the very idea that stone femmes/pillow princesses “don’t reciprocate” implies there is nothing valuable in allowing another full access to your body as an expression of desire for them. that there is no reciprocity in holding another against you and within you. that there is no generosity in reflecting the desire of another. the problem is you look at us and see only how it works in relation to yourselves. stone butches and stone femmes see how works it always in relation to each other.













