i can sabotage me by myself

life's hard; shouldn't you be too? CAITLIN | 28 | SAPPHACE/PAN | GENDERFLUID | AUDHD pronouns: she/they/void contents at this point are whatever the fuck. currently hyperfixated on angela giarratana | king of squirrels reblog count: 64 "i'm alive in spite of me." love everyone, forgive everyone. especially yourself.

[cherryaire]

being trans does not absolve anyone of needing to take accountability for actions that hurt other people, especially if those actions are violent bigotry. you do not get a pass for being trans and the amount of people i have seen that think it does is one of the most disappointing things i think i've ever seen.

you do not get a pass to do whatever you want because of a marginalized identity. nobody does. it also does not mean you can't be bigoted towards other trans people or queer people.

[cheaphalloweencostume]

“be gay do crime! but sex is yucky and crime is wrong!” ass website

[m-a-k-k-u]

a bullet would really hit the spot right now

[phosphorusab]

I hate this saccharine, cloying, infantilizing way trans men are talked down to by their own community when speaking about the words they choose to describe their experiences and oppression

‘Oh yes, you do experience a valid intersectional form of oppression - but you’re just so fucking stupid, that you’ve chosen a terrible word to articulate your experiences. So we aren’t going to listen to anything you say! You’re just so silly and stupid, you can’t possibly be trusted to articulate your own thoughts and experiences, let alone be trusted to do your own research. In fact, don’t even think or talk at all! Leave all the thinking and talking to the smart people whose suffering actually matters.

Also, no your experiences aren’t unique at all, negating the previous statement of you experiencing a valid intersectional form of oppression’

The tone of voice is no different than when people try to manipulate trans men into detransitioning - overly sweet, infantilizing and concerned while also being incredibly backhanded and demeaning

Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now

[techiekittie]

God forbid women do anything omfg. When transfems try to explain delicately and nicely they’re being “infantilising”, when they’re direct and serious they’re “rude” and “aggressive”.

Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now.

[phosphorusab]

Being told we aren’t smart enough to speak on our own experiences and should just shut up, but with a tone of voice that’s overly sweet and familiar, is in fact infantilizing and demeaning!

You’d know that if you actually listened to anything I said

[cherryaire]

What do I do if caught outside in high wind/tornado?

1. DO NOT PARK UNDER AN OVERPASS/BRIDGE !! Wind turns into a vacuum in those and you will be sucked out and likely injured.

2. DO NOT park sideways into the wind, especially if you have a tall vehicle. Point into the wind if you can. The likely hood of being tilted over is lower.

3. ABSOLUTELY LAY DOWN on low ground. IN a ditch is better if it isn't raining (please do not drown), but if there isn't one, lay flat with your head covered by your arms or anything else you have. You are much less likely to be hit by debris or picked up by a cyclone.

4. STAY PUT if in building like a big store or some place with a basement. Do NOT think you can make it home.

5. Tornadoes sound like freight trains. If you hear a train, brace yourself and hope. Keep in as small a ball/flat as you can with your head covered.

6. AT NIGHT, TORNADOES ARE ONLY VISIBLE DURING LIGHTNING OR THE DESTRUCTION OF POWER LINES. Do not look for it. Get in your safe place and fucking stay there.

Be safe as you can out there.

[sacred-portal]

[blushingrozy]

hudcon met gala moodboard

[ilyasmole]

this pic is very ilya coded. very much a pic shane took of ilya at the cottage w a lil polaroid camera they keep there. just his pretty bf looking at him adoringly after a lil dip in the lake. and then shane sucked his dick immediately after it was taken x

[discoursedrome]

The opposite of “the elephant in the room” is “the centipede in the room”: something that’s not actually an issue but everyone is freaking out about

[merlinthecowboy]

ilya literally just got back from running errands and his husband decided to be a menace

this is for @shillanov based on several posts from yesterday but mainly this one

[merlinthecowboy]

and again from the back‼️

[shilyas]

And suddenly Ilya looked very blurry through Shane’s eyes. Shane swallowed down the urge to cry, and said, “Me too. Just one.” — Heated Rivalry (Chapter 26)

while Ilya is saying this matter-of-factly, it's also to reassure the Hollanders that he's serious about their son. but Shane is hearing this for the first time, too. he's now learned that he has been & is the only one for Ilya. his reaction is so precious. ♡

[so-much-for-subtlety]

[rozanovs]

hudson williams and connor storrie read thirst tweets for buzzfeed

↳ hudcon week 2026, day one: favourite joint appearance

[snowdrop-milk]

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[aslongasitsblack]

hayden: she takes so long to get ready haha yk women

shane who would give his left arm to wait on and watch while ilya does his two step haircare routine picks out his sluttiest silk shirt and applies a hazardous amount of tom ford cologne: I think you need to get a fucking grip man.

[bovineblogger]

the most beautiful baby on earth

[evanactually]