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Well it’s official

I’m a terrible person 😅

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Happy to see u back!! 😍 as always

thanks fam! 😻❤️

thejakelikesonions

Maybe he’s running from the truth

fats

We joke about women faking orgasms both because it’s common and because public perception suggests they do it to stroke the egos of clueless boyfriends. New research suggests a much more upsetting reason for the deception: to end unwanted sex.

this shit is too real

the fucked up stuff that we go through when it comes to sex and how we are socialized to accept our own bodies as depositories for other people is so fucked.

the-witchy-academic

…I have done this so many times in my life

iron-sunrise

Oh wow. Flashbacks

ultrababuji

Yep.

theradicalresistance

Definitely. Pretend to orgasm and make sure he does so the torture ends. I remember a man who coerced me into having sex and I didn’t orgasm, and I didn’t pretend to, and afterwards he said to me in a condescending way: “you have to relax to be able to come, you know. You should relax more” …

mautlyn-deactivated20170727

“All of the women had been recruited to talk about consensual sex, and yet all of them also spoke about an experience where the sex was unwanted.

It’s important to note, according to the researchers, that none of the women used words like “rape” or “coercion,” even though the sex they described could reasonably be categorized that way. Instead, they merely described it as “bad sex””

theradicalresistance

Oh yes, this - many women can’t even identify that what they have been subjected to is actually rape, but call it “bad sex” or “a grey zone” at best. I did that myself and after ten years the trauma came like a flood wave. I think it can be for several reasons, but the biggest is probably how it is a general notion that women should be available, that sex is about pleasing the man, and that sex is something of a “duty” for women. So many women stand it and pretend to come to make it end but don’t know they have all the right in the world to protest and demand their partners take responsibility for this too. With sexual violence being normalized I fear we will see this increase, so we must raise our voices even more and make a stand against this, making it easiser for women to identify when they are violated, when real consent hasn’t been given as it should, when they are subjected to coercion etcetera. Because this is a tragedy.