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Hey y'all. My sister and her wife are in a rough place right now with only one paycheck and hospital bills stacking up. I'm opening up for commissions through Ko-fi to help raise a bit of money to help cover some of those bills.

Commissions are as cheap as I can make 'em. These will be quick sketches, I'm sorry that I can't do more.

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Brightheart!!!!

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1,001 Decorating Ideas, 1974.

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extra crazy to see people swinging so hard for big corporate copyright lawsuits on tumblr dot com tbh. alright girl whateverrrrr, I hope the lawyers come for your favorite fan artist next if you're so in favor of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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you're all frothing at the mouth for a queer climate activist getting sued now but oooh just wait until you can't order astarion keychains and baby yoda plushies and whatever the fuck else off etsy anymore

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I guess in light of all the feedback I've been receiving tonight I'm going to turn over a new leaf and become a good citizen who defends copyright law. first up is snitching out the nice lady at the local farmers market who sells crochet pokemon plushies, I want to see nintendo sue that cunt into the ground

batmanisagatewaydrug

in conclusion I've never felt this post more strongly

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someone's probably already done this before but I DONT CARE IT CAME TO ME IN A VISION

#the small lady dimitrescu

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attempts at rapprochement

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Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

#talking with my therapist of two years she and I have been considering this a possibility for me #so thank you tumblr for explaining how this type of thinking comes from somewhere #and it's not inherent proof that I actually am a bad person that I feel like it all the time #life changing post thank you