[the-show-romantics]

hi! welcome to The Show. while you wait for The Show to begin, please do give a listen to this beautifully written song by a certain irish lad :-

oh, forgot to introduce myself! ciao! it's ~

→ j (niall's version) | she/her | infj-t | desi | marathi | major (age) | bisexual

here's a little about me:

༄ i love to read, listen music, sun gaze (only sunsets tho), chai (adrakwali and masala especially), rain, animals, singing when i'm alone, travelling, miniature stuff, illustrations

༄ i'm a hardcore marathi mulgi (don't mess with marathis)

༄ music: niall horan, 5sos, 1D, new rules, bollywood, bad bunny, marathi music <3

༄ i love f1 <3

༄ comfort movies: zindagi na milegi dobara, mumbai-pune-mumbai, ti saddhya kay karte, gulabjaam, la la land, past lives, dil dhadakne do, zootopia

༄ favourite shows: f.r.i.e.n.d.s, shadow and bone, hospital playlist, extraordinary attorney woo, heartstopper, hometown cha-cha-cha, when life gives you tangerines, abbot elementary, the pitt, seinfeld, the rookie, modern love, the paper

༄ favourite books: grishaverse (six of crows specifically), white nights by fyodor dostoevsky

dni: people who hate the lgbtq+ community aka (jkr and tom felton supporters and in general who hate the community) , racists, misogynists, porn bots, hinduphobes, pedophiles, sexists please kindly fuck off.

[thesweetiepienovels]

Actually you don’t have to pick an aesthetic. I think picking an aesthetic kind of kills your creativity and individualism. No one was supposed to fit inside a mood board. Don’t turn art into a performance. Your expression is supposed to be messy, and felt, and you, not for the algorithm. Your expression is meant to be whatever you love, not altered to fit in.

[remanence-of-love]

[valerie-an]

do you ever want to gently float up to someone and whisper “this isn’t a debate; i am actually educated on the subject and i’m telling you you’re wrong”

Yes and I would also like to gently float in general.

[valerie-an]

this is the most positive addition that has ever been made on my post

[patronsaintofweepingmothers]

2006

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you’re judging yourself too hard and too much. stop that

[icaseybaybee]

[floof-ghostie]

"You only like this character because she's a woman!" okay and you hate her because she's a woman, knowing that she has all the traits you would enjoy in a male character.

[musiicpix3l]

Yes yes i know love is love. But they are still killing CHILDREN. over this.

[fluffmugger]

"Love is love" is a milquetoast cishet marketing phrase

Pride is a FUCK YOU to a society that wants us dead.

[eptck]

you have to be kinder to people with memory issues.

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.

you have to be kind. you have to be kind.

[memeuplift]

[youngsuggestion-blog]

You’re allowed to be excited about the little things. You’re allowed to be goofy. You’re allowed to be dorky about your favorite tv show, to make blanket forts, to enjoy cheesy movies, even just to sleep with stuffed animals. You’re allowed to do any of the things that make life a little more bearable. It’s fine, ok?

[kosmogrl]

when you relate to a song too much so you can’t listen to it ever again

[stuckinapril]

[prairiedeath]

women who are going nowhere in life i love you with all my heart

[remanence-of-love]

[stuckinapril]

“Do it scared” “do it alone” are all great tips, but my biggest takeaway from therapy is do it messy. This is especially true if you’re getting out of a burnout, which I experience often. Literally just do it messy. You don’t need to pick the perfect trail to walk, the perfect playlist to listen to, whatever the fuck it is. You don’t need to have a meticulous to do list and wake up at the exact time you planned and drink the exact amount of water you planned to drink. Like the biggest thing for people like me to remember is sometimes it’s okay to do it messy. Put on a random yt workout and just get it done in sweats. Do 5 minutes of a daunting task and go from there. Sometimes just getting up is a win during intense burnouts or depressive funks. Literally just do it messy.