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Kal hotel kai lobby mai poojaa ki masti dwk lo ….man mai aaya to kuch bhi karne ka kya ….randi poojaa … accha laga kya

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[just2dare]

Hotwife challenge, can you do this ? :)

I want to hear about it, please reblog and participate !

[myeroticbunny]

Techniques For Hotwives

This is awesome. Just pure awesome. Thanks Albany Hotwife! 

From: http://albanyhotwife.tumblr.com/page/10

Techniques For Hotwives; I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.

[neswpnw]

Tips on Fucking Doggy Style That Tops Often Don’t Tell Bottoms

Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock. 

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.

LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.

LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.

[lustylovers]

Nice 😈

[averagenudity]

Why a man would want his wife to sleep with another man?

Because I am proud of her and want others to validate that

Because I enjoy knowing that other men find my wife attractive

Because she has interest in improving her body and appearance as she dresses for other men, feeling sexy and desired

Because I want to bring out the sexy and confident woman in hiding

Because it’s all about her pleasure

Because I enjoy viewing her as the free independent spirit that she truly is

Because I like not having to be in charge all the time, to give up control, to be in a sense dominated and still be loved and accepted by the one that we love the most. All without the guilt or judgment that would normally come with it.

Because it brings out her naughty side

Because I want her to experience as much variety and pleasure as possible

Because she has a much higher sex drive than I do and it fills her sexual needs

Because I want my wife to have the most fun and the most powerful orgasms she can have

Because I get off watching her kiss another man

Because I want to see a larger cock in her

Because watching the love of my life being passionately fucked by another man is the most beautiful and erotic thing I’ve ever seen in my life.

The way her whole being responds to his touch and thrusts, the look of complete surrender in her eyes is the most gorgeous thing I have ever witnessed.

She comes back a new woman; I must fuck her again to call her mine and reclaim her

Because it makes the sex better between the two of us

I am not sure why

As you can see, there are a myriad of reasons why someone would want their wife to sleep with another man.

[isharemywife15]

All of the above!

[htxcpl789]

🖤 -D

[lustylovers]

😊☺😉😍😘☝😋😈🍻🔥

[auntiesuz]

Fantasies Do Cum True

We all have fantasies of various degrees of intensity, some innocent, others downright naughty and sometimes degrading, yet exciting in their own way. like the one when a sissy wants to be used, degraded and exposed in public. i really really really fantasize about being used and abused in an adult movie theatre, a crowded one. i want to be seated in the back of a movie theatre, in my shortest skirt, no panties on and my caged clit fully exposed, my nylon stocking tops and garters showing off my legs.. clearly visible to anybody that walks up or down the aisle. The lights dim and the movie starts... and it doesn't take long before this unknown guy sits next to me and pulls out his cock, grabs my hand and orders me to stroke it and get it nice and hard... frozen and in disbelief that i am actually sitting here and about to fulfill a lifelong fantasy i obey without question, he is semi hard and moans when my hand firmly grasps his manhood and slowly start to stroke it, i feels so good as it get harder and harder in my hand, knowing all the while i am doing this to him, for him... I can feel him getting harder and harder..... i feel my clit tighten inside my cage as the excitement builds inside me.. this is really happening, I smile wondering to myself just how far this night will take me

He starts to moan and with a firm hand he pushes my head downward towards his fully erect cock, i hear him say suck my cock bitch, show me just how good of a cock sucker you really are, don't disappoint me... that was the only encouragement i needed. I opened my mouth and took his manhood in my mouth. my hand working the shaft, my lips and tongue working their magic on his huge swollen cock head... before long i hear other voices encouraging me on... i felt a hand massaging my clit through my steel cage, i spread my legs as far as i could in the position i was in so he would have better access... soon I felt fingers toying with my ass, probing my puckered rosebud... my hips began to push on his fingers, until they were being pushed inside me..i moaned and let out a quick cry of pleasure as. my head was pushed down further on the cock i was sucking and pleasuring... i felt his hips lift up pushing his cock deeper in my mouth with each thrust... his pace quickening as he faced fucked me in a rhythmic motion, i met each thrust as i felt his cock fucking my throat and grabbed his balls and massaged them firmly, i felt his cock enlarge and then he flooded me with his cum, all the while i was gyrating against this guys fingers as he was violating my ass... i was in sissy heaven...

Then out of nowhere another guy came over, pushed me over the seat so my mouth was in front of his cock, and the guy that was fingering me was behind me pulling out his cock... oh god i thought, this isn't over, what have i done, and before i knew it i had another cock inside my mouth and one sliding in my now fully exposed ass, my short skirt above my waist now , my ass bare to the breeze... soon i was sucking and getting fucked like the sissy bitch i wanted to be.. the sound of the movie combined with my moans and groans along with the sounds and orders of the men taking me, encouraging me put me into euphoric mind set... i soon had guys jerking their cocks in front of me, others playing with my now exposed nipples and chastity cage... and for some reason, couldn't be happier at that moment.

I had guys cumming in my mouth , blowing their loads in my now well fucked ass and guys jerking their loads all over my face and body... and there i was, enjoying every moment... sexually satisfied like never before, constant cummies leaking from my clit through the cage, leaving me in a heightened state like i have never felt before... i don't know how long or how many guys paid my section a visit that night... but as the. movie was ending everyone just seemed to slowly fade away into the darkness.

I was left there, my blouse wide open, skirt above my waste, and sitting there feeling cum making a wet spot on the chair i was sitting on. I buttoned up my blouse over the cum on my chest and back as i had nothing to use to try and clean myself up. I tried to fluff up my hair a little to look a bit respectable only to find sticky cum clinging off each strand of hair... my makeup was a mess as the facials took their toll, eyeliner and mascara was running down my face as i looked into my pocket mirror i pulled from my purse. i couldn't believe just how much of a cum slut i looked like at that moment....

Then it hit me, i had to walk out of that theatre looking like this, past people i didn't know, cum clearly visible, my makeup ruined and at some point my ass would start to leak cum down. my leg... Then the thought of me having to walk home in this disheveled state hit me, would anybody i know see me, did i even really care now.... i got up and slowly walked out of the theatre, walking gingerly from being fucked so much... it was my first official walk of shame.... yet for some reason i smiled and grinned, realizing that fantasies can come true.... and that this wouldn't be the last time this fantasy would be enjoyed...

[dothisforme]

So you want to talk dirty but you have no clue what to say?

Dirty talk is an awesome way to explore your fantasies in a safe environment, but it can also be a daunting task if you’re not used to expressing your sexuality in such an explicit way.

What do you say? How do you say it? And how do you know he’ll like it?

Diclaimer: the following advice reflects our kinks and likes but the principles can be used for any fantasy you want to talk dirty about. We’re very much into hotwifing both of us. Basically he enjoys to watch me being fucked by a hung guy. He’s not into humiliation or being put down, but he do like to hear that another man can give me just as much pleasure as him, sometimes even more. For me, I enjoy walking that fine line where he’s a mix of horny and jealous. I want him to be horny thinking of me cumming over and over again, but I also love to know that it does sting a little bit when I tell him that a bigger dick can turn me into an obedient little slut and make me cum instantly.

Some safety rules.

First thing first. We don’t want your dirty talk to turn into a stupid argument, so let’s get some safety rules down first.

• Talk about what he like and doesn’t like beforehand. What I’m writing in this post is based on our likes and kinks, and they are not universal guidelines. You should always talk to your husband and find out exactly what it is he would love to hear from you. It’s important to keep this conversation non-sexual, so you get an honest answer, not a horny answer.

• What is said in dirty talk might not reflect real life. This goes both ways. Dirty talk is a great way to explore fantasies and boundaries, but not everything said when you’re raging horny is valid when you’re not. If something is said that surprises you, talk about it after. And remember, you’re going make him REALLY horny, so he might express fantasies or thoughts that is just that - fantasies and thoughts, and not necessarily something he wants to act on. In the same way you need to be clear about how you’re also just exploring your own fantasies as well as his, and might say something in the heat of the moment that you don’t necessarily mean or want to act out in real life.

• This is dirty talk, not a lie detector test. You’re allowed to exaggerate to increase his enjoyment, but I strongly advise you to reveal the truth after he’s had his orgasm so you won’t create a distorted image in his head.

What dirty talking is not

Dirty talking is not overthinking how to phrase the perfect sentence. In fact, once you start articulating your husband’s fantasies, I guarantuee he will be so horny he couldn’t care less how well you phrase it. Just the fact that you’re talking about his fantasies means that he’s too busy trying to keep his orgasm back to even care. Just relax and say something. Anything.

Don’t rush it

The goal with dirty talking is of course to make your husband have an amazing orgasm, but do not rush it!

I’ll dare say that for your husband the process and the talk itself is way more exciting than his orgasm. So take your time and let him  enjoy and simmer in it.

Don’t worry about repeating yourself

You might be thinking “but I already told him that story 3 times, I can’t think of something new”. Don’t worry about that, just tell it again. Trust me.

And now…. Without further ado here are my secret dirty talking methods that’ll make your husband lose his mind.

And then what

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie paying. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.

[becoming-hotwife]

Yes!

[richaloverblog]

Hello guys Good morning. How are you. How's my wife looking. Pls comments and reblog after seeing pic . So Richa do more exhibit.

[amitdeepaworld]

U like me comments hottest

[lovelycpls-deactivated20180327]

Flashing part 2 - it was amazing….2 stores…2 different malls…without panty….and out of the world flashing my wife’s features… 😘😘 To get the next shoot..give us 1000 notes..😎 Like, share, follow, reblog🙆🙆

[richaloverblog]

Its was a amazing experience which i share you.

When we were walking on Baga beach Goa. My wife told me that two guys looking us and passing smiles. I tell Good. Then i see that she also taking interest and passing smile.

She told me one guy is smarty. Then i  make a plan and ask her would you like to do fun with him .

We both are drinking :beers: at that time.  She said its possible?? I told her yes if she want then tease him and passing  smiles. I told her you just sit here and i will go to took one beer for myself. if he will come and say hi hello to you then you respond. And you know things go according to me. One of them come and say hi  and say you are looking good.

I was looking from restaurant. When i come then see that both are talking with smile and his friend standing otherside.

My wife Richa introduce me and we start chat and then his friend also come and we four sitting in a restaurant and take drink.

I ask smarty guy mobile number . After getting, i message him that my wife like you. Would you like to spend some quality time with her. After reading message he smile and then after we both go for walk and he told me that he is with his friend . Then he told ask your wife if he didn't have any problem then we both will join on your terms. I call her and she told ok .

Then after we click some pic on beach and then go to room.

Both guys are too good ,After fun time we spent a good time .

[swhotwifeshubby86-deactivated20]

[thecuckoldconsultant]

The Realities Of Hotwifing

There are so many hot picture captions/memes on Tumblr about hotwifing, cuckolding, the stag and vixen lifestyles, and all the other forms of alternative relationship arrangements we get out perverted and kinky selves into.

But you know what bothers me sometimes? 

How our perceptions and expectations about these arrangements can get skewed without us even recognizing it. 

Expectations for what it’s all like, what it should be like, how it happens, how often it happens, why it happens…all those expectations get influenced by the things we immerse ourselves in. 

This is especially the case for people who are new to the lifestyles or who are looking to get into the lifestyles.

Simply put, the eroticism and sexiness of hotwifing images/memes we see on Tumblr notwithstanding, they leave out some of the realities to it all. 

Sometimes though, it’s good to be reminded of the realities, and that’s what this post is all about. 

For example, you’ll never come across a picture like this…

…with a caption on it that says something like, “ “Honey I just got back from my date with another man, and he was a TERRIBLE kisser. I didn’t enjoy it at all.”

Or perhaps one like this…

Or how about one that conveys just how common it is to get all ready and excited for your first in-person meet, only to have the guy be a faker or flake…

We don’t see things like this because it’s not sexy to see or think about. We only reblog things that stoke our desires. And that’s normal for the most part. After all, sex isn’t the only thing that “sells”…SEXY does too. 

Don’t get me wrong though. I’m not saying the hotwifing lifestyle can’t be enjoyable or sexy or pleasurable beyond your wildest imagination, because it can. It can one of the most fulfilling journeys a couple can take together in their entire life. 

It just sometimes helps to be reminded every now and again that if it all doesn’t go down or happen like you read about in most online hotwifing stories or see in the hotwife pictures/memes,…DON’T WORRY…IT’S ALL NORMAL!

Nothing is wrong with you, or your partner, or your relationship, or your experience. You’re most likely not doing anything wrong. Navigating the lifestyle can be difficult and frustrating at times, and it comes with tons of challenges. 

So if at any point, you run into a challenge or a setback or have a negative experience along the way, remember that it comes with the territory and you shouldn’t fret too much about it. But most importantly…

Don’t be afraid to share your “negative” experiences with the online community! It can help you and it can help others to know that living out this lifestyle in reality is a bit different than living it out in fantasy. That’s why…

Share the realities you faced in your hotwifing, cuckolding, stag & vixen-ing journeys by replying to this post. Or simply like/reblog because after all, reality checks can be positive every now and again.

[fromwifetovixenhotwife]

Wow, this is so true. We’ve made our fair share of mistakes along the way as we try to navigate through this lifestyle. Live and learn from them for sure.

[werjstducky]

Holler it from the highest mountain. But when it is good it is really good. Hehehe

[nicholaus-silver]

I agree. But all good so far!

[mymexhotwife]

For the most we ourselves have had many negatives, in fact more negatives than positives but the ecximent we felt with the positives are out of this world, we love the style so much that no matter how many bad experiences we encounter out there we are not giving out the LIFE STYLE ❤️🤘!!!!

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Watching Her

An old story we wrote awhile back..

We lay in bed together, touching each other and talking about details.  You get so turned on that I can tell you’re ready to go again, and so am I.  We have sex…a little more forcefully and crazily than normal while throwing in details of what’s about to happen.  Our bodies seize and quiver each time that you thrust into me, because we both know that something new is on the horizon.

 I go online and choose a guy.  It’s not difficult for me - it only takes a day (as usual).  He’s good looking, mid-thirties; the sexy, tall, dark and handsome type.  He’s a gentleman with a little bit of forward ego that is a turn on, and I enjoy chatting with him and teasing him for you as we lead up to a meeting.  I show you the messages, and you see how I’ve told him that I want to taste his cock and how I want to cum while he fucks me.    

 He and I decide to meet to see if there is any chemistry before the big night.  We go to a local coffee shop while you’re at work, and the entire time I know that you’re wondering whether or not anything might happen, even though it’s during the day in a public place.  You know I’ve done things in public with men before, and I let you wonder whether we’ll end up in his car with my hand stroking his cock.  

 When he and I meet, there is instant chemistry.  He pulls out my chair, buys me a coffee and looks at me with that continuous smile of someone who is genuinely interested.  We chat for a while, and before we know it, we’re telling each other about ourselves and 2 hours have passed.  He reaches across the table and takes my hand.  He tells me that he’s not normally someone to get involved with a situation I described - being with me while you watch - but I’m just too good to pass up.  He shyly asks if there might be a chance in the future that he and I can spend some time alone, and I reply with a coy “maybe”.

 We walk out into the parking lot and he asks me if it would be too forward to ask me for a kiss.  I tell him no, because I’ve been wanting to kiss him the entire time.  He leans in slowly and our lips meet, and then he wraps his arm around my back and pulls me close to him.  He’s kissing me with the depth of someone who is more familiar than we are, but I respond by pressing my body into his too.  We spend far too long like that, until we both pull away and look at each other, somewhat embarrassed.  But the date is set and he’s going to come over the following evening.

 I come home and tell you all about my “outing…admitting that there was intense chemistry between me and the guy, and that we had a pretty amazing kiss.  You seem a little nervous, but are also so turned on that you can’t keep your hands off of me.  I tell you that he’s coming over the following night and that I wanted your permission to think about possibly seeing him a second time on my own if things go well…this makes you intensely jealous, but also extremely turned on.

 The following evening, you watch as I shower and get ready.  You note that I’m putting on my makeup carefully and I’ve chosen to wear a sexy pair of stockings and a sexy dress, even though we don’t even plan to leave the house.  You sit on the bed and watch as I pull on my stockings one by one, and I can see that you’re already getting hard.  I warn you that you’re “just watching” tonight, with a smile.  

 Right on cue, he shows up at the door, also dressed nicely in a button up shirt and tight jeans.  I can see that he’s already hard under his jeans as soon as he sees me.  He leans in and tells me that I look amazing.  I bring him inside and make the introductions.  We’re all sitting around having a drink and chatting, and there’s a bit of tension.  He picks up your guitar and starts to play, and he’s really good, which you know turns me on.  I can almost feel the jealousy pouring off of you in waves as he plays one of my favorite songs.  

 You’re sitting next to me with your hand on my leg and you can feel the warmth emanating from between them as he plays and I watch.  I lean over and give you a kiss and tell you that I’m ready and that I’m excited.  I tell you that I love you, and then I whisper in your ear that I can’t wait to feel him inside of me.  We have a little moment together as he continues to play…kissing and whispering to each other.

 He finishes playing and looks a little sheepish, commenting on how he’s not “really that good”, and I tell him that he was fantastic.  I flip on some background music and you decide to give him and I a few minutes alone together, coming up with an excuse that you need to check something for work.  I lead him into the bedroom and we sit down next to each other and start to chat.  It’s obvious that we both want each other badly, but we’re also a little timid about it.  Eventually, he makes the first move and leans in, wrapping his hand around the back of my neck, pulling me closer to him, and then he starts to kiss me.

 The lights are dim, but not turned completely off, and the shadows make things even sexier.  I press into him a little bit as he kisses me, first on my lips and then moving down to my neck.  His hands holding the small of my back.  He tells me how beautiful that I am before he begins to unzip the back of my dress.

 The kissing becomes more frantic, and he gently helps me to stand so that I can step out of my dress.  I begin to unbutton his shirt as I stand there in front of him in my bra, panties and stockings.  I take off his shirt and then I look at him with my heart pounding a little bit as I unbutton his pants and slide them off of him.  I’m on my knees now, in front of him, and I can see how large and hard that his cock is.  

 At this point, we’re both down to our underwear and I can see that you’re standing in the bedroom doorway, not wanting to interrupt, but also not wanting to look away.  He and I kiss and touch each other, running our hands up and down each other’s bodies, until he lays me back on the bed and kisses my neck, then my stomach, and down lower, until he slowly pulls off my panties.  You can see from the doorway how wet that I am and you take the opportunity to come inside and sit on the edge of the bed.  You’re close enough so that you can reach a hand over and put it under the back of my neck, just to let me know that you’re there, but not wanting to interrupt things.  My panties are off and he moves between my legs with his mouth, licking my wetness.

 I moan a little bit, and both you and I know that he’s good enough there that it’s not going to take long before he makes me cum.  He’s gentle but deliberate…taking his time putting his tongue inside of me and moving his hands so that they are under my ass and lifting me just a little bit.  I arch my back and press closer to him, my hands reaching down and holding him there where it feels the best.

 I look over at you and I can tell that you’re extremely jealous, but also turned on.  You lean down and whisper in my ear that you want me to cum for him, and you give me a quick kiss.  I wrap my hands in his hair more tightly, flex my body and I come for him, as he moans and licks all of my sweet wetness.

 He gently finishes licking me and moves up alongside of me, kissing me and telling me how good that I tasted.  I tell him quietly that it’s his turn, and I can feel how hard he is against my leg.  I reach down slowly as we kiss and start to stroke his cock, teasing it a little bit.  

 Eventually, I move over him, my legs on either side of his stomach, still kissing him, and then I start to move down lower until I’m just over his cock.  I tease it with my tongue, licking up and down the shaft and then around the tip.  His body shakes a little bit and he moans, reaching down to hold the hair away from my face.  I look over at you for a brief second before I wrap my lips around his cock, and you have your hand on your own cock, squeezing lightly.  He has his hands in my hair and you reach over and put your hand on my shoulder, rubbing me gently to let me know that it’s okay.  I take him fully into my mouth, moving up and down, and I can feel myself getting wetter as he responds to me.  You can tell how much I want him by the way that my own body is moving, and by the way that I’m quietly moaning as I suck him.

 All at once, he stops me, pulling me up on top of him, almost forcefully…filled with passion.  I smile at him and he smiles at me as I slowly guide his cock inside of me.  It takes a bit to fit it in completely, as it’s large and thick, and I can almost hear your heart pounding as I press down on him fully. Your hands are gripping the bedspread, just so that you have something to hold on to.  You watch as I begin to move up and down on him - slowly at first - and then I find a rhythm with his hands on my waist and we’re moving together beautifully.  I arch my back and moan as I continue to move.  

 He tells me how amazing that I am, almost ignoring that you’re there, and that makes me moan a little louder as I move a bit faster.  You watch my body and my face as I move with him, seeing the bounce of my breasts and the way that the muscles in my legs are contracting as I squeeze each time I take him in fully.  I am sitting atop him with my stocking clad legs on either side of his muscular torso.  His cock is fully inside me now, and my body is arched backwards in pleasure.  His large hands are wrapped around my waist, helping to guide me up and down slightly, but allowing me to do most of the work.  A series of moans are escaping both of our lips, as you watch just far enough away to see everything but be unable to interact.  

 I look over at your occasionally and see the desire in your eyes, one hand gripping the bedspread and the other involuntarily squeezing your own cock through your jeans - which has grown extremely hard.  He lets out a long moan and then sits up quickly, wraps his arms around me and flips me over onto the bed, never coming out of me.  I’m caught off guard a little bit, but love the feeling of being “handled” like that - gently and yet forcefully at the same time.  He moves between my legs as he kisses me deeply, and my legs wrap around his body so that he has better access to my sweetness.  He pushes into me hard, but all the while, his hands are in my hair and his face is buried in my neck.  You can tell that he is whispering something to me, because I’m moaning, but you can’t quite make out what he’s saying.  You move slightly closer, but then hesitate…not sure what you want to do.  

 After a few sweet moments of him taking me like this, he pulls out of me and kneels on the bed.  Instinctively, I move in front of him and take him into my mouth again, tasting myself on his cock.  I’m close to you now, only about six inches away, and you’re watching everything that I’m doing.  After a few minutes, he turns me around so that I’m on my knees facing you slightly and he moves up behind me.  He uses his fingers on me and I moan.  He feels the warmth that is dripping from between my legs and teases my clit with his fingertips.  You watch as my eyes close and my face contorts in pleasure.  He puts just the tip of his cock inside of me, rocking back and forth slowly as he continues to touch me there with one hand and the other is on the small of my back, steadying me.  

 You lean down and kiss me, whispering that you want me to cum with his cock inside of me.  At just that moment, he pushes into me deeply, and a moan escapes my lips as you and I kiss.  You cradle my head in your hands and tell me how beautiful that I am, and how much you want to see him make me cum that way.  He continues to push into me deeply, and then pull out almost all the way before doing it again.  He starts to move faster, and you can hear the sound of our bodies meeting.  My own body starts to shake a little bit, as he continues to fuck me from behind.  

 His hands move up and down my thighs and then settle on my ass, where he squeezes tightly.  As I squeeze down on his cock with my pussy, it’s almost difficult for him to push inside of me fully, and he moans.  I’m shaking a bit more now, and he leans down, puts a strong arm around my waist and pulls me up so that I’m on my knees and his arms are wrapped around me.  He’s whispering to me again - talking to me and kissing my neck, and you can see the flush in my cheeks and the sweat on my skin.  

I begin to moan again.  His arms are around me and his hands find their way to my breasts and he squeezes them as he pushes in and out of me while you watch.  You know that you’re about to see another man make me cum with his cock and you don’t know whether or not you’re happy or scared or if you should stop things right there…but you stay glued to the bed, watching.  

 My hands are behind me holding onto his strong sides, gripping them hard.  He’s biting my shoulder a little bit, licking my neck and rubbing my nipples.  You can see the wetness dripping down my thighs from the front as he moves in and out of me faster and deeper.  He’s still talking to me and I’m moaning a little bit louder, my eyes closed, unable to focus on you anymore.  

 He begins to moan too, he’s getting close.  He lets go of my breasts and wraps his arms around me tightly, moving in and out of me with a renewed frenzy.  He whispers one last thing to me and I start to shake, my body arches back into him and he keeps moving as I cum.  You can see it dripping down my thighs now, my skin alert and sensitive.  I shake a little bit and I turn to kiss him, and as I do, you watch as his eyes close and you know that this other man is going to cum inside of me.  

 I hold him tighter, gripping his sides as he pushes into me as deeply as he can and begins to moan, exploding inside of me over and over for what seems like minutes to you as you watch.  You want to touch me, but you’re almost paralyzed, unable to move.  You can see that both of our knees are weak and shaking a little bit, and after he’s finished, he slowly and gently lays me back on the bed and collapses next to me.  He props himself up on one elbow and kisses me, his hands running up and down my body.  

 You move up next to us at this point and you run your fingertips along the curve of me as well, tentatively.  As we’re kissing, I feel your hand move slowly down between my legs, wanting to feel the wetness and warmth there, and you do.  I hear you moan a little bit.  You touch me for a few seconds and then stop, as he and I catch our breath.  I look over at you and can see that you’re crazy with desire, your cock rigid through your pants and your eyes on fire with wanting.

 He talks to me for a little bit, and then we kiss again and he gets up and goes to the restroom.  You aren’t sure what to do, but you can’t stand not touching me, so you quickly move up next to me and put your arms around me.  You kiss me.  You can taste “me” in my mouth and you know it’s from his mouth and when he made me cum.  

 I reach down and feel your cock through your pants, squeezing it a little, and I smile at you.  You know that I’m not finished and you’re going to have me as soon as he leaves.  We hold hands and walk out into the living room, music still playing in the background and sit down together on the couch.  You wrap your arms around me and thank me for what I’ve done for you.

 He walks out of the bedroom a few minutes later, dressed, and I stand and offer him a drink.  He declines and says that he thinks it’s better if he goes, but then he whispers, just loudly enough for you to hear, that he hopes he can have me for himself one night.  I look back at you and can tell that you are jealous as hell, but I say, just loudly enough for you to hear, that I would like that.  He looks at you for some hint of approval and you give him a nod, and he wraps his arms around me and kisses me again, deeply, pressing his body against mine.

 I lead him to the door and watch for a minute as he walks to his car.  I turn back to look at you, but find that you’re already behind me.  You put your arms around me, turn me around, pick me up and carry me back to the couch, where you hold me like that - on your lap and in your arms.

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Being a Hotwife

It’s hard work, for real. I mean, it’s not as simple as you may believe it to be. There are so many things to consider:

* Do I find a FWB?

* Do I just sleep with random men?

* Do I just flirt?

* Do I exchange sexy photos?

* How often do I do this?

* Should I be actively seeking men all the time?

And many many many more things to think about.

Communication, always always communicate with your partner. Both of you. Husbands, make sure you check in with your wives about how you are feeling. Don’t bottle it up, don’t assume the feelings will go away. Talk to her. Wives, make sure you check in with your husbands about how you are feeling. Don’t bottle it up, don’t assume the feelings will go away. Hubby always talks to me when he is feeling something, whether it’s a good or bad feeling. If he doesn’t speak to me, how am I to know if what I’m doing is okay for him or not.

Make time for each other, when you are involving a third person, fourth person, fifth person, how ever many people, always make time for each other. Whenever Hubby and I have a date night, Hubby requests that I don’t message Daddy because this is our time. I get that, and this helps to subside any feelings of jealousy that Hubby might get. I’m also mindful of how often I message, Daddy, and he is also mindful of Hubby and me. Which brings me onto my next point.

Make sure the person/people you are with is aware of your spouse, is understanding and respectful of your situation. At the end of the day, you’ve reached out to them because of an aspect of your current relationship. Make sure to also make time for them too though, this will differ depending on the types of relationships, but it’s important to remember that they are people too.

It’s a balancing act, it’s an exploration, it’s about trial and error, but above all it is about communication. Hubby wrote a wonderful piece about his thoughts on why he wanted a Hotwife, this helped me to understand even better about what it is he wants to get from this.

Because this relationship with Daddy is still new, we’re still finding our feet, testing the water, discussing likes and dislikes. At the moment, Hubby isn’t getting anything from this - but he is okay with it. And that is the key, that is the thing to remember and check in on. Although he is currently not getting anything out of this, he doesn’t mind what’s happening because he knows it will develop, he understands that I can’t just rush into things. Checking in with each other, making sure everything still feels okay is important.

Being a Hotwife turns me on too, finding D/s, releasing and understanding more about it, having the freedom to flirt and be with other people. Finding Daddy and having fun with him, reporting back to Hubby, seeing how excited he gets. It’s all exciting. Having two men in my life taking care of me, what’s not to like about that? Hubby seeing how happy it makes me, me seeing how content Hubby is. Knowing I make Daddy happy, it’s all worth it.

I just have to remember to communicate, to check in, to remember that feelings are involved with everyone in this dynamic. Like I said, being a Hotwife isn’t easy, but as long as communication is a priority, there is no reason why it won’t work.

- A xx

[oursexyexploration-deactivated2]

Good read!