalid if I say that cis hetero people, I.e. cisgender heterosexuals or cisgender heteroromantics are cishets? 1+1=2?? Is invalid??? Come on, OP.

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yeah theres a wlw flag / sapphic flag its three stripes, middle white outside pastel pink with a flower (a violet i think) im the middle

Thank you, anon!

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Is there a flag for wlw? That’s not either bi or lesbian? We need more solidarity.

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you, my friend, deserve everything in the world. I hope you get a good nights rest tonight and have amazing dreams. i wish you the best in the world. ❤️❤️❤️

What a sweet message to wake up to. You made my morning, anon :) ❤️

[horriblebeing-deactivated201906]

Preferred pronouns?

dont talk about me

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Does anyone still follow me? Hello?

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Can you not have a balantly nsfw icon on a site filled with minors as young as 13?

“A blatantly nsfw icon” are you fucking serious? I don’t even know what to say.