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write the cringe. bathe in it, soak in it and put it on paper. cringe is where the truth is hidden. its where creativity slumbers and my number one way to get rid of writing blocks

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When you’re a writer, but you also have a side hobby, and your characters are screaming at you from the other room because you’re not giving them your full attention

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One Hundred Compliments

"Your smile lights up the room."

"I admire you deeply."

"You're special. In the best way."

"You really inspire me."

"I feel like I've known you forever."

"You're such a good friend."

"I feel good when I'm with you."

"That new hair cut suits you very well."

"Your style is just so cool."

"You're a good role model."

"There is nothing you can't do."

"I appreciate you."

"You handled that situation perfectly."

"I'm in awe when I look at you."

"The point you made was so important."

"You have really cute freckles."

"I'm happy to call you my friend."

"You did so great!"

"You're such a good listener."

"I love your nails."

"When you blush it's the cutest thing ever."

"I could listen to you for hours."

"Your eyes are stunning."

"Your sense of humor is so great."

"I really like your smile."

"You're so skilled."

"You have a great work ethic."

"I like looking at you."

"Your opinion is important to me."

"I'm very lucky to know you."

"You're such a good friend."

"When you smile it's infectious."

"I am so proud of you."

"You're so creative!"

"Your taste in music is impeccable."

"I admire your strength."

"You smell so good."

"You're always saying the right words."

"I love who you have become."

"You have real talent."

"Your voice is so beautiful."

"I'm happy when you're around."

"You have the best ideas."

"I love your earrings."

"You're a good person."

"I can't imagine my life without you."

"Those tattoos are gorgeous."

"You're beautiful - on the inside and outside."

"I can always count on you."

"You can be proud of yourself."

"Your outfit is amazing."

"I love hanging out with you."

"You worked so hard and it shows."

"You're so brave."

"I love working with you."

"You're such a good cook."

"I'm amazed by your creativity."

"That necklace looks so beautiful on you."

"You're just so talented!"

"I'm happy to have you as my family."

"Waking up next to you is the best part of my day."

"Your tattoos suit you so well."

"I love living with you."

"Your body is perfect the way it is."

"I'm happy when I'm around you."

"You have good rhythm."

"You're very good at what you do."

"The sun is shining just for you."

"You give great advice."

"You're amazing with animals."

"I'm glad that you're here."

"You always look good."

"We all loved your performance."

"I know you will achieve great things."

"You're a wonderful human being."

"The world is a better place with you in it."

"Your laugh is contagious."

"You deserve everything."

"I'm happy to call you my friend."

"Your fashion sense is unparalleled."

"You're so good with children."

"There is a bright future ahead of you.

"Your food tastes delicious."

"This dress looks like it was tailored for you."

"Your art makes me very happy."

"I can always trust you."

"Your hands feel good in mine."

"You're a very good parent."

"We're happy to have you here."

"You're one of a kind."

"I feel safe to confide in you."

"You have the best jokes."

"You're always so thoughtful."

"I love that I can be myself around you."

"You're a good dancer."

"Your makeup looks so good on you."

"I'm glad that you are here."

"You can do anything you set your mind to."

"Your family must be so proud of you."

"There is nothing I would change about you."

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me as a writer

[3hks]

How to Write a GREEN FLAG Love Interest

As the romance genre grows more and more in popularity, it's hard to not notice the abundance of red flag love interests. And while yes, that makes it fun and interesting, it's still toxic at the end of the day.

So how do you write a love interest that's a green flag, then?

1. Imperfection

Your love interest is not going to start off as the perfect girlfriend or boyfriend. We want them to be the ideal partner, of course, but that doesn't mean they're born without any flaws.

They might have some bad habits, regrets, hesitation, secrets, and boundaries, but they're considered "green flags" because they can overcome those imperfections to contribute positively to their relationship.

2. Communication

Communication is one of the most crucial points in a trusting relationship. Your characters have to be able to talk honestly with one another.

Now, I get it if your character has trust issues or some kind of obstacle that makes it difficult for them to open up, but they should at least be willing to communicate.

3. Patience and Supportiveness

This shouldn't be a huge revelation; any good partner should have patience and support their loved one. These two traits are also key to having a healthy and open relationship.

Patience and communication are also important to highlight when the characters fight. Yes, they might get whisked away in the moment and spew words they don't agree with, but the aftermath should be a healthy resolution in which both parties speak honestly and listen patiently.

Additionally, remember that everyone has boundaries. They have topics they don't wish to talk about or moments they'd rather forget. An ideal relationship would include partners that know each other's vulnerabilities and difficult past events, but it takes work to get there.

The best thing to start with is patience. Your love interest should not force their significant other to talk about sensitive subjects that they don't want to talk about. That's simply being inconsiderate and pushy.

4. Teamwork

A couple is a team. They might not always agree on the same method or ideal, but they should listen to each other and be willing to compromise if necessary.

They need to tackle problems together.

5. Trust

This is a no-brainer. Your characters should trust one another, because what's the point in a relationship where they're constantly skeptical of their partner? Show their faith in each other.

6. Overprotectiveness/Overposessiveness

AVOID EXTREME OVERPROTECTIVENESS.

I know being overprotective is quite romanticized these days, but it's an objectively toxic trait. Being overprotective is controlling--your character is controlling whom their partner can or can't interact with--and it shows a lack of faith in their significant other. It can feel exhausting to the receiver.

7. Love Bombing

Here's another thing to avoid, whether you do it on purpose or not: love bombing.

For those who don't know, love bombing is a manipulation tactic in which one showers their partner with gifts, sweet words, and kind actions for a short period to make their partner attached before the former reverts to their normal self, in which there isn't all of this generosity and pampering.

Yes, being a good partner can mean spoiling your lover and treating them well, but if you cannot keep such actions up for the duration of their relationship, then it's basically love bombing. It's dishonest--it's not genuine.

8. Growth and Effort

Realistically, your character will have some detrimental traits that could harm the relationship. That's reality. A green flag doesn't necessarily need to have all of the characteristics I listed above, but they should be striving to achieve them all.

The greenest flag of them all is putting in actual effort into the relationship and themselves to improve what they have.

Perhaps they're bad at communication but try their best to open up. Maybe they have a bad temper but are working on reining it in and staying calm. That's growth. That's effort. That's respectable.

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For anyone who needed to see this, I hope this has helped!

Happy writing~

3hks <3

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if it's good enough for you, then it deserves to be made. don't let anyone else decide if your story is worth it or not.

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[3hks]

Familial Trauma Prompts That Are Beyond "My Parents Died"

𖦹 Parent-sponsored Sibling Rivalry: the parents give the star child the most attention, creating unhealthy competition between their children that leads to a toxic household.

𖦹 Constantly Absent Parents: they're always somewhere, but just never at home. Before you know it, the kid is raising him/herself and any siblings.

𖦹 Emotionally Absent Parents: this time, they're there. But only physically. There never there when the child is stressed, confused, or breaking down. They're like a ghost who's present but useless.

𖦹 Overly Conservative, Outdated Parents: the parents who treat their kids like they're in the 1900s. Their expectations for their children are so out of touch and restricting that the kids don't know how to express themselves anymore.

𖦹 The Ignored Child: this is the child that the parents pay least attention to. They're not quite good enough to be applauded and not quite unique enough to get noticed.

𖦹 The Manipulative Guardians: they'll guilt-trip, gaslight--they'll do anything to make their child act as a puppet for them. They're not raising the kid; they're investing in them.

𖦹 The Vicariously-Lived-Through Child: what their parents failed to do will be what their child will succeed. They push their offspring towards their regrets without consideration of the children themselves and force them to fix their regrets by living vicariously through them.

𖦹 The Parents with High Expectations: they expect nothing but the best for their child. Their ideals are so unrealistic that they're simply impossible, but the kid must achieve them regardless. For a while, they're at the top before the break down and come crashing back to Earth.

𖦹 The Toxic Sibling Parents Are Unaware About: a child that appears perfectly responsible, sweet, and well-behaved in front of parents is actually a demon in disguise when alone with their sibling(s). They're manipulative, blackmailing, and toxic, but the parents refuse to believe it.

𖦹 The Constantly Blamed Kid: the child that's blamed for every mishap. Every time a mistake happens, every finger is pointed at them. When they grow up, they can't help but become excessively defensive because they're so used to someone shooting at them from the other side.

𖦹 Parents Who Never Listen: these are the parents that always jump to their own conclusions. They make assumptions and decisions without ever consulting the kid first, but on the off chance that they do, they simply don't listen. They always assume that they know best, even if their choice is related to their child, not them.

Happy Writing~

3hks :)

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no one talks about how much of writing is just whispering “does this make sense” to the void

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sometimes you need dialogue tags and don't want to use the same four

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