Zachary Swimming at Ambrosoli Swimming Gala at Royal Suites Bugolobi. 18th June 2014
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Zachary Swimming at Ambrosoli Swimming Gala at Royal Suites Bugolobi. 18th June 2014
Songs up North
Romans 15 5-6 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
It’s been a bust time during our first month as Country Director of Oasis Uganda. There has been lots of visitors and lots to do. I have been up to Pader and although I have felt tired and didn’t really want to travel up to the north of Uganda. I have found it a refreshing couple of days.
The work here is small but I have seen great potential and met many commited individuals. Some of them even wrote and performed a song about Oasis and how we bring knowledge of liquid soap and savings groups.
It was in Acholi so it sounded more lyrical.
People here are having a tough time. It is hugely rural and most people live in the traditional Banda. (A small round abode with a grass roof and a single room.) Which are in little circles of eight or so out in the bush.
The people are spread so far and wide over a wide area that the model of community we have in Mbale or Kampala just won’t work so we have so make something that suits the context. We very much enjoyed the time spent with the first savings group that was started here two years ago. They are saving lots which is enabling them to grow their businesses and to pay school fees.
Most of the adults here are looking after at least one orphan as well as their own children. This was because of the LRA war where lots of people were killed. The savings groups are helping people pay for these kids to get into school.
One of the group members proudly announced that they have also been dealing with the street children in Pader who are orphans who have had no one to take them in. He announced that they have been taking them in and with some pride told us that there were now no street children in Pader.
I am here with HopeHIV who are our partner in the area who provide much support and funding. Oswald has been encouraged by the work he has seen which he is seeing the deep impact in people’s lives that Oasis seeks to model. The work here is very small but with huge potential to grow and touch more lives.
We plan to expand our range of activities somewhat over the next year to include some of the successful programs from other bases. This will include a HIV awareness and prevention program that teaches through the medium of football.
What I love about Uganda is this shared community life where even in the bleakest of circumstances the community pulls together to solve the problem. We give people some tools to improve their own circumstances but often the willingness people have to share their problems and work with one another is a real inspiration.
This morning back in Kampala I was given the topic of perseverance to pray for. Sometimes things seem tough and it seems like you are pushing up hill. Let’s remember to let the Lord go in front and follow the example of Jesus. Let’s let our relationship with the God of the universe be the centre and let him encourage and give us the strength and will to endure. It is sometimes so easy to get lost in the busyness of the day and not see what we are working for. I am thankful for the reminder that Oasis does help improve lives and points the way to Jesus who transforms and saves.
Photos from my recent trip to Pader.
The Main Thing
We don’t have to do the school run this week as it is half term. This rather crept up on us as we only knew because of the head teacher's weekly email on Friday.
However the busyness continues as it was announced today that Charlotte and I will be taking over as Country Directors of Oasis Uganda.
Dave Caswell is stepping down for a number of reasons and we will be very sorry to see him go, as he has been a great person to bounce stuff off and his experiences in Uganda have been a great benefit to us as we have been helping in Kampala. He is also from Birmingham which means he understands us when we talk, nearly every time.
During the church retreat which we attended last weekend there seemed to be plenty the speakers had to say about those who are put into a position of leadership.
The things I took away from this are that if you are faithful with the little things, God will often choose to give you more. This is a biblical principle that occurs many times, but we specifically were looking at David.
The second thing is that God gives you the winning strategy. We have to be willing to ask him what he wants even if we have been in a similar situation. We looked at David again in his battles with the Philistines. Even though the battle was essentially the same both times God gave a different strategy.
The central thing I was told was one of my favourite phrases: “Keep the main thing, the main thing.” There is lots of wisdom in that and we have believed since we arrived at Oasis that God has a big plan for the place but that somehow Jesus had slipped from the centre of what we do. The main thing is to put Jesus back in the centre. We strive to do this with morning devotions, Friday afternoon celebrations, days and weeks of prayer. We have seen him honouring his promises to us. Money has come, people are being empowered and uplifted and the work has taken on increased significance.
Today as we were chatting with some of the team a guy wandered in. He seemed keen to meet us. It turned out he was from Compassion. We have been wanting to talk with Compassion about continuing our sponsorship of 50 girls who need school fees. (their funding ends at the end of the year). Now we have a contact and the opportunity to work with them on another project. We look forward to seeing where this goes.
We also know not to worry about how we are going to do everything because God seems to be going out ahead and doing it all instead. As long as we remember to keep the main thing, the main thing.
Parcels. We love them. They are awesome. Did I mention that we love them? Parcel jamboree pictured above. Thank you to every caring person who has thoughtfully filled a box or envelope for us. It makes us feel remembered and connected in a way that is hard to describe well. Any time you fancy a MASSIVE postage bill, send us whatever takes your fancy - including pictures, cards and words which are treasured just as highly (see blue monkey in the snapshot...)
It's all happening at the zoo
We went to Entebbe Zoo yesterday, to make the most of the last weekend of the Christmas break, get Zach out of the flat and also satisfy his earnest desire to meet a crocodile, which came on suddenly after he saw BBC hero Steve Backshall hanging out with one in Deadly Pole to Pole. What a brilliant place. I already knew that you can get a bit closer to these wild creatures than you are able to in UK zoos. It started well with a £2 camel ride. I'd like to race across the dunes on one now, as sitting on it was high and a bit precarious, and felt rather exotic. I'd imagine if it was running instead of walking, it would certainly put hairs on your chest. Plus, have you seen one? They are crazy animals. They have these thoughtful, amiable and faintly ridiculous countenances, and they saunter along, on feet that are sort of soft and squodgy - not hard likes horse's hoof. I stood staring at it for a good long while, just enjoying its unfamiliarity. I think it might now be my preferred form of transport. The next euphoric moment was the discovery that there was a giraffe right at the viewing platform, and what's more, it was waiting to be fed, and what's even more, a man had carrots and leaves that were available to non zoo keepers like the Temples to feed said giraffe. Giraffes are beautiful. I was so excited to be right next to one. We learned that carrots are better supper than leaves; it was a bit choosy about whose offerings it was willing to take, to Zach's slight disappointment, as you have to get in close to give it a carrot, and his bravery faltered slightly. I hung around after other folks had left, trying to get some good photos of it. The keeper enquirer if I would like the giraffe to kiss me, to which obviously the only reply is YES. He gave me a carrot, which I proffered with my mouth, and indeed, the giraffe gently snaffled it with its snaking tongue, and only slightly slobbered on me. Probably wrong for all sorts of reasons to do with over contact with humans etc but MAN it was great. Our final "Should we be this close to a wild animal? Get out of my way I want to pet it first!" type moment was that a keeper was walking an orphan baby elephant around the site for some exercise, and clusters of visitors cooed over it. We got near to inspect it as it munched on bushes and Jude, in my arms, was mildly perturbed as its curious trunk gave him a cursory inspection, over shoulders, head and ears, before concluding he wasn't a leaf and returning to its lunch. My observation is that elephant trunk feels surpringly bristly, rather like a bottle brush. The thing I felt aware of, being so physically near these animals, was how amazing it feels to be close to them. How my curiosity and fleeting infatuation leads me to want to get RIGHT near them so as to encounter them intimately. As I say, this is doubtless a terrible idea for all sorts of reasons, and clearly I learned nothing from being chased off by a warthog at Lake Mburo. Nonetheless, in a sort of Dr Doolittle fashion, I adored my close encounters with these incredibly interesting creatures. Yes, Zach saw crocodiles. No, we did NOT get up close and feed them carrots with our mouths. Back to work tomorrow...
On stuff
Disciple: "I have come to you with nothing in my hands." Teacher: "Then drop it at once!" Disciple: "How can I drop it? It is nothing." Teacher: "You can make a possession of your nothing, and carry it around like a trophy. Don't drop your possessions, drop your ego." Continuing to grapple with the haves and the have nots, and my own attitude to things and money.
Not something you see every day.
Losing it
Adjusting to a new country exerts weird, half-perceived strains on our family. For me, stress often manifests as FURY. Suddenly my kid picking his nose is not just irritating it is punishable by DEATH. My baby being fractious turns me into a GORGON. My husband…. Well he’s probably unsatisfactory in countless ways, and I likewise as the World’s Most Annoying Wife.
Is this how a Christian family is? On the one hand, we’re all just human. On the other hand, we speak of a Spirit that lifts us to more than we’re capable of alone.
Every time Mother Bear shows up and tears into our family fabric, I’ve asked myself if I’m expecting too much of me. Repeatedly, I’ve found myself saying sorry to my resident Shark Expert. Desperately, I’ve wondered how the HELL I can do better. The more I try restraint, the worse the pent up eruption is when it breaks free of the cage.
People, I am sick of being a grumpuss. My 5-year old can only listen to so many apologies before they stop meaning much. In fact that day arrived, when I apologized and said I do not WANT to be a grumpy mummy anymore. He sighed, and held my hand, and said in the voice of a 40-year old man, “Yes, but that’s not going to happen.”
I believe God transforms character. I’ve experienced it repeatedly. The God I know wants me to be the wife of Proverbs 31 and not the dumb wife of Proverbs 14:1, and I’m trusting that where I’m challenged is where we’re working right now.
I figured I need to put my money where my mouth is. To SHOW Zach that God transforms character, and that we don’t have to live with Mother Bear any more.
Every day we have prayed together, for weeks now, that I will not struggle with angry feelings, that I will speak kindly, and that our family will love each other the way that Jesus loves us. Putting the Holy Spirit on the spot isn’t always wise, but…
Reader, our prayers are answered. I have been so NOT furious. Just like that. Gone, as if it were never there. Peace, that lovely fruit, is present. Zach sees it. He comes and finds me to pray.
That’s our God at work, on the inside, and spreading to the outside. It’s the only way the world changes, people. Doing small things with great love, to quote a wise old nun.
One to frighten the parents. We're off to school.
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The Ordinary
I find myself needing to write a “sorry about my blog hiatus” post that, periodically, people I follow have to do. At three months in and a mere handful of entries this is a rather poor show, what? So: sorry about my blog hiatus. I’ve been distracted by life, and couldn’t get my thoughts straight when I tried to write them down. Actually that pretty much describes the state of any parent of under 3’s. Things have been unfolding round our way, behind the internet silence. One of the things I’ve tried and failed to record is the weird sense that although surrounded by red dust and tropical plants and Ugandans, most of my time is spent in mummy land, and friend, that looks the same in Africa as in England. You know what I mean. Wash the nappies. Rock the baby to sleep. Kiss the scraped knee. Make a convincing dinosaur out of plasticine. Tell a great story about spaceships. Do the school run. Practice spellings. I hadn’t anticipated this paradox. In the middle of so much upheaval and shift there is also a strong feeling of being UNchanged. I’m the same person in the same family as I was 5 months ago. GK Chesterton inspires me to find the divine in this daily routine: “Perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, “Do it again” to the sun: and every evening, “Do it again” to the moon…. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.”
In this, I am learning from my son. I teach him how to avoid burning himself on a gas stove, and how to write birthday cards. He teaches me to remember that watching ants carrying giant crumbs around for ages is very interesting, and to wonder why some sharks have curvy long teeth. Yes, we are still learning about sharks. See? UNchanged.
Roundabouts are handy places for...
Grazing livestock. Holding blood donation drives. Parking tear gas trucks. Open air evangelism meetings. Fervent orators to hold forth. Drying laundry. Selling goods. Ignoring.
So this is my new bike. Its an excellent bike. 400cc, 53hp and lightweight but with plenty of power. Absolutely no torque but a high red line of 13000rpm. Zach no longer wants to travel by any other method.
He said earnestly "Thank you for buying the Honda Daddy, Its just great." It does a superb job of cutting through the traffic and its very easy and stable to balance at low speeds.
It also has an obnoxiously loud exhaust which I have to admit is extremely addictive to open the throttle and hear the engine race. It also has a cubby hole under the seat which is great for putting small items of shopping like pork.
It has a fuel gauge which is unusual (and pointless) on a motorcycle. I am happy to report that it doesn't work. On that note, neither does the instrument illumination. I don't travel round at night much so it is probably fine.
Next time you are in East Africa and fancy a ride out....
Like proper missionaries we have now done a little newsletter to let you know what we have been doing with our time here. Do comment so we can make it better in the future.
Rhythm Time
A couple of summers ago, a happy bunch of friends (of which I am one, obviously) went off on a sort of Enid Blyton meets Francis of Assisi meets Pony Club expedition one afternoon. This was the fault of Matt. His friend was selling a property with potential to be a spot for community living. So one sunny afternoon we went through the massive gap in the gate and had a good nose around this massive deserted house with land and stables. We speculated what it would be like to tell stories by the fire together with our guitar, grow happy carrots, learn about God, and try not to kill our dear companions who leave their socks on the floor / hog the remote / eat all the food / default on the bills. The story ends with us being very sensible and deciding that we like being friends, and didn’t want to ruin it by moving in together.
This event is, feebly, as close as I’ve got to delving into my curiosity of the last few years about applying new monasticism by living in a small group. Sorry to those readers who switched off at that sentence. Anyway. Snap back from English summers to the present day, and it seems like God is about to lay a new challenge on me / us.
Oasis South Africa uses a series of practices called the Rhythm of LIfe. I’m just starting to learn about this, but it looks exactly like new monasticism applied at work. There are lots of different ideas about how to apply its principles, because South Africa has been doing it several years. It’s changed the way that organisation functions. Their structure has become completely flat. Jobs to be done are described by what skills they require and then shared around the team accordingly; people don’t have role descriptions as such any more. Their entire planning cycle and approach is built on the Rhythm. They meet every week in small accountability groups to look at what’s happening in them personally. They use the Rhythm with their beneficiaries (horrible word). They’ve evolved into a sort of movement that does NGO work, rather than simply being an NGO.
Now it is our turn to begin applying the Rhythm. Building up the devotional culture at Oasis is something we have a big passion about. It seems the Rhythm is going to help us do this in ways we can’t even imagine yet. Also God is giving me a chance to experience for myself those new monastic ideas in a community group. Given my interest over the past few years, this feels like unexpectedly receiving a brilliant present to unwrap. It feels integral to why God has put us here at this time. Our first step will be a week of prayer at the end of November, something we planned to do anyway with the team as a celebration of arriving here. I look forward to boring / enthralling (delete as appropriate) you more with this journey!
Gloom and gleam
This week saw my first Ugandan networking meeting, by turns interesting, disheartening and galvanizing for me.
It’s a Christian network. They do things properly in these parts, so we began with a very rousing “This is the day”. I’ll say right now there was some swaying from me at 09.30, mainly because Harriet was so good at leading us into jubilation, and everyone else was so good at being jubilant. Then there was a brilliant concept, mid-meeting breakfast. Some guys had travelled a long way so I’m sure they were glad to see it. I had breakfast no.1 not long before but was happy to say hello to chai, bread, banana and hard boiled egg. There was also a disorienting moment for me, as someone raised his need for help - from us - with funds for his wedding, which confused me at first, being not at all related to work. I got it, though, this relational culture moment, and later when another chap explained his lack of a bus fare home I was not confused at all. I was however quite impressed at his faithfulness in showing up from the neighbouring town an hour away with no clue of how he’d get home.
The meeting was about a child support programme Oasis participates in. People were sharing their successes and challenges. Reader, their challenges are HUGE. There were debates over systematic rape going unpunished; child abusers sitting on child protection committees; under-age boys fleeing because they have got their under-age girlfriend pregnant and they fear jail….. Young people go to jail… Troubling. There was a radio story the other day about a minor facing jail for sitting exams in someone else’s name.
Back to the meeting, where I felt depressed about the scale of the challenges, and the paucity of resources, and the fact that only so much can be done at a micro level, because what can you DO when the social systems aren’t there to support responsible citizens?
Then, a light gleamed as Harriet explained how many of the current staff in Oasis, those now going out and enabling people to live and think differently, were once beneficiaries. This gave me hope, seeing in her the very realization of the Oasis hope for lives to be transformed, released into their full potential. We spoke of how you change a place one life at a time. By meaningful, in-it-for-the-long-haul relationship that builds, values and enriches those involved. The challenge is immense, yes.
Praying for Oasis in Kampala, I saw the project’s compound in my mind, and in the centre a huge tree was growing out, full of life and vigour, a blessing to the community around it.
Immense challenge… but God is about his business in our neighbourhood.