tomboy not trans @terflute - Tumblr Blog

#if you haven't watched this you should #Youtube

i want to delete this blog because im not doing well mentally and dont really have it in me to fight.

#im very worn down by life at the moment

mayonnaiseparade

men either sexualize women or try to humiliate them if they don’t find them attractive

terfs better keep their ugly hands off this

elfyprincess

“men either sexualize women or try to humiliate them if they don’t find them attractive

terfs better keep their ugly hands off this.”

You really typed this out & hit post ? 💀

wendyfooterf

They proved the point in less than 10 seconds

if you can believe it, i got an email about finally reaching the top of the like, gender referral list thing in the uk. i was put on this list in like 2016 and just never bothered to contact them to get off it because after a literal decade i just assumed my name had vanished off it or something

#my wife is like thats a blessing in disguise that it took them ten years #if i was seen any quicker i think i would have wound up getting a titty chop

we-have-black-marble-at-home

the amazing digital sex offender registry

swisssjeez

The devaluing of sex to the point that it’s no different than flipping burgers is rape culture rhetoric. If not explicit rape apologia.

If sex is nothing special or unique, rape is just like any other violent crime. If that’s the case, why should a rapist be punished more harshly than someone that punched someone on the street? Why should a rape victim be given any extra care or resources? Or sympathy?

If sex is no different than shaking hands, why shouldn’t that woman let her husband have sex with her even though she’s not in the mood? Why shouldn’t that 15 year old girl have sex she isn’t ready for when her boyfriend claims “blue balls”? She’d give him a hug if he was sad and that might as well be the same as sex. Why shouldn’t children be exposed to sex? If there’s nothing unique about sex, it’s basically the same as watching a sport or Animal Planet show.

#this is thr exact idea ive seen proparas spout #its disturbing

codeinbinary

being called a terf means nothing to me being called transphobic means nothing to me. it’s the equivalent of being labelled heterophobic. like if a mens rights activist called me a bigot

#''youre transphobic'' ''i know''

gendiebrainrotreceipts

Christ they’re so fucking bitter over nothing

yekkes

Do other wlw ever get tired of shitting on butches I don't think they do

Did you get the hetero validation for not being like one of those mean ugly butches :(

yekkes

@honeygordo Bingo!

yekkes

One like = one tear 😢😢

#first pic looks pretty close to my presentation style #though i dunno if i consider it butch. more futch ig. idfk

go back to 4chan

there are no women on 4chan

mala-santa-radfem

i really hate how people don't understand how important public bathrooms are for women and girls. having no access to them not only restricts us from public life but when you have no choice but to be out and you have no options available, you're putting your health at risk.

god i wish access to a fucking bathroom wasn't such a big concern in women's daily lives but it is. it fucking ruins your day.

fidnru

there’s a connection between the numbing sprays for your feet so you can wear high heels and the anal desensitizing lube so you can have anal sex for your boyfriend and the suppressants for your gag reflex so you can deepthroat that same boyfriend. can’t quite make it though

fidnru

to add to this: appetite suppressants so you can ignore your hunger signals, and that recent study that was going around that showed that women who self-objectify are less likely to perceive pain or the cold

subaruseventhsister

The dissociation that women frequently use to protect themselves during moments like rape was fetishized by predators, weaponized against us, and made into a basic commodity that anyone can demand at any time now.

Because it's harder for someone else to use you as an object when you can, you know... actually feel your body.

dowereallyneedthis

The connection is self-objectification taken to the extreme. Making yourself into an object that can't feel pain, can't sense what's being done to it, just exists to be seen and felt and enjoyed by others. It's harder to make yourself into the abuse object that men expect you to be if your body is still able to warn you against it, so you have to turn off the warnings. Being a feeling and thinking and experiencing animal is incompatible with being an object that exists for the enjoyment of sadistic men, so the numbing agents help you convert yourself from animal to object.

musing

i wonder how much of my past as a trans man was impacted by like, undiagnosed ocd. i feel like that didn't help obsessively fixating on my genitals, on what other's thought of me, of how people talk about me, etc.

#is it even really worth thinking about? idk #i feel grateful that even when i do get hit with dysphoria nowadays it's very fleeting #or at the very least it's easy to snuff out #like ohh life would be easier if i was male and if i had a penis and i can just counter that with Ok but you dont so #you dont and literally nothing in the world could possibly give you that so you just have to deal with it