BadBoysCry

Do whatever the fuck makes you happy. :)

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Moon Over Sea

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All men cheat so marry the richest one

[tahyal]

You really just gotta be obsessed with yourselves ladies, thats the only secret

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Paris apartment of Yves Saint Laurent's Loulou de la Falaise

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When you have a female body and don’t exercise (yet are capable), so much of your energy goes to your mind due to the separation between you and your body. Lack of movement is responsible for the overthinking, overprocessing, addictions to social media, overfunctioning, sex without a heart connection, and obsessive shopping and consumption of booze and the like. The female body is a nuclear powerhouse, the portal that nourishes souls from heaven to earth. If that powerful energy you innately possess in your female body is not channeled, it will almost always lead to something destructive. -India Ame’ye

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Just a quick reminder to honour the season you’re in right now. If you’re in a studying season, nows not the time for partying, if you’re in a stacking cash season, now is not the time for expensive shoes and bags. Don't get lost in the circus, keep focused and remember the season you are in.

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[kingess]

Could you share tips on how to focus on myself and be more attractive? thanks 🖤

I got you.

How to detach and become more Attractive

If you feel anxiety or codependent tendencies with your close connections you likely have deep rooted issues with low self worth, so let's get you started with some tangible basics.

Cleanse your mental diet. Stop watching and engaging with media that romantizises sadness and heartache. Stop listening to music that validates the victim mentality. Instead be very mindful of your consumption and start creating playlists with music that only focuses on feeling yourself and high vibe energy. The lyrics you listen to are the affirmations you program your mind with. Make your Spotify recommend music that aligns with your desired self, train those algorithms. Remain intentional.

Talk to yourself nicely. How you talk about yourself inside your head determines your entire self concept. You create who you are, so when you catch yourself scolding yourself, snap out of it and remind yourself that you're a queen deserving of respect.

Practice self care religiously. Normalize rest as productivity. Make loads of time to take care of your health and looks. Take time to refine your style, scent, hair, makeup, elegance, etiquette. by doing these things for yourself you teach your brain that you are someone worth putting effort in for. Which you are, you are your number one fan, don't you ever try to find someone else to take that place or you'll be giving all of your power in someone else's hands.

Keep your own promises. Same goes with showing yourself that you're a trustworthy person. If you can't trust yourself to be there for yourself you'll end up seeking that elsewhere. Your actions towards yourself will wire your brain to perceive you as just as worthy as you show it you are. Remember that the next time you accept mistreatment.

Expand your social life. Instead of trying to find a special someone to validate your existence it's better to first have a variety of humans to share fulfilling experiences with. Not everyone is for everything and that's okay. Learn to spread your social reality to different things with different people.

Force yourself out of the shame cycle. Shame and embarrassment are the biggest killers to all of your flow. Once you catch your self-shaming patterns you can start unlearning and accepting a new path of thinking, directing yourself to openness towards the world where attraction can show up.

Date multiple people. Dating multiple people at the same time will teach you not to put all your eggs in one basket. You can choose to date just for gaining experience, this will take the pressure off and you don't have to worry about the outcome because you know you're doing it just to gain better social skills and train your charm. Practice is important and often overlooked. You shouldn't date for a relationship until you feel total indifference and you're ready to walk away.

Stay busy & grateful. A busy person with a fulfilling life is a person that doesn't live from a place of need. Once you start needing you approach life from a place of lack. Instead of this mindset try saying you 'prefer'. You'd prefer a certain lifestyle which guides your choices. But you're already contented for what you have. - No one wants people in their lives who drain their energy sources, we want people who add value. This shift in mindset will change your energy noticeably as you switch from tensity to peace. You'll have charisma that radiates self assurance that will convince everyone that you are of value because you recognize your own value. And they will react & treat you accordingly.

[csuitebitches]

On Becoming Well Read

Why is it important to be well read or well informed?

We tend to gravitate towards people who we find interesting. A fear that most of us have is that we’re not interesting enough.

“What if I don’t make any friends because they think I’m boring?”

“What if I don’t know what to say at that date and he ghosts me?”

“I have no idea what this person is talking about, but I’ll pretend like I do.”

“God, I wish I had done some more research before coming here. I feel so dumb.”

In order to combat such feelings, we need to actually address them and work on them.

It’s not that you’re boring or plain. It’s just that you may not have expanded your horizon enough.

Here are some things that I do:

1. Read 3 academic articles a month (this month I’m reading on parenting, globalisation and urban riots). Annual review is a great resource. The articles I’m reading aren’t more than 30 pages long.

2. Read the news every single day. I have 13 different news apps that I use. You don’t need to use so many (I just like being informed in what’s happening in my country, the world, and certain specific nations). Start by reading just the headlines everyday.

3. My brain likes reading about fashion, lifestyle, exotic travel as well. I refer to CNA Luxury’s website for that.

4. If you don’t like reading, watch videos instead. YouTube is a vast resource. Look for TED videos, Cold fusion, Slidebean, Circle of Life, History Matters, Ted Ed, Absolute History.

Here are some topics I think are interesting / you can research on:

* your country’s history

* Basic international history and some of the most notable/ infamous events

* Classic literature

* Architecture basics

* Interior aesthetics

* Famous people and families in your country

* Prominent CEOs, politicians and personalities

* Start ups and industries that are becoming popular

* Small talk

* Jewellery - stones, metal types, settings

* Massages - best pressure points

* Real estate - structure deals, buying and selling homes

* Economics - rates and what they mean

* Philosophy basics and notable figures

* Alcohol basics - how is French wine different from Italian, why is champagne called champagne, what is the most popular drink in every country?

* Lesser known communities and tribes

Based on how well this article is being received, I'm thinking of creating a free newsletter, with content like this. Sign up here! Launch on 8th January, 2033.

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Worry - Album Font (by Jeff Rosenstock) 

First machine tattoo, done on myself.

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—On Love, Marina Tsvetaeva

[text ID: I just want a humble, murderously simple thing: that a person be glad when I walk into the room.]